Insomniac Writer

The Single Chronicles

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I discuss the shenanigans of being single as well as coping with & healing from past traumas. This is a therapeutic & venting (sometimes ranting) session that mitigates how hard it is to love yourself before you can love someone else.*Disclaimer: The responses on The Single Chronicles are for informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding depression, anxiety or any other condition.

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Insomniac Writer

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Society

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drunkeninsomniacwriter.com

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5. Mai 2025

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Episode 98: What About Your Friends 13.02.2023

In the Season 4 opener, we chat about friendships. Why and how we choose them is just as important as choosing a romantic partner.  Follow me on Instagram and TikTok @insomniac_writer Be sure to visit this week's sponsor, Exhibit A Studio. You can find them on the web at https://exhibitastudio.com/ or on Instagram

Episode 97: I Must Confess (bonus episode) 19.12.2022

On this bonus episode, I placed myself in the accountability corner. I'm not perfect, nor do I claim to be. But often times I can be just downright stupid. lol Become a Paid Subscriber: ⁠">⁠⁠Click Here⁠!⁠⁠ Check out my Merch Store: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com/?⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out my website for more goodies: ⁠⁠⁠https://drunkeninsomniacwriter.com/⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on Instagram: ⁠...

Episode 96: Learning to Read the Room 12.12.2022

You ever wonder if some folks will ever catch a clue? Like how is it that they can't figure out that you either don't like them in the same way they do or that you want more? That last part especially, like hello!!!  Either way... Reading signals can be tough. The ultimate catch 22 or something 😭. Tune in for this season 3 finale.  Also check out the promo for this week: Twerkout Booty-...

Episode 94: Can we normalize shipping female black leads as love interests? 21.11.2022

After seeing Black Panther: Wakanda Forever, I got to thinking how lead black actresses are never the love interest or "shipped" with anyone. It's like we have a certain role to play as the sassy, independent, strong character, whose only purpose is to be the savior. While I know Shuri's character was literally written to be this way but even in other films, black women are rarely the love interes...

Episode 93: Why Can't We Prioritize our Health for Ourselves 07.11.2022

So this week's episode is inspired by a tiktok video of a guy complaining about why women lose weight... As if we don't already suffer from body image issues. I've noticed that so many of my clients have come to me to lose weight but it's because they want to feel better not because a guy feels we should. Since I didn't have a business to spotlight, I wanted to take this chance to ask you all to v...

Episode 91: My thoughts on the Ime Udoka's affair & Nia Long getting through it. 26.09.2022

This week I was asked about my thoughts on the Nia Long ans Ime Udoka situation. And as a person who's been cheated on and been unfaithful, I had a lot to say. That being said, I hope that Nia heals. Be sure to check out this week's business spotlight, Turning Points 4 Children, they are not only the biz of the week but my charity for my costume birthday ball this year. To purchase tickets, visit:...

Episode 89: Try Reflecting! Stop Deflecting & Projecting 12.09.2022

Ever wonder why your relationships and endeavors fail about the same time? I mean these things usually end about 1 year or 2 or 3 no matter how much you try to make it work! It's as if a roadblock puts you back on a hamster wheel bringing you back to where you started. This week's episode, I decided to talk about reflection instead of deflection & how it led to my healing path as well as where it...

Episode 88: Aries Spears, Lizzo and the Body Positivity Police 05.09.2022

So comedian Aries Spears decided to take jabs at Lizzo when asked about her music. The often controversial comedian has since been getting a lot of flack as a result. Lizzo on the hand did not directly address Spears with a comment but did clapback after winning a VMA. While I hate the bullying that Lizzo has received, I also have to call out the hypocrisy of the body positivity movement too! So w...

Episode 87: Y'all really mad (The Rise of Lonely Single Men) 29.08.2022

This week's episode is about an article I read on Psychology Today, entitled, The Rise of Single, Lonely Men.  Now as I would expect, the article gained some attention after it trended on TikTok and Twitter.  Needless to say, the viral exposure ruffled the feathers of various men, especially the more misogynistic fan types of Kevin Samuels and Andrew Tate.  Despite my thoughts in th...

Episode 86: I Did A Stupid Thing & Ignored My Own Red Flag 08.08.2022

After a much-needed break, this week The Single Chronicles returns with a bit of a confession... from yours truly.  I often talk about accountability and owning up to the roles we play in relationships or situationships.  Well I would be a hypocrite if I didn't practice as I preach.  So here it is! I spent some of my break engulfed in a bit of an online situationship that I not only...

Episode 84: Sex for A Dinner Date? Seriously? 13.06.2022

So a video that went viral on TikTok of a couple on a date at Applebee's where the guy proceeded to make her pay for her own meal because she refused to sleep with him. Now I understand that now that this video was a skit for likes and attention and also some women use guys to get free meals and gifts. However, this type of behavior is just petty. Be sure to check out this week's business spotligh...

