Basically Unbothered

Basically Unbothered: Books, Black Fantasy, Celebrity Boundaries & Building a Life That Fits You This week, Gabi is joined by entrepreneur and Agency 811 founder Myra for a conversation that starts with books and somehow ends up unpacking creativity, entrepreneurship, celebrity culture, and what it means to build a life on your own terms. The pair dive into Black fantasy literature, the importance...

Healing Isn’t Linear, and Neither Is This Week’s Recap This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped , I’m sharing a little bit of where I’ve been emotionally as I continue processing trauma and preparing to tell a story I’ve carried for a very long time. Alongside life updates, we talk about the launch of The Creatives , upcoming bookstore events, and the realities of trying to build creative dreams...

This week on Basically Unbothered , we got into one of those conversations that somehow starts in one place and then suddenly you’re talking about grief, women’s health, mental health, AI, survival, societal pressure, and all the things people usually try to tiptoe around. And honestly? I love conversations like that because they remind me how human we all actually are underneath all the noise. I...

On this episode of Basically Unbothered Recaps , Blake takes listeners through the chaotic aftermath of a writers retreat that promised creativity and delivered… gluten-free disappointment, questionable planning, and emotional whiplash. From overpriced workshops and identity discourse gone sideways to being kicked out of a group chat after speaking up, this episode is equal parts hilarious, frustr...

What happens when mindset meets momentum? In Episode 53 of Basically Unbothered , Gabi sits down with entrepreneur and founder of LogisticsSales.com , Daman, for a conversation about building success without losing yourself in the process. Together, they unpack the realities of entrepreneurship, the power of community, and why imagination might be one of the most underrated tools for growth. From...

This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped , Gabi dives into everything from the upcoming A Simply Different World spinoff to the complicated state of Black representation in media, celebrity controversies, and the emotional weight behind societal expectations. From nostalgic TV conversations to deeper reflections on boundaries, burnout, toxic cycles, and healing, this episode balances pop culture...

In this episode of Basically Unbothered , Coach Lee and Gabi dive into the realities of balancing work, mental health, self-care, and personal growth in today’s world. From rising costs of living and political conversations to productivity coaching and authentic self-discovery, the two explore what it really means to build a life that works for you . They discuss boundaries, burnout, Black women’s...

This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped , Gabi catches listeners up on her whirlwind schedule, recent personal milestones, and the balancing act between ambition and burnout. From a successful vendor event and prepping for an upcoming writer’s retreat to thoughts on Met Gala fashion and binge-watching Criminal Minds season 5, this episode blends pop culture commentary with honest life reflectio...

In this powerful episode of Basically Unbothered , Gabi sits down with Robert L. Wallace to explore how education, history, and entrepreneurship shape the future of our communities. They discuss: The impact of political decisions on marginalized communities Why understanding history is key to breaking harmful cycles How entrepreneurship can help close the wealth gap The importance of mentorship an...

In this episode, Gabi opens up about her recent experiences and the lessons shaping her current mindset. From navigating personal growth to unpacking deeper societal issues, she explores what it means to move through life with awareness, intention, and radical acceptance. She dives into conversations around trust, betrayal, and the importance of authentic support systems—especially when it comes t...

In this episode of Basically Unbothered , Gabi is joined by Dr. Shanae for an unfiltered conversation about relationships, independence, identity, and modern dating dynamics. Gabi opens up about choosing to step away from relationships to focus on personal growth, peace, and building her career. Together, they explore the realities of hyper-independence, emotional labor, and why dating can feel mi...

This week on Basically Unbothered , Blake is late—but very much not quiet. After pushing through injury, burnout, and real life, she’s back with a raw, unfiltered recap of everything happening across social media, pop culture, and the internet’s darker corners. From viral moments at Coachella to the bare minimum celebrity performances, nothing is off limits. But the episode takes a serious turn as...

In this deeply personal episode of Basically Unbothered , Blake shares a live psychic medium reading on the anniversary of a pivotal moment in her life. What starts as a conversation becomes an emotional exploration of grief, connection, and the possibility of communication beyond this life. Through reflections on loss, intuition, and healing, this episode offers a raw and vulnerable look at what...

