The Reality Is

Send us Fan Mail Marriage is full of ups and downs, but faith makes all the difference. Pastor Richard and Joy open up about their journey—the lessons, the laughs, and the challenges that made them stronger. Their wisdom will encourage and inspire anyone seeking a Christ-centered marriage. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to y...

Send us Fan Mail After 41 years, Pastor Richard and his wife, Joy, have learned what it takes to make a marriage thrive. From learning each other's triggers to embracing each other's quirks, they share how God has shaped their relationship through the years. Tune in for a 2 part series on practical wisdom, funny moments, and timeless biblical principles for a lasting marriage. We hope yo...

Send us Fan Mail Not all friendships are created equal. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard break down what makes a true Christian friend and why it matters. They discuss how our relationships impact our spiritual growth, why we need friends who pray for us, and how to recognize when we’re surrounding ourselves with the wrong influences. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have f...

Send us Fan Mail People may not always listen to what you say, but they will watch how you live. In this thought-provoking episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss the importance of integrity, consistency, and intentionality in sharing Christ. They also tackle the challenge of truly listening to others before speaking, ensuring that our words and actions align with the gospel we preach. We...

Send us Fan Mail What does your Monday faith look like? In this episode, Pastors Joey and Richard challenge listeners to align their daily lives with their proclaimed beliefs, ensuring that worship becomes a lifestyle rather than a weekend event. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a r...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Reality Is , Pastors Joey and Richard explore the five key relationships every believer should cultivate. From the guidance of a "Paul" to the encouragement of a "Barnabas" and the discipleship of a "Timothy," they outline how these connections deepen faith. Plus, discover why engaging with non-believers is a vital part of livin...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss the importance of leaving the past behind, whether it’s past failures or successes, and focusing on God’s purpose for the future. Learn how to overcome regret, embrace grace, and move forward in faith this new year. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you...

Send us Fan Mail If your faith feels distant, this episode is for you. Joey and Richard talk about how to bring your relationship with God back to life by making simple changes and trusting His plan. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and fam...

Send us Fan Mail This episode addresses the difficulty of setting aside self-driven ambitions in favor of God’s direction. Pastors Joey and Richard talk about letting go of preferences to follow where God leads, even if it challenges comfort zones. They provide insights into the role of spiritual mentors, the significance of listening to the Holy Spirit, and the value of waiting patiently for God’...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Pastors Joey and Richard explore anger from a biblical standpoint, clarifying the often misunderstood concept of righteous indignation versus sinful anger. They offer practical advice on recognizing when anger reflects God’s justice and when it veers into personal sin, sharing how we can let God’s guidance shape our emotional responses. We hope you enjoyed this ep...

Send us Fan Mail Pastors Joey and Richard open up about the pitfalls of people-pleasing, especially when it makes us vulnerable to toxic relationships. They share their own experiences and offer tips on how to prioritize God’s will over trying to keep everyone happy. For listeners who struggle with drawing boundaries, this episode sheds light on breaking the toxic cycle with God’s help. We hope yo...

Send us Fan Mail What does it mean to truly trust in God, even when life takes unexpected and painful turns? This episode dives into the nature of faith and why we can confidently trust that God’s plan, though sometimes hidden, is always working for our good. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard reflect on scripture and personal testimony to encourage listeners to embrace trust, no matter the circumstan...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Pastors Joey and Richard explore the key reasons why many believers struggle to experience the joy God intends for them. They identify several "joy killers," including unresolved conflict, difficult relationships, misplaced priorities, and a lack of involvement in others’ lives for the sake of the gospel. Drawing from biblical passages like Ephesians 4:3...

Send us Fan Mail Many Christians struggle with maintaining their joy. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard identify the major “joy killers” that rob believers of their peace, such as neglecting time with God and having an ungrateful attitude. Learn practical ways to guard your joy and stay rooted in God’s promises, even in trying times. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have fou...

Send us Fan Mail The episode touches on how many people, including influential figures, try to blend secularism with Christianity, creating a diluted version of faith. The pastors argue that this compromises the truth of the gospel, stressing the importance of aligning with scripture, not social trends. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an enco...

Send us Fan Mail What does it mean to find hope in God, especially in uncertain times? Pastor Richard and Pastor Joey look at Romans 15:13, reminding listeners that God fills us with hope and joy through the Holy Spirit. Whether in personal struggles or global crises, this episode encourages believers to lean on God for true peace. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have fo...

Send us Fan Mail Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard unpack the importance of prioritizing faith over fear. With personal reflections and scripture, they highlight how fear can stem from being overly attached to earthly things, and the significance of fully trusting God's plan for our lives, even when we can't see it. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our p...

Send us Fan Mail Are we allowing the pressures of the world to dictate our peace, or are we standing firm in the peace Christ has promised? Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss how real peace, rooted in a relationship with Christ, differs from the fleeting peace offered by the world. They invite listeners to explore how trusting God’s promises leads to a deeper sense of security.  We hope you en...

Send us Fan Mail In this Season 2 opener, the pastors tackle the issue of biblical illiteracy and why personal devotion is vital for every Christian. They discuss the dangers of neglecting God’s Word and how regular devotion helps believers stay rooted in scripture and equipped for life’s challenges. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encoura...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss the often confusing gray areas in life where the Bible doesn’t give explicit commands. They explore how Christians can make decisions that honor God and avoid causing others to stumble, focusing on principles that promote spiritual growth and a Christ-centered lifestyle. As we wrap up our first season and take a break during...

Send us Fan Mail Explore the origins and significance of the Synoptic Gospels—Matthew, Mark, and Luke. Pastor Joey and Pastor Ed Gravely delve into why these gospels are so similar yet distinct and how they provide a comprehensive view of Jesus's life and teachings. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider...

Send us Fan Mail Join us this week on The Reality Is as we hear the fascinating journey of Pastor RaShan Frost from a college football coach to a dedicated church planter of The Bridge Church Charleston. He and Pastor Joey dive into the distinction between ethics and morality from a theological perspective, and how Christians can navigate the moral dilemmas of the modern world through the lens of...

Send us Fan Mail Dive into a discussion on absolute truth as Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard challenge the belief that truth is relative. They affirm that God's Word is the ultimate, unchanging standard that guides our lives. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharin...

Send us Fan Mail How do we prepare the next generation to carry on a legacy of faith? Pastors Joey and Richard discuss the biblical approach to building a legacy that lasts, focusing on discipleship, encouragement, and equipping young believers with the tools they need to lead lives of faith and integrity. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an e...

Send us Fan Mail How can we recognize foolish people and advice in our lives? This episode explores biblical definitions of folly and practical steps to avoid misleading guidance. We discuss the importance of consulting the Bible and godly wisdom when navigating advice, ensuring that our decisions are informed by our faith. We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our...