The Zachary Stockill Podcast

In today’s video, I’m going to go into the story of how Roberta overcame retroactive jealousy and turned her relationship around. Read or watch below to learn more about how a former student in “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” Roberta, overcame retroactive jealousy and found peace in her relationship. Zach: I really appreciate you […] The post How Roberta Overcame Retroactive Jealousy (Incredi...

In today’s video, I respond to a reader who writes “My girlfriend told me her ex was better.” Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy when your girlfriend tells you her ex was better. Zachary Stockill: A young man reached out to ask an important question about the fear of […] The post “Girlfriend Told Me Her Ex Was Better… What to Do?” [VIDEO] appeared first o...

In today’s video, I discuss coaching for overcoming retroactive jealousy, and share a remarkable story from a recent client. Read or watch below to learn strategies through coaching for overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Maybe you could start by sharing a bit about where you were at emotionally before you decided to invest in coaching. […] The post Coaching for Overcoming Retroacti...

In today’s video, I discuss whether overcoming retroactive jealousy means being “indifferent to my partner’s past.” Read or watch below to learn whether overcoming retroactive jealousy means being indifferent to my partner’s past and how to set healthy boundaries. Zachary Stockill: I recently received an interesting comment from a viewer of this channel, suggesting that […] The post “INDIFFERENT t...

In today’s video, I respond to a reader who writes “being apart makes retroactive jealousy worse,” and how to handle it in a long-distance relationship. Read or watch below for strategies to handle the challenges of retroactive jealousy in a long-distance relationship. Zachary Stockill: There are many people in long-distance relationships who struggle with retroactive […] The post “Being Apart Mak...

In today’s video, I share some thoughts on how men can increase attraction in relationships. Read or watch below to learn strategies on how men can increase attraction in relationships. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’ll be talking about one of my favorite topics—tips for men to increase attraction in long-term relationships. I’m Zachary Stockill, […] The post How Men Can Increase Attraction...

In today’s video, I discuss common retroactive jealousy mistakes to avoid. Read or watch below to learn about retroactive jealousy mistakes to avoid. Zachary Stockill: If you’re dealing with retroactive jealousy—unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past—there’s a good chance that if this has been going on for a while, you might be making one […] The post Retroactive Jealousy Mistakes t...

In today’s video, I respond to the question: “Should you accept retroactive jealousy triggers?“ Read or watch below to hear my response to: Should you accept retroactive jealousy triggers? Zachary Stockill: Many people with retroactive jealousy know that a common part of this disorder is encountering triggers—situations or events outside our control that can spark […] The post Should You Accept Re...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle retroactive jealousy flaring up around the topic of long-term commitment. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy flaring up when you begin to think about the future. Zachary Stockill: For over 11 years of working on retroactive jealousy, I’ve received the same […] The post “Retroactive Jealousy Flaring Up When I Consi...

In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who writes “What if my wife is comparing me to her ex?” and what to do when these thoughts take over. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with the insecurity of “comparing me to her ex” and how to stop these thoughts from affecting […] The post “What If She Is Comparing Me to Her Ex? Help!” [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jea...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the hidden cost of retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about the hidden cost of retroactive jealousy and practical steps to overcome its impact on your life.  Zachary Stockill: As you know, I’m a YouTuber—obviously, I’m a guy talking on YouTube. I create videos […] The post Hidden Cost of Retroactive Jealousy: Consider THIS [VIDEO] appe...

In today’s video, I speak about how to overcome regrets in life. Watch below to learn about how to overcome regrets in life. Zachary Stockill: If you live long enough, it’s almost certain you’ll accumulate some regrets. But how do you begin letting them go and working through them? That’s what I’ll try to answer […] The post How To Overcome Regrets In Life: My Thoughts [VIDEO] appeared first on Ov...

