The Restoring Rapport Podcast

In this episode, I react to “How To (And Not To) Date To Get Married” by Matt Walsh, discuss online dating, the paralysis caused by too many choices, my “naturalist” perspective, the resurgence of matchmakers, and the flaws and benefits of arranged marriages. Don’t miss my interview with Frank Viola coming in late October, 2022! To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.co...

In this episode, I react to “What's Wrong With Christian Dating” by Tim Challies. I discuss how ‘purity’ as an ultimate goal backfires, how it is possible to be sexually ‘pure’ in a profoundly unhealthy relationship, the fact that there are greater dangers in a relationship than crossing a physical line together, and that our ultimate goal as believers in dating should be stepping into the commitm...

In this episode, I react to David Brooks’ recent article entitled, “The Crisis of Men and Boys.” I discuss the inevitable consequences of removing marriage/family as an aim for young men and detail the myriad of difficulties boys and men have in the world today. Don’t miss my interview with Frank Viola coming in late October, 2022! To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.nytimes...

In this episode, I react to Michael Todd’s top dating myths and make the argument that we should take dating more seriously than we do. Don’t miss my interview with Frank Viola coming in late October, 2022! To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCak2pPm58A To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing...

In this episode, I react to a few blog posts by Frank Viola and talk about the importance of having a vision for our assembly with other believers. Not every aspect of church liturgy in practice today is beneficial or in line with God’s vision for his Bride. Community is essential for thriving families and relationships. We must look to the ancient paths for wisdom as well as listen for the Holy S...

In this episode, I react to “Marriage Advice for Couples and Newlyweds - Bill Johnson | Q&A.” I talk about approaching problems from the same side, the importance of prioritizing God above all, the effect of humility on matrimony, and serving your spouse well. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKwggGQi2D4 To get your copy of my latest book, visit: h...

In this episode, I read and react to an article entitled, "Author Sophie Lewis' Forthcoming Book Is Titled ‘Abolish the Family’" and prompt listeners to imagine what the world would be like without family. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.theblaze.com/news/author-book-abolish-the-family?fbclid=IwAR0g1lbzC_J7N2CF2hCtoEYeG97y-Cf0Nrgpc6rQG3-2O0B2maPShSjtOmY#toggle-gdpr http:...

In this episode, I read and react to an article entitled, "Opposites Attract," and give my perspective on the dangers and truths of that saying for young believers who are pursuing the goal of healthy marriage and family. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://christiancounselingco.com/opposites-attract/ To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance...

In this episode, I read and react to the perspective of my favorite author on marriage. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://catholicgentleman.com/2015/07/tolkien-speaks-the-secret-to-a-happy-marriage/ To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Individualism/dp/B0892HX2H7/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=deepen+the+dance+of+...

In this episode, I react to a teaching by Bill Johnson on the nature of the Kingdom of God and Family. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YI_VBws1YK8 To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Individualism/dp/B0892HX2H7/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=deepen+the+dance+of+dependence&qid=1595309176&...

In this episode, I react to an article entitled, “15 Really Annoying Things Christian Singles Hear.” A lot of the advice/comments we give singles today not only isn’t helpful, but can sometimes be downright destructive and reflect an incorrect worldview. In this lighthearted episode, I laugh at some of the more extreme examples of these sayings. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https...

In this episode, I react to Matt Walsh’s reaction to TikTok marriage advice and discuss the importance of a healthy connection. There are no shortcuts or tricks to weathering difficulty without a healthy connection. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_K8V3pBPOMo&list=PLqXPXGGcbW9e3LOL4pjZ_iN2I9KBx8qX-&index=14&t=179s To get your copy of my la...

In this episode, I react to a video entitled, “The 3 Types of Relationships | Danny Silk.” I discuss the idea of powerful vs. powerless people and its impact on relationships. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQLDoZfTmu8 To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Individualism/dp/B0892HX2H7/re...

In this episode, I react to a video entitled, “Dating Advice and When to Get Married?”. I discuss dating ethics, where to find a spouse, and the goal of young believers in their 20s. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9QmMY82cE8 To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Individualism/dp/B0892H...

In this episode, read and review an article written for Exodus Cry entitled, “Why is the Fictional Depiction of Child Porn Legal in the US?” I discuss the legal case in which porn depicing simulated child abuse was made legal and the work being done to combat the criminal industries producing pornography today. While there are no graphic scenes described in the article, it is a dark topic. However...

In this episode, read and review an article written by FTND entitled, “‘Why You Might Keep Watching Porn Even When You Don’t Want To.” I discuss where pornography gets it’s power, the nature of the brain regarding habits, the principle of vulnerability in the absence of fulfillment, and the importance of choosing to pursue marriage while you are young. To access the sources for this episode, visit...

In this episode, read and review an article written for Exodus Cry entitled, “‘The Children of Pornhub’: Pulitzer Prize-Winning New York Times Journalist Nicholas Kristof Exposes Pornhub,” In this episode, I argue that it is impossible for porn to be ethically produced and draw attention of listeners to the pedophilic, misogynistic, racist, degrading content of the porn industry. To access the sou...

In this episode, react and respond to Jordan Peterson’s advice on the importance of attraction, trust, and negotiation in romantic relationships. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9ndNvMGErA&list=PLqXPXGGcbW9e3LOL4pjZ_iN2I9KBx8qX-&index=12 To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Ind...

In this episode, respond to listener comments and questions about romantic relationships. A big shoutout to all the awesome souls who gave their questions and feedback.  To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Individualism/dp/B0892HX2H7/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=deepen+the+dance+of+dependence&qid=1595309176&sr=8-2...

Episode 65: Reacting to “How To KEEP a Relationship | Jordan Peterson” In this episode, I react and respond to Jordan Peterson’s advice on both the importance of marriage vows and the consequences of breaking them. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0k1rlsMlZvQ To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prio...

In this episode, I react and respond to Pastor Steven Furtick and Donald Miller discussing the nature and purpose of singleness. I combat the cultural belief that singleness should be prolonged for as long as possible and provide an alternative perspective to the widespread idea of avoiding reliance on one’s spouse. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BV3...

In this episode, I react and respond to secular dating advice. I discuss each problem presented, including unrealistic expectations, paralysis of choice, the war between men and women, developing oneself as a future spouse, and more. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zyCVMmuPjxM To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Da...

In this episode, I give my reaction to mainstream Christian dating advice. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjC_8inYjwQ To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Individualism/dp/B0892HX2H7/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=deepen+the+dance+of+dependence&qid=1595309176&sr=8-2 To become...

In this episode, I read and review an article entitled, “Why Get Married.” To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.boundless.org/relationships/why-get-married/?fbclid=IwAR0cnHQz-HkanbZc3p5oiEzObnm7QH_FuSxB6bZWCfE1Cjp5qo5unJ37IHI To get your copy of my latest book, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Deepen-Dance-Dependence-Prioritizing-Individualism/dp/B0892HX2H7/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&a...

In this episode, I read and review the conclusion of David Brooks’ article entitled, “The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake.” This final portion of the article discusses the background of the author, the tendency of countries with wealthy individuals to have less family, the importance of the table, and more. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/20...