The Susan Winter Show

Viewer Follow My Logic writes, “I've heard it said over and over that according to research a woman is ‘more attracted to a man whose feelings are unclear'. Is this true in your experience? Might this be true with women of a certain age, more so than other ages?” Learn why this “appears” to be the case, but isn't.

Feeling like a non-priority? The goal isn't to make yourself okay with being treated badly, but to know our rights and speak up. Here's how to ask the right questions and incentivize the right treatment.

Claire asks, “How does one get over the anger of a failed relationship? I think I'm healing well, then this bubble of anger erupts when I think of him in an unguarded moment. At the end of the day, all he's actually guilty of is preferring someone else over me.  Any advice you can give would be appreciated.“

Here's the key to knowing how to navigate ‘game' and cut through dating confusion.  Learn how to clear out the conflicting voices of those around you, and discover the real truth of what you have with your partner.

Richard Gonzalez asks, “Hi Susan I really love the advice that you give I would appreciate (and I'm sure other viewers of your Channel would too) — your thoughts on how to handle a on-and-off relationship that's been going on for a few months or a few years I would really love your Insight on it.” Learn how to get through (and beyond) what keeps breaking you up.

Tired of being relegated to a ‘limited relationship?' Here's what you need to know in order to expand your connection and still show up as ALL that you are.

Viewer Bang Bang writes, “What's the difference between deflectors, the confused and game players?” With all the games that funnel through as bad behavior, here's the breakdown of the big 3 you need to know.

How concerned should you be if you find your partner looking? How much is normal? Here are the signs that signify ‘looking' denotes serious interest. This is part 2 of a conversation from my interview with International Business Times TV/Medical Daily: The Wandering Eye: Why We Check Other People Out In Front Of Our Partner http://video.ibt.com/wandering-eye-why-we-check-other-people-out-front-our...

Flowerdiva 18 writes, “Susan, how do we deal with a partner's ex that hasn't fully left their life? I'm dealing with this ex that I haven't met, and she keeps meddling in my boyfriend's life and he doesn't even realize it. I don't want to set ultimatums: it's me of her, but I find it a constant irritant that she's still manipulating him. Thank you Susan!” Here's my answer to solving this dilemma.

When did we contort the meaning of “telling the truth” to equate being vulnerable? Here's why being direct is a powerful technique for creating of partnership with a foundation of authentic connection.

Lionheart07writes: Do economic differences turn off an older woman from a younger guy? I'm worried that the money issue (or lack thereof) could be a deal breaker. My answer shows you how to make this type of dynamic work in your favor.

Do you want to eliminate your partner's confusion? You must do what your partner cannot. You must be clear to inspire their awareness. You must be direct to inspire their direct communication.  And you must be comfortable to say what you want and need out of the relationship so that they, in turn, can adopt the same level of comfort in sharing their truth with you.

Viewer Alexandra asks, “For those of us who want to get a real partner for a real relationship — which are the right steps to achieve this? How do we spot the right man for that, or right woman?”. Learn why the foundation of your relationship is created by the foundation of your thoughts.

Something's wrong and you know it. Yet, your partner swears ‘all is good.' They're growing more distant day by day but claim to have no issues. Here's what's really going on, and how to handle this situation. https://moneyish.com/splurge/the-insane-amounts-of-money-people-are-spending-to-get-over-bad-breakups/

Audrah from Paris asks, ”I navigated the beginnings of a rather complex relationship thanks to your advice. Now I'm again in a situation increasingly common in modern dating: that of love triangles where a person appears equally uncommitted to two potential partners while they make up their mind. Surprisingly enough there's very little out there as far as personal growth coaching on this topic. Ca...

When your partner pulls away, what's the right action to take? No generic advice can guide you. BUT, you'll find the answer in your level of interaction, time together, and depth of honesty.

Telling your children about your age-gap partner needn't be scary.  Here's my step-by-step formula to address their major areas of concern; your emotional and financial stability. Once these factors have been established, the rest will eventually fall into place.

YouTube viewer Daniel asks, “Please talk about not being able to move on from someone who used you as a rebound, and now they've moved on themselves. I just feel stuck and stupid about this situation — waiting around, and wondering if they'll ever comeback.” Here's how to process this type of breakup in a way that not only allows you to move forward, but helps to restore your confidence in yoursel...

How do you go from a breakup to a new life with a bright future? By marking your transitions. We can't have a new beginning if we don't mark our ending. Here's how to do it with joy. More from my interview in Moneyish (Dow Jones Media Group). https://moneyish.com/splurge/the-insane-amounts-of-money-people-are-spending-to-get-over-bad-breakups/

Everyone wants a good review — especially for your role as a dedicated partner. Why has your ex gone Jekyll and Hyde? Becoming cold, vicious, or telling lies to discredit you? Here's how to handle a spurned ex while retaining your dignity.

Dial past confusion and secure the relationship's reins. The clarity you seek starts with you. The partner with the clearest goals controls the relationship. When you've given that info to your mate, how do they handle this? That gives you your next move on the game board.

You want meaningful connection and a love that's real. But what if you've never experienced how that looks or feels? Here's how to sync up your vision with reality and create the prototype for your unique love experience.

There's a lot of confusion surrounding ‘being nice' and dating.  Men often worry that being their best self is a turnoff, and an open invitation for disrespect. Here's how to secure your power, confidence and desirability while being a person YOU respect.

For those of you who want a second exploration of a former love, these are the factors that MUST be in place for romantic success to occur. Only then, will you have the composure and distance to create a new dynamic for partnership.

Are you seeking love from someone incapable of giving it to you? Childhood issues can create the need to want to heal our past through our current mate. Here's how to use the power of that inner directive to your best interest.