In today’s video, I discuss the connection between retroactive jealousy and religion. Read or watch the video below to explore further. Zachary Stockill: Is there a connection between retroactive jealousy—intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past—and religion? That’s the question I’ll be exploring in today’s video. I’m Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve helped thousands of […] The post Retr...

In today’s video, I discuss whether retroactive jealousy is a “real thing,” and address common misconceptions about it. Read or watch below to hear my response to the question: “Is retroactive jealousy a real thing?” Zachary Stockill: Whenever you post something online—especially on platforms like YouTube or podcasts—you’re bound to attract trolls and haters. As […] The post “Is Retroactive Jealou...

In today’s video, I respond to a viewer question asking whether is marriage necessary in our modern world. Read or watch below to learn more about the question “Is marriage necessary?” and what it means for relationships today.  Zachary Stockill: I recently received an interesting, thought-provoking comment on YouTube that I wanted to explore further […] The post “Is Marriage Necessary In The Mode...

In today’s video, I discuss the issues that come with putting your partner on a pedestal and how it can affect your relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about why putting your partner on a pedestal is not a healthy way to view your relationship. Zachary Stockill: Over the years, I’ve noticed that […] The post Putting Your Partner On A Pedestal: Why It’s a Problem [VIDEO] appeared first...

In today’s video, I discuss how your beliefs and retroactive jealousy are connected and what you can do to address them. Read or watch below to learn more about how your beliefs and retroactive jealousy may be affecting your relationship. Zachary Stockill: Recently, a viewer of my channel asked me an interesting philosophical question that […] The post Your Beliefs And Retroactive Jealousy: Time t...

In today’s video, I discuss how to escape the red pill and why it’s important to find balance in your perspective on relationships Read or watch below to learn more about how to escape the red pill. Zachary Stockill: Recently on my TikTok account, I got an interesting question from one of my viewers: “How […] The post How To Escape The Red Pill: Watch This [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retr...

In today’s video, I discuss concerns about your partner’s past and how to manage these feelings for a healthier relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about concerns about your partner’s past and how to overcome them. Zachary Stockill: Does this sound familiar? You meet someone interesting, go on a few dates, and as […] The post Concerns About Your Partner’s Past: What to Do [VIDEO] appea...

In today’s video, I address a viewer question: “I do not want details about her past… Is this still considered retroactive jealousy?” Read or watch below to learn more about handling feeling like you do not want details about her past, and how to manage retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been following me for […] The post “Do NOT Want Details About Her Past… Still Retroactive Jealou...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about dead bedrooms and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover how dead bedrooms and retroactive jealousy can impact relationships and discover tips to overcome these challenges. Zachary Stockill: Here’s a comment I regularly receive from viewers of my channel and readers of my blog: “Zach, I’m […] The post Dead Bedrooms And Retroactive Jealousy:...

In today’s video, I discuss how to avoid a common retroactive jealousy blunder. Read or watch below to learn more about how to avoid this common retroactive jealousy blunder . Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, it’s likely you’re making some important mistakes. In today’s free video, I’ll share four tips to help […] The post AVOID This Retroactive Jealousy Blunder [V...

In today’s video, I’m going to share my strangest retroactive jealousy advice. Read or watch below to learn more about my strangest retroactive jealousy advice… Zachary Stockill: One of the reasons I’ve been working on the topic of retroactive jealousy for over a decade is that the subject never ceases to surprise me. The people […] The post My Strangest Retroactive Jealousy Advice Is… [VIDEO] app...

In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one vicious cycle of retroactive jealousy and how it can impact relationships. Read or watch below to learn more about the vicious cycle of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: One common mistake many people with retroactive jealousy make is asking their partner a lot of questions about their […] The post How to STOP One Vicious Cycle Of Retroactive Jea...

In today’s video, I discuss how to handle retroactive jealousy with an oversharing partner. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy with an oversharing partner.  Zachary Stockill: As you know, if you’ve been watching my channel for a while, many retroactive jealousy sufferers ask their partners many, many, many questions […] The post Retroactive Jealousy With...