Life Slowed Down

In today's episode I share another story from the Bible, this time about the Pool of Bethesda. I relate this story to our own search for happiness, discussing what it means to look for happiness in the same place you lost it, and share some personal examples and a story of what this can look like. Many, if not most, of us have engaged in this hopeless search, and today's dialogue aims to h...

In today's episode, I discuss a new perspective on legacy. Rather than viewing our legacy as one built by certain defining moments, I share the idea of viewing it as a daily endeavor, one in which the small, seemingly insignificant actions are equally important. I share examples of people in my life who have left an honorable legacy, and how they have influenced me for the better. Finally, I s...

On today's episode of Life Slowed Down, I make a case for viewing the path to success as one paved by contribution rather than competition. I share a personal experience that helped shape my view of success and apply this idea in both relational and professional contexts. Finally, I make a case that, despite the free-market focus on competition, contribution is a more sustainable, effective, a...

Join me as I tackle the struggle of finding and creating meaning in our lives. The grapple with meaning and purpose is a difficult, but necessary one, and although I still don't have all the answers, I have uncovered some things through this wrestle that have worked for me. I'll share my personal experience of desperately wishing I was part of a classic hero story, and how I've taken t...

In this episode, I have the privilege of sharing my conversation with my friend and mentor, Adam Treadwell. He proposes the idea that viewing solutions as simple, "right or wrong," is not only unhelpful, but unrealistic, and that we should instead be viewing the solutions to our problems as trade-offs. Adam relates this idea to the way we should try to understand others, and we break dow...

In this episode, I discuss the inherent risk of being passionate about something. I discuss the pain of rejection and the fear it instills against further pursuit. I share the personal story of a friend who experienced this pain firsthand, but who has chosen to continue pursuing her passion despite that fear. I touch on the impact that you can make in someone's life by supporting and encouragi...

On today's episode, I discuss what it looks like when we try to "be like someone else." I share stories of characters who chase these visages and the price they pay to get there, and offer a new perspective on the price of their pursuit. Finally, I share some personal examples of how some of my personal pursuits to "be like someone else" have managed to bless my life despit...

In this episode, I discuss the claim that religion doesn't inherently make someone a good person. I provide two different ways I've seen religiosity hurt those involved, and offer personal examples from people close to me who have experienced the pain of religious beliefs being used against them or their loved ones. Finally, I discuss how these experiences have influenced the way I choose...

In today's episode, I tackle a topic that is becoming increasingly controversial: what it means to judge someone. I use teachings from the Bible and A Christmas Carol to discuss the difference between judging someone and condemning them, and make a case in favor of being a righteous judge. Thanks so much for listening, it means the world. - TJ

In part two of my conversation with Jonah Cannon, we discuss what it means to live without an audience. Jonah shares his personal experience of craving an audience and finding it through dance, and how that negatively impacted his performative focus. We discuss the difficulty of expressing yourself, how others' understanding can become a drug, and the difference between living for, and sacrifi...

In this episode, Jonah and I discuss a different, more positive perspective on hypocrisy. We share personal examples of our own hypocritical behavior and the positive growth we experienced as a result. Thank you so much for listening, it really does mean the world -TJ

In the second interview of Life Slowed Down, I have the opportunity to share my conversation with my brother, Dan Rosier. Dan shares his insight about what it means to truly know something, and we discuss how this depth of knowing applies to our profession, our relationship with others, and our relationship with God. I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and hope you do too! Thanks for listening....

In this episode I talk about Oprah's wisdom on gratitude and the positive impact it can have on our lives. I share some personal experiences about the importance of gratitude in the material, relational, and spiritual contexts, and issue a challenge to focus on the things you have rather than the things you lack. Thanks for listening, it really does mean the world. - TJ

In this episode, I share a quote that inspires us to look reflectively at our lives and the passions we aren't pursuing. I talk about the fear of taking risks and suggest a different way to view those risks. Thanks for listening, it means the world - TJ

In this episode, I discuss a quote on love from Fyodor Dostoevsky. I address the growing trend of extreme self-acceptance and how it can affect our relationships, and share some of my own thoughts on what it means to make sacrifices for the ones we love. I hope you find these ideas as valuable as I have! Thanks for listening, it truly means the world. - TJ

In the first interview of Life Slowed Down, I have the opportunity to share my conversation with Joe about his experience with a familiar quote from Rocky Balboa. He speaks plainly about the effects of going through a divorce, and how he moved forward after the tragic loss of his daughter. His stories are moving, his pain is relatable, and the way he has chosen to move forward in spite of it all i...

Hey friends! I'm nervous and excited to share my plans for the future of this show. I appreciate all the support I've received so far and will be working hard to provide you with consistent, quality content moving forward!

In this episode, I discuss wisdom from The Bible and its lesson on the proverbial wells of life: what they are, and what it means to draw from them. I share examples of how we can create these wells for others, and how the process is much simpler than it may seem. Thank you so much for listening, it really does mean the world. - TJ

In this episode, I discuss the wisdom imparted by the beloved Winnie the Pooh. I share an experience of what it means to be stuck in our own "corner of the forest" and how much better life can be when we choose to leave that corner and meet others in theirs. Thank you so much for listening, it really does mean the world. - TJ

On this episode I discuss what makes a moment "great," and how we often fall into the trap of expecting joy and fulfillment to come from these "great" moments. I suggest an alternative way of viewing life that focuses on the small and simple things that make it beautiful and share an experience of mine that taught me this principle. Thanks for listening, I hope you enjoy! - TJ

In this episode, I discuss the role that failure plays in our journey towards success, and how my mindset on failure has shifted. I break down one of my own failed experiments and the valuable lessons I learned because of it. Finally, I dive into some more recognizable examples of how failure is crucial to success. Thanks for listening, I hope you enjoy!

In this episode I echo the wise words of a dragon and discuss the importance of acknowledging our evil nature. I also make the case that effort is crucial in overcoming that nature and developing goodness. Thanks for taking the time to listen, I hope you enjoy!

In this episode I discuss the difficulty of facing change in our lives and the importance of embracing, rather than running from it.

In this episode I discuss habits: how they work for and against you and I give some pointers from a man wiser than me on how to build habits that will lead to the future you want rather than a future that just "happens."

In this episode I echo the wise words of Albus Dumbledore and discuss the importance of choosing what's right over what's easy. I offer real world examples of this idea and how those simple decisions can shape someone's life. I hope you enjoy!