The Queer Stuff Pod

In this Q&A-style episode, I answer your questions about the wild start to my 2025—from losing my home in a fire to unexpectedly moving to Switzerland and starting a new chapter as head of media at an aid organization. I’m covering everything: how I ended up here, what life near Lake Lucerne is really like, and the ups and downs of adjusting to a new country and culture, and what’s next for me and...

On this episode of Queer Stuff Pod, I’m joined by the brilliant Brandon Kyle Goodman—actor, writer, and all-around icon—who never shies away from life’s messiest moments. Brandon talks about identity, career ups and downs, and what it means to embrace every part of yourself, even the chaotic ones. From making it in Hollywood to cutting off toxic people, Brandon gets into the highs and lows of life...

26: Comedian and fitness pro Raneir Pollard joins the show to share his journey from college friend to Guinness World Record holder. He talks about breaking a burpee record while wearing stilettos, his work as a celebrity trainer, and his unique approach to fitness with humor. We explore his worst performances, balancing comedy and fitness, and his thoughts on body positivity and the fitness influ...

TV presenter, style expert, and entrepreneur Darren Kennedy joins me to share his journey from radio to television, his most disastrous interviews, and how he found his place in the fashion industry. We also explore the inspiration behind his podcast The Number, his approach to personal style, and his documentary Gay Daddy.  Topics Discussed: Darren Kennedy’s journey from radio to TV and fashion H...

24: I sit down with Alex Hall, co-founder and host of The Bottom’s Digest, to talk all things bottoming. As a sexual health educator and body autonomy activist, Alex is on a mission to make sex education accessible, no matter where you’re from or what you’re into.   We get into the biggest bottoming barriers, from physical challenges to common myths. Alex shares expert tips on safe douching, trigg...

23: What does it take to build some of the most talked-about hotels in the world — and do it while proudly representing the LGBTQ+ community at the top levels of corporate leadership? Blake Danner, COO of aka Hotels and Hotel Residences, joins us to share his journey from nightclub-loving hotel rookie to the executive suite, shaping brands like NoMad, The Line, and Freehand along the way. Blake op...

22: Chris Colfer is a Golden Globe-winning actor, bestselling author, screenwriter, and producer, known for his role as Kurt Hummel on Glee, for which he earned numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe and two Emmy nominations. He is the author of the Land of Stories series, which has sold millions of copies worldwide and spent over 100 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. In 2024, he...

21: Today, I’m joined by none other than Joey Graceffa. With over 2.9 billion views and a career spanning back to 2007, Joey has built an empire of engaging content, from gaming and vlogs to his hit web series Escape the Night. Joey shares his experience coming out online, his creative inspirations, and his journey as a writer.   Episode Highlights: Joey’s rise to YouTube fame & Escape the Night C...

20: In today’s episode, I'm joined by Roberto, a Tampa native and fellow Florida man. Roberto’s journey is nothing short of incredible—he's a West Point grad, a former Army Officer, and a leader in counterintelligence. After his time in the military, he dove into the fitness world, even launching his own app to help others get in shape. These days, he works as an IT Services Client Executive for a...

In today’s episode, I’m talking all about travel! You’ve asked about everything from the logistics of frequent flying to how I maintain some sense of stability while constantly on the go. This episode is all about practical tips and how I manage to make travel work—both for my career and my personal life. We’ll discuss: How I balance work and travel  The best ways to handle turbulence My approach...

In this episode, I chat with Brian Sims, a pioneering LGBTQ+ advocate and former Pennsylvania state legislator, who continues the fight for equality as the CEO of Agenda PAC. Brian shares his experiences as the first openly LGBTQ+ member of the Pennsylvania General Assembly, and as the only NCAA football captain to come out publicly while still active. We discuss his journey through politics, the...

In this episode, I’m joined by Danielle Gronich and Kayleigh Christina, the co-founders of CLEARSTEM Skincare, to talk about everything from acne myths and skincare scams to gut health and the importance of clean, effective ingredients. Danielle, a licensed clinical esthetician, and Kayleigh, an integrative health practitioner, share their expert insights on managing acne, debunking common skincar...

