Why Are We Like This?

Here it is, Dolls! The show we've all been waiting for... All Stars ALL WINNERS! It's been more than a decade of drag in the making and now we've got the best of the best in an incredible battle to be crowned Queen of Queens! So... of course, Nomi & Robert have lots to say about their favorite show. Who were their top picks from the beginning? Who knocked it out of the park? And...

Here it is, Dolls! The show we've all been waiting for... All Stars ALL WINNERS! It's been more than a decade of drag in the making and now we've got the best of the best in an incredible battle to be crowned Queen of Queens! So... of course Nomi & Robert have lots to say about their favorite show. Who were their top picks from the beginning? Who knocked it out of the park? And...

We're back with Season 3! And this time we're welcoming Nomi's SIster Emily back into the US from London and Hong Kong (terrible timing, we know...)! Robert puts the two of them in the Hotseat and asks them some tough questions, as well as some stupid questions just for fun. Find out more about Emily and Nomi... and maybe learn more about yourself? Haha! Download this and future epi...

Our 40th episode and Season Finale is such a great one! Nomi & Robert are joined by  Kimberly Marsh  from  The Open Book Company ! Kimberly is a writing coach, editor, ghostwriter and a communications fiend. Oh, and we should mention that she's NOT a New York Times bestselling author (though, she's still a worthwhile human). Today we're chatting about what it means to be a Creat...

The News can't stop talking about it. You've been talking about it. Even your Grandma's been talking about it... WHAT happened at the Oscars this year?! It's been years since we've watched the show, but were both so shocked when we saw the footage ourselves of what wasn't a bit, but a full-on assault. What are the connotations of actions like this? What does it say ab...

Nomi Moore's very own Mother, Mrs. Pamela Moore, joins us for a very special episode. The three of us chat Drag Behaviour, the latest episode of Drag Race (the worst Snatch Game ever?), and Nomi's use of the "dreaded" C-Word! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else find your favorite shows. You can search  MR &...

For today's episode, Nomi & Robert talk about why the Influencer Culture we're inundated by is so damning and destructive to any real sense of organic or meaningful interaction with people, celebrity or not. And let's face it... who's really a celebrity these days when aside from acting, we are all doing the same things when it comes to "Sales Media"? Oh yeah, we&...

This episode is all about Nomi's drug use over the years; which seemingly has spanned the gamut with a few intentional omissions. But to be honest, we've all tried a little something here and there, haven't we? Find out what she's tried, how it's made her feel, and why she does or doesn't feel the need to self-medicate. Eventually reaching the realization that despite...

In Episode 35, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher talk about the latest in the classic horror franchise,  "The Texas Chainsaw Massacre" on Netflix. Better grease up them chains, girl!  Spoilers Abound! Robert of course has issues with the film cause it doesn't have any musical numbers nor does it star Heather Matarazzo. Nomi of course loves it because there's plenty of blood, social...

In Episode 34, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher are back again to talk about their favorite show, RuPaul's Drag Race. Season 14 is up and running, and we've been pleasantly surprised by the level of talent this time around. Let's chat about the Queens! Who is your favorite? Who do you think is going to take the crown? Who do you think is ready to go home? Download this and future episod...

It's Valentine's Day, and we're both super drunk on Champagne, Wine, and our love for one another. I know... that sounds stupid. But it's true. Today's episode is a deep dive into our relationship, why we think it works, where it started, and what's it even all about. You even get a sneak peek into the beginnings of Mr. & Mrs. to hear how it all started 15 years a...

Robert and Nomi have been making pretty things, specifically artwork! Robert has been fantasizing about the Disney Fan artspace, specifically with a dream to be a Wonderground artist.  Nomi has been creating pieces that speak the many levels of the film Death Becomes Her. Really exciting and invigorating stuff! But then after making it, we began to wonder...what IS art? Why are we doing this? What...

Join us this week as we chat all about Board Games! Those we grew up with, those we love, those we hate, and why we think board games are such a wonderful way to assert dominance over friends and family, prove that you're better than other people, and leave those losers out in the dust... ...or if you're playing with Robert; as he always says "I'm competitive... I just don&apos...

