We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back , hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding...

In this episode of  We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam share their weekend highlights before diving into trending celebrity news, including Diddy’s sentencing and Porsha Williams’ new relationship. The conversation takes a candid turn as they explore the complexities of intimacy and sexual satisfaction, questioning whether women still fake orgasms in 2025. With humor and honesty...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tam Bam reflect on their uneventful weekends, their shared love of scary movies, and the recent passing of Assata Shakur, a pivotal figure in Black history. They critique the controversy surrounding a poorly received Tina Turner statue and highlight Young Thug’s surprise community service concert. The conversation dives deep into personal fear...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam get candid about their personal dating experiences before diving into the buzz around Cardi B’s new album and its impact on the music industry. They also unpack the ongoing debates about freedom of speech , spotlighting the controversy surrounding David Anthony Burke . They also embracing the  fall season , from wellness practices...

AJ Holiday and Tam Bam open up about personal grief and ongoing health challenges. The conversation explores the weight of political violence, systemic racism, and the pressures of Black excellence in today’s society. They also reflect on generational differences in work ethic, highlighting how cultural expectations around productivity often clash with the need for self-care and they also em...

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! This week, AJ and Tam Bam kick things off by sharing their weekend highlights, including AJ diving into a new reality series her friend is producing. In the S.I.N.S of the week, they break down the latest drama from  The Real Housewives of Atlanta . Then, they take a nostalgic trip back to the ‘90s with a review of A Thin Line Between Love and...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tam Bam celebrate the fifth anniversary of the Black Effect Podcast Network while diving into an honest conversation about love, dating, and self-discovery. They reflect on recent concert experiences and family visits, then shift into the realities of modern relationships—unpacking societal expectations, trust, and the challenges of commitment...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holliday and Tam Bam unpack a mix of cultural and personal themes, weaving their weekend reflections into a deeper conversation about relationships, loyalty, and shifting values. They explore the public perception of marriage in light of Offset’s recent controversial comments, while also examining the concept of snitching within hip hop culture and the fa...

AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into an engaging discussion on relationships, dating, and the societal pressures tied to beauty standards. They explore the emotional connections that sustain healthy relationships, the costs and commitments of self-care, and the fine line between self-love and self-sabotage. The conversation expands into consumer culture, financial awareness, and the ways social media c...

In this lively episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam share weekend updates before diving into cultural commentary on media figures like Amanda Seales and the intricacies of celebrity relationships, including Georgia Rain’s campaign for David Banner. The conversation spans judicial missteps in the courtroom, body image in the film industry, and the rituals of cuffing season. With hu...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into celebrity headlines, the influence of Black women on Black men, and the layered complexities of identity within the LGBTQ community. Special guest Philip Miller opens up about his experiences as a Black gay man, offering perspective on societal challenges, coming out, and navigating public perception. The conversation highlights th...

AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with special guest Chantelle Chevon for a powerful conversation on  self-discovery. They explore the intersections of spirituality and sexuality, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the role of community in healing. The discussion highlights the importance of intuition, self-love, and accountability in love and intimacy, while unpacki...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by guest Vanity Wear for a wide-ranging conversation that blends real talk with professional insight. They unpack the nuance of declining fertility rates, the 'Tea' app controversy, and the nuanced realities of modern dating. Vanity shares her experiences as a Black woman in tech, shedding light on burnout, code-switching, and the...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ and TamBam reflect on recent travels and the value of rest amid the pressures of American life. The conversation moves from the joys and risks of vacation to a heartfelt tribute to the late Malcolm-Jamal Warner. They explore modern masculinity, highlighting how environmental and emotional stressors affect men’s health and behavior. The hosts emphasize the...

In this episode of We Talk Back , hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the meaning of the "soft life" for Black women, exploring how it intersects with cultural narratives, gender roles, and personal well-being. They examine the origins of the trend, the weight of the “strong Black woman” archetype, and how social media has reshaped perceptions of ease, luxury, and femininity. The conver...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into everything from their weekend recaps to the messy realities of modern relationships. They unpack Diddy’s latest legal troubles and the ripple effects of abuse and scamming within the community. The conversation takes an unfiltered turn into the idea of “dixcipline”—the practice of sexual discipline—and...

In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off by recapping their weekend adventures and reflecting on themes of celebration, self-image, and growth. The conversation dives into the world of situationships, unpacking the emotional gray areas and the pressure of societal expectations in modern dating. As they share personal stories and honest perspectives, the hosts explore...

In this week's episode of  We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the latest SINS—from David Banner’s viral take on cheating and accountability to Cardi B’s album announcement and Offset’s unexpected celebrity crush on Sabrina Carpenter. Later, they’re joined by Emmy-nominated journalist Simone Boyce for an insightful conversation on authenticity, representa...

This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends before diving into their S.I.N.S. of the week—starting with the lawsuit against Tyler Perry (and you know TamBam had something to say about that). The conversation takes a serious turn as they reflect on the heartbreaking news of former MTV VJ Ananda Lewis's passing from breast cancer, emphasizing health awareness and the...

This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of AJ’s birthday festivities and weekend highlights. During their S.I.N.S. of the week, they cover everything from Keith Sweat’s comments on modern women to Coco Gauff’s big win, and Kevin Hunter’s tell-all about his relationship with Wendy Williams. TamBam also makes it known—don’t c...

This week on the pod, Tambam and AJ Holiday break down their S.I.N.S of the week, starting with a new study claiming women prefer traditionally masculine men. They also unpack recent comments from rapper and media personality, Cam’ron on the Diddy trial, adding their own insights to the ongoing conversation. Later, the duo dives into the difference between “clinical” thinking and...

This week, AJ Holiday and Tambam kick things off by recapping their weekend, including a stressful ER visit for AJ’s beloved cat. During their S.I.N.S. segment, they unpack the public fallout between Remy Ma and Papoose, and weigh in on a couple who made headlines for charging guests to attend their wedding. The conversation then shifts to Dawn Richard’s controversial testimony in the...

This week on  We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tambam unpack their S.I.N.S of the week, including public reactions to the Nottoway Plantation burning down, the custody battle involving Halle Bailey and DDG, and the bizarre story of a woman found alive after missing for three weeks in the California mountains. The conversation then shifts to a deeper analysis of the legal controversies surroundin...

This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and Tambam dive into their S.I.N.S. of the week, unpacking everything from Toni Braxton’s headline-making graduation outfit to a recent stabbing incident involving Tory Lanez. They also reflect on Marlon Wayans’ relationship with his mother and how it may have shaped his perspective on commitment. The conversation then shifts to the rise of social...

This week on We Talk Back , AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on the power of gratitude as a foundation for happiness and catch up on their weekend adventures. During the S.I.N.S. segment, the hosts unpack highlights from the Met Gala before diving into a thought-provoking discussion about the film Sinners and its cultural resonance. They explore themes such as the influence of energy in personal rela...