The Single Chronicles

Here are 3 things about being single that I guarantee other singles hate as much as I do.

This week's episode was loosely inspired by Miss Chloe Kardashian who had a moment of insecurity based off of a picture that was leaked that was for lack of a better word perfect. I wanted to talk about that because there's nothing wrong with feeling yourself but when you don't love yourself you're living a lie. And if social media has taught me anything it's that most times these folks that only...

Why does good sex stretch a bad relationship/situation past it's expiration date? Why do we have this sort of tunnel vision? Well I have this theory...

This week's episode is sort of a follow-up to last week's episode about black women not being dateable. However this week I wanted to ask the question, if we are asking too much when looking for potential partners. I was inspired by Kevin Samuels, self-proclaimed coach & relationship guru. Check out my Merch Store: https://teespring.com/stores/drunken-insomniac-writer-merch

What is it about black women that make them less appealing to date or better yet, marry? This was a topic that I was inspired to do for sometime. The statistics are stacked against all women but moreso women of color. Do you thing this is true? If so what are your takes on this issue? If not, do you think it's "fake news"?

This particular episode is a little lengthier than my normal episodes. However it was a looking inward and evaluating ourselves on a deeper level. I asked the question, "Am I a Toxic Person" because often times, we spend so much energy focusing on the crappy things others do, we forget about the crappy roles we play. This episode will ask several questions... To get to the bottom of the question.....

So in the season opener I wanted to discuss the objectification of females and their sexuality and why we as females can't own it. if a man is promiscuous nobody bad tonight but if a female is... Well then she's branded for life & her reputation is in ruins. This point of this episode isn't to discuss whether or not the parameters of such are right and wrong but that we as a society need to keep t...

This season I'm back and I have a whole new dose of F***tivity!

Immediately following the conclusion of season 3 of The Single Chronicles on YouTube is the season 2 premiere of The Single Chronicles podcast.... Stay Tuned 😉

This week I want to go back to the topic of breakups and moving on! I received a message on IG about breaking up. While a past YouTube video of mine showed you how to get over a breakup, https://youtu.be/aNPbYpATiro ... This week I want to chat on that again especially with us on lockdown.

Tired of blowing up his/her phone? Wondering why he doesn't reply to your text messages? You asked the question, here's my answer. I had to skip this one to the head of the class.

So instead of the episode I had actually recorded, I wanted to talk about the whole Jada Pinkett, Will Smith, August Alsina situation. While Jada is married, this type of situation happens to a lot of us. Some of us are in an entanglement with a person who's not our actual partner... And don't even know it.

So this week I went on a bit of a rant. I had a mess of things going on and someone had the audacity to tell me I was bad friend because of the one time I didn't drop everything for them. In this case it was back to back funerals and around my kid's graduation! Folks, real friends don't gaslight when you set up boundaries. Also, just because your friends are single doesn't mean they don't have shi...

So I just watched a video of young black girl hit with a skateboard, one thrown in a dumpster & another almost accosted by some guy in a hotel... All by young black boys, not men but BOYS! What is wrong with these young guys or just guys in general? You want us to fight for you yet YOU NOT RESPECT US??

I was in the midst of posting a new episode on YouTube about those uncommitted situations between people that involve almost everything except the title. Most times it's one person stringing another person along and other times it's two people who have no intentions on settling down but enjoy the physical aspects of companionship. Either way, I want to point out the vast difference between the two...

This week I have a story and a public service announcement where I discuss about internalized racism and how it's affected my dating life. We have enough to deal with being black and single... So men... STOP MAKING IT WORSE!

After watching a clip of a young woman cuss her mother out about being sexually abused by her mother's boyfriends, I was beyond heartbroken. The mother had the audacity to even blame her daughter for the boyfriends perverted infidelity. Mothers as we approach mother's day... We need to do better by our children even moreso when the father is absent. Sometimes a toxic mother is more harmful than an...

You ever have a girlfriend tell you about a situation they have that could've been completely avoided. And despite you giving them good advice, they go back to the f**ktivity? I mean all you can do is look back and say, "you're a dizzy b*tch!" Well for a moment I was that girl. I'm not proud of it because not only was it not my best moment, it happened while filming The Single Chronicles! Like I c...

This week I want to talk about dealing with anxiety and other issues while stuck in quarantine. I had a complete meltdown last week. It's been a month and still we're mostly homebound. So if you're like me, you're trying to stay sane and cope. That being said, I decided to make some changes to help me get by.

On this one off episode for this week I wanted to help out my fellow single parents who are stuck indoors with their kids. Here are some basic steps that you can do to help you cope while self isolating with children. Now that I realize it I think I should have put this out a whole lot sooner... For more cool tidbits, visit: https://drunkeninsomniacwriter.com/

One day of minding my business while trying to conduct a virtual workout on a ZOOM video conference, someone hit me up. Before the workout started, we began a nice conversation that continued afterwards. However it was then that I got quite the surprise...

This week, I'm talking about that inevitable call from an ex who has nothing to do during a quarantine but to bother me.

Don't panic... I'm back with a new episode. If you're like me and millions of others, you are trying to endure week 2 of isolation and social distancing. I don't know about you but... I'm over this already.

Imagine minding your own single business, doing whatever it is you do from day to day. Suddenly someone slides in your DM asking you out. You politely decline the offer thinking you can resume life as you know. Suddenly, here they are again and again. Persistent, they go from liking & commenting every post to googling you or showing up at your job. And even when that doesn't work to throw you off,...

Have you had a friend or relative ask you why you're single? Or ask if they can introduce you to someone? Better yet they question your dating life in general? It's not that they don't mean well but often it can be annoying if not invasive at times. SO LISTEN UP!! Here are a few things us single people get tired of hearing.