Episode 83: Dating Horror Stories (Bumble Date Gone Wrong) 06.06.2022

This week's episode tells the take of a young woman who after going on a date with someone she met in Bumble went horribly wrong. It was so scary, her safety was in jeopardy. Be sure to check out this week's business spotlight of the week. Also, check out exclusive Gay Pride merch in my online store as well as LGBTQIA+ Single Chronicles merch. http://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com. Procee...

Episode 82: The Problem with Independent Women 30.05.2022

This week I discuss why being an independent woman is problematic. Make sure you check out my Merch Storehttps://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com and use promo code: FLASH25 or CYBER25

Episode 81: Single Mothers vs. Baby-mamas, Kevin Samuels & Roe V. Wade 23.05.2022

So, this week on The Single Chronicles we discuss baby mamas briefly as well as one of Kevin Samuels' last live streams before his passing and the ever-controversial Roe V. Wade. Now this is just part one of these topics since the weeks prior as I was on a minibreak. That being said, so much has happened that I will be discussing it all again in greater detail.   Be sure to check out my sponsor/bi...

Episode 80: The Blame and Shame Game 02.05.2022

This week I discuss the problem of blaming women for being with crappy partners. Why is it that we never old men to the same type of standards we hold women? If we choose bad partners, we seem to lack accountability or we're somehow to blame for the way we're treated! Doesn't seem fair at all. Be sure to check out this week's sponsor: Little Ones of Wisdom & Musical Academy, LLC. This 24-hour dayc...

Episode 79: The F**ktivity of The Friend Zone 25.04.2022

This week's episode, I want to talk about the dreaded friend zone and why it sucks but not in the way you would think.  Would you rather be friends with the person you love and love them for simply being your friend or risk losing them because you felt entitled to more. Be sure to check out this week's sponsor: Zumba and Twerkout with Rose.   For more information or to sign up for classes, visit:...

Episode 78: Saying No is Self-care 11.04.2022

This week we talked about saying no and why it's both the hardest thing to say yet the most selfless.   Be sure to check out my online merch store: http://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com and use promo code FLASH25 to save 30% Also check out my wellness store online: https://loveyourselfshoppe.company.site/ and try some of my juices or teas to aide in things such as stress, menopause, pain,...

Episode 77: The Dating Horror Story That Almost Happened 😱 04.04.2022

So recently I was asked out on a date by some random guy. It felt like the strangest form of fishing that sparked my paranoia behind dating. And then I saw the movie Fresh on Hulu...  It solidified my worst fear... Check out this week's sponsor and business spotlight of the week: Diva Planning who you can find on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/divaplanning/ And don't forget to check me out...

Episode 75: Get Your Priorities Together 🤔 21.03.2022

Some of my fellow singles are worried about the wrong things. If your financial, emotional, mental & physical fitness is disarray, I'm sorry the last thing you need to be worrying about a relationship! Get your house in order before you concern yourself with filling it with someone? Yeah... we gotta do better! Be sure to check out my website, www.drunkeninsomniacwriter.com for more goodies. Also,...

Episode 74: Ghosted 👻😱 14.03.2022

A few years ago, I did a video on YouTube about ghosting and it got me to thinking about those that do it and why? I mean we always talk about how crappy it feels to be ghosted but we rarely talk about why it really happens. It goes beyond being simply uninterested.  Ghosting isn't always the act of cowardice. I mean at its core, ghosting is potentially a trauma response and the avoidance of emoti...

Episode 73: Is it ok to date my ex's cousin? 07.03.2022

**Spoiler Alert** This week's episode is inspired by episode 6 of Bel-Air, The Strength to Smile. So if you haven't watched it, you've been warned. The main character, Will Smith, is smitten with his cousin's ex, Lisa. While his feelings for her were obvious from day 1, he stayed away as Carlton made it clear he wanted her back despite being the reason they broke up in the first place.   My q...

Episode 70: Is Sex on The 1st Date ok? 14.02.2022

It's Valentine's Day and I picked one of the confessions that best fit the occasion. This week's topic comes by way of Instagram. A fellow stated that he not only prefers but expects sex on the 1st date.  Little did he know that this week's show contained a confession of my own. Be sure to check out this week's sponsor, Love Yourself Wellness Shoppe. Visit the website, https://loveyourselfshoppe.c...

Episode 68: Do You Feed Negativity or Positivity? 03.01.2022

On this bonus episode of season 2, I discuss how we feed negativity in our lives via gossip drama. We often take that negative energy into new relationships. Be sure to subscribe to my YouTube channel at https://youtube.com/c/InsomniacWriter And also shop the sponsor at https://loveyourselfshoppe.company.site/

Episode 67: Do You Date Up or Down 27.12.2021

On the season finale, we're discussing hypogamy (dating down) versus hypergamy (dating up) and the differences between the two. I will be returning to this topic since I feel I merely scratched the surface. Be sure to follow my YouTube channel because The Single Chronicles returns February 2022 but on YouTube. https://youtube.com/c/InsomniacWriter Also don't forget to follow me on Instagram @insom...

Season 3 teaser 23.12.2021

Season 3 airs 2022

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