This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped , Blake blends personal reflection, pop culture commentary, and a deep dive into The Death and Life of Lamar Odom . The episode opens with a raw look at burnout, grief, and feeling lost during a difficult season of life, touching on loss, isolation, and the pressure of trying to hold everything together. From there, Blake dives into: Ongoing pop culture d...

This week’s episode dives into women’s health from a deeper perspective—beyond physical wellness and into self-image, visibility, and the pressure to always be “put together.” Joined by René Jay, Blake explores the mental and emotional side of women’s health, including the struggle to show up authentically, the impact of social media perception, and the process of unlearning perfection. Because so...

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation on Basically Unbothered , Gabi and Joanna continue unpacking the emotional aftermath of betrayal, diving deeper into healing, accountability, and what it really takes to break toxic cycles. Picking up where Part 1 left off, Joanna shares where she is now—sitting in the grief, missing someone who never truly existed, and learning how to separate the man she l...

This week on Basically Unbothered , Blake is joined by Joanna for one of the realest, most unfiltered conversations yet. What starts as light banter quickly unfolds into a deep dive on dating, deception, and the emotional aftermath of loving someone who wasn’t who they claimed to be. Joanna shares her experience uncovering a partner who was secretly involved with multiple women—sparking a powerful...

This week on Basically Unbothered , Gabi is joined by Randall Ray for a raw and nuanced conversation about abuse, accountability, and the stories we choose to believe. Using the controversy surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul, they break down: Reactive behavior vs. abuse Media influence and viral narratives Why “perfect victims” are easier for society to accept The real-life impact of online judgment...

In Part 2 of Acting, Artistry, and Adult Realities , Blake is joined by this week’s guest, Xavier , for a conversation about perception vs. reality. Together, they explore how quickly misunderstandings can take on a life of their own—and how emotional reactions can sometimes distort what’s actually happening. This episode touches on: Miscommunication and assumptions Emotional reactions vs. factual...

This week’s episode of Basically Unbothered takes an unexpected turn after a recording mishap leads Blake into a deeply personal and unfiltered conversation. Instead of the planned recap, Blake dives into the controversy surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul, exploring the complexities of domestic violence narratives, media timing, and public perception. Drawing from her own lived experiences, she break...

In this episode of Basically Unbothered , Blake shares a mix of pop culture commentary, personal reflections, and unfiltered conversation about the moments that shape how we navigate life. From reacting to cultural moments to sharing personal observations about everyday experiences, the episode balances humor with thoughtful discussion. It’s another honest and relatable installment of Basically Un...

In this episode of Basically Unbothered Recapped , Blake breaks down the Love Is Blind reunion and everything that went down after the cameras stopped rolling. Topics include: • Vic and Christine proving that healthy love can exist on reality TV• Jordan and Amber’s marriage ending after only a few months• Connor and Brie surprising everyone by staying together• Chris saying almost nothing during t...

This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped , Gabi breaks down the Love Is Blind Ohio finale and the chaos that unfolded before the couples even reached the altar. From prenup bombshells and unresolved conversations about kids to relationships that completely fell apart, the final episodes delivered heartbreak, red flags, and one of the most satisfying altar moments in the show’s history. Gabi dive...

This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped , Blake dives into everything from books and music to reality TV chaos. The episode kicks off with a review of The Book of Magic by Alice Hoffman, the sequel to Practical Magic . While the novel takes a while to build momentum, its central message about the power of love and continuing to search for it is a beautiful payoff worth the journey. Blake also t...

This week on Basically Unbothered , Blake is joined by Detroit creative Duracell to discuss: • Beyoncé’s new bob era• Doechii’s impact on rap• AI in creative industries• The Shia LaBeouf controversy• Building First Hill Marketing• Why belief fuels everything A conversation about authenticity, entrepreneurship, and staying aligned while building your dream. Follow Durracell here. If you love what y...