In this episode, stand-up comedian Zach Noe Towers opens up about his bold and unapologetic approach to comedy, podcasting, and life. Zach, co-host of Confidently Insecure, shares insights into his journey from musical theater to comedy, how sobriety has influenced his career, and his unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and personal growth. He also talks about what it’s like to push boundaries...

In this episode, we’re joined by Braden Summers, a commercial photographer renowned for his cinematic style and thought-provoking visual storytelling. Braden shares his journey of capturing queer relationships, particularly through his iconic All Love is Equal series, which reimagines classic romantic imagery with LGBTQ+ couples. He discusses the intersection of high-fashion aesthetics, inclusivit...

In today’s episode, I’m joined by my partner, Andrés, to talk about our adoption journey. We’ll share where we are in the process, the challenges we’ve faced, and answer some of your questions about what it’s really like. From navigating agencies to dealing with the emotional ups and downs, we’re giving you an honest look at the highs, lows, and everything in between. Sponsored By:  Puori Go to Pu...

In this episode, Matthew Dempsey, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, gives us a behind-the-scenes look at therapy and mental health. With years of experience, he talks about creating a safe space for clients, how to approach therapy, and why finding a supportive community matters. He also discusses the misuse of therapeutic terms, the ever-evolving nature of psychology, and beating the st...

Ever wondered how a young talent from Miami makes a leap to the grandeur of Broadway? Join us as we explore Dexter Carr’s remarkable journey from his early days dancing with entertainment icons like Chris Brown, Beyonce and Janet Jackson to gracing Broadway stages in "Bring it On" and "In the Heights." Dexter shares invaluable insights into the transformative shift from the exhilarating world of p...

In this episode, I’m answering your questions about wellness and fitness. From workout routines and diet tips to those tough days when motivation is low, I’m sharing how I stay on track with my health. I’ll talk about everything from strength training and cardio to dealing with cravings and finding balance between exercise, diet, and mental well-being. Plus, get ready for some forbidden food confe...

Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, I’m super excited to chat with H. Alan Scott, a talented writer, comedian, and podcaster you might know from Newsweek's The Parting Shot and *Out on the Lanai. We’ll explore the world of podcasting, talking about how to find your voice and connect with your audience. H. Alan will share his journey from writing to comedy and how he uses humor to...

Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today we’re joined by the fabulous Betsy Volk, a model and adventurer whose journey is as inspiring as it is exciting. At just 27, Betsy has been navigating the modeling world since she was 16, moving from the Midwest to Los Angeles and traveling the globe while embracing her authentic self as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Join us as we explor...

Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In this episode, I’m pleased to welcome back my partner, Andres, as we answer your questions about relationships. We’ll discuss a range of topics, from the nuances of polyamory to the importance of communication in love. I’ll address your questions—like what makes us the cutest couple ever—while we explore the challenges of navigating relationships, in...

Welcome back to another episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Brandon Rogers, a comedian and YouTube sensation with over 10 million followers. We explore his journey in sketch comedy, the challenges of virality, and the importance of queer representation in media. From his iconic characters to his award-winning series Blame the Hero, Brandon s...

Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re exploring the vibrant world of creative vision with the talented Henry Jimenez. At just 24, Henry has made waves in fashion and celebrity photography, using his art to challenge norms and advocate for social change. Join us as we discuss his journey from a young boy in Comalcalco, Mexico, to a dynamic force in Los Angeles...

Welcome to today’s Ask Me Anything episode, where I tackle the intriguing questions you've sent me on Instagram! From my shoe size (a surprisingly popular topic) to the mystery of Sarge's backup food guy, we’ll cover it all. We’ll also discuss coming out in theater school, dealing with bullies, navigating dating apps, and even how to escape an alligator attack! Get ready for a fun mix of curiositi...

Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Spencer Hunt, better known as Spencewuah, a TikTok sensation famous for their "Daily Scream" series. Join us as Spencwuah shares the highs and lows of stardom in the digital age, the unofficial 6th borough, and the time someone used their photos to catfish. Stay tuned for dating horror stories, chaotic...