Disability After Dark

In this episode, I go deeper into the topic of dating and disability, discussing the difference between WOULD and SHOULD when it comes to dating with a disability. I also share how it feels for us, the disabled to date and what that means. I hope this episode shines a light on dating and disability more than it has been before.

In this episode, entitled "Accessing Anal", I talk about how inaccessible anal sex has seemed to me as a Person with Disabilities, but that I've always wanted to try it, but felt that I simply couldn't. I talk about issues like cleanliness, pain, spasticity, and advocate that we should have more information around anal sex and disability. I also maybe refer to myself as a human dildo. En...

In this episode, we go deep into how sex and disability, and all the issues that surround that, can lead to a type of sexual depression and anger connected to disability. I explain what that felt like for me as a Queer Cripple, and advocate for space to be made where the sexually active disabled person, can share their experiences.

In this episode, I talk about another myth around sex and disability. The "oooooh, we can't have sex because I'll hurt you" myth. We go deep into why people are so afraid to 'hurt' disabled people, and how this affects their views on sex and disability. I also share that some of us might like pain, and discuss why this is the case.

In this episode, I discuss how ableism has affected me as a Queer man doing the work of disability and looking for lust, love and all that jazz. I talk about recently when I admitted that one of my preferences was able-bodiedness, and how I had never really considered a disabled partner or lover as a desired option.

In this episode, I talk about my experience as a disabled man in the digital dating realm. I share things guys have said to me online on apps like Grindr, and underscore how that made me feel. I also discuss why having disability in my online profiles is important, and how it has helped my own my Queer Cripple identity.

In this episode, we explore what it feels like to talk about sex/sexuality with your Personal Care Attendant, and what that means for a disabled person.

In this episode of "Disability After Dark", I consider whether or not the devices that disabled people use everyday (wheelchairs, slings and other things) can be considered sexy. I explore some of the "improper" ways :) they can be used.

In this podcast, I explore the commonly held belief that disabled people don't have sex drives. We explore what sex means to disabled people, and briefly discuss that sometimes sex and disability is so much deeper than even we realize

In this VERY FIRST EPISODE of Disability After Dark, I introduce you to myself, Andrew Gurza and share with you who I am, and why I think sexuality and disability is so important.