Sex and the City is BACK, and Nomi has quite a bit to say. Actually, as a newer fan of the show, it seems like Robert has even MORE to say, including why Carrie, as such a Self-Destructive character, belongs with Burger. Not really, but join us as we discuss the ins and outs of why we enjoy the series and why we are so excited about this new chapter in the Sex and the City story! Please note there...

One Holiday down, two to go... the Season continues to ramp up and Robert and Nomi discuss what Thanksgiving and Christmas time has meant to them, how the Holidays can be difficult for many people, and what can be done to help mediate the unrealistic expectations and oft-disregarded boundaries during this time of year. Robert also mentions the amazing book that has been changing his life one day,...

Nomi & Robert chat about how perfectly picturesque Halloween was this year, the traditions (new and old) that got them in the mood this year. Then we take a deep dive into the Psycho film series; why we love it, why it's simultaneously so terrifying and beautiful, and why we think it continues to stand the test of time so many decades later. Download this and future episodes of our podcas...

Robert & Nomi talk about their recent decision to adjust their diet from Vegetarian to Omnivorous after 4 years! Maybe this doesn't sound very interesting on the surface, but there's more to it than you think! Though this decision was not made lightly. Take a listen to find out more about why the change, what potential moral and humane implications we struggled with in making these c...

In Episode 26 Nomi Moore's got a lot to say about the state of the Beauty industry, specifically elective cosmetic procedures; especially on the heels of Linda Evangelista's unfortunate cold-sculpting gone wrong. How much pressure does society  really  place on us? Are magazines and social media expected to take responsibility for our own perception and reality? And at what point do we s...

It's Episode 25, and guess who Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher are talking about once again? With the latest news that Erika Jayne's contract has been renewed with Bravo's "The Real Housewives of Brentwood-Adjacent, High-Income Los Angeles Suburbs" we're still struggling with the fact that people like this are being rewarded for their bad behavior, or at the very least p...

In Episode 24, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher discuss the finer nuances of the titular film franchise, specifically the original from 1992, and its 2021 follow-up.   It's one thing to watch these films thinking "here's a scary movie, so it better scare me". However, when stories like these speak so eloquently to social injustices, systemic racism, and true human horror in such a...

Welcome Back to Season Two! In Episode 23, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher are back to talk about those debaucherous Bravo Housewives and their latest shananegans.   With ladies like Jen Shah and Erika Jayne, at what point are reality TV stars going to be held accountable for their actions? When do we stop rewarding people for their bad behavior for the sake of "entertainment"? And who is h...

The 4th is July is behind us, which means it is officially Halloween Season! For our 22nd episode, we finish up our chat with our lovely friend: actress, business owner, and paranormal investigator  Kalinda Gray !  We chat about spooks, ouija boards, and overnight stays at the Queen Mary in Long Beach. Robert and Nomi also share a couple of their ghost stories, and we try to figure out how to send...

Temperature is risin'... barometer's gettin' low... which means Summer is here! On Episode 21, Nomi Moore and Robert Fisher chat about Summer Vacation! Why we loved it, why we miss it, and what can we do to bring it back. Even if not for real-real; just for play-play. Ya'll, it's hot outside. Please stay cool and hydrated. Download this and future episodes of our podcast o...

In honor of our 20th Episode ( and our 1000th download! ) Nomi Moore is doing a Tarot reading for our friend: actress, business owner, and paranormal investigator  Kalinda Gray !  Apparently, there's something going on that's blocking her way, and Nomi is here to provide a little insight into the situation. Stay tuned in the coming weeks for more from our friend  Kalinda , when we talk m...

In Episode Nineteen we have a lovely conversation with our friend and Queer Artist  Brandon Griewank  of  Fresh By Brandon .  We chat about his struggle in operating a small business in this capitalist world, his beyond-incredible floral sculpture, and the inspiration behind his latest endeavor; creating gorgeous custom swimwear for ALL people no matter their shape, size, or gender with  FRESH! In...