The Introspective and Hot Podcast w/ Kat Blaque

Some folks are polyamorous, some folks are monogamous and some people are somewhere on the spectrum. As a polyamorous person, I identify myself as polyamorous because of my aversion to monogamy, but everyone has their own perspective and that's what this discussion is about. From a gay pup player discussing his own self discovery of polyamory to a woman in the middle of a lesbian throuple, wh...

Years ago, I ended a monogamous relationship with a person I loved more than anything so that I could live more happily and honestly. Because of that, I have a hard time understanding people who claim to be "ambiamorous" or "polyflexible". People use these terms to express that they are open to monogamy AND polyamory, but for me it's very hard for me to not see that as an...

The "kink at pride" discourse happens every single year often between people who don't actively go to Gay Pride.  So I thought I'd open up to lines to actual Pride Attendees to discuss their feelings. We speak to sex workers, asexual folks, trans men and gay men who've been goin to pride for decades. We speak to people who agree and disagree and the conversation is quite f...

THIS BREW IS GOOD. A super diverse array of perspectives on this topic. We hear from a trans woman currently stuck in a relationship with a DL man, we hear from a non binary person who once struggled to date trans women because of their own internalized transphobia, we hear from a woman who recently discovered her partner is trans attracted and on the DL and we hear from several men currently on t...

Every time around this year, we have this debate about Kink at Pride. When I say "we", I guess I mean the acronym. Even though I don't entirely feel I'm part of the acronym, even if I am on paper, I felt I'd share my perspective as an active BDSMer who has fairly strong opinions about when BDSM is appropriate and inappropriate. To me, consent is at the forefront of BDSM an...

During a previous stream, a commenter posed a very interesting question: Why are "Down-Low" men cowards for not claiming Trans Women, but Trans Women aren't cowards for not always revealing that they are transgender. Bot scenarios are about survival and the ability for a person to be taken with dignity and respect. However, in this episode, I push back on that question because while...

So, I decided to open up the lines to bisexual men, who were the target of some of my frustrations, to discuss the topic of whether or not bisexual folks have so-called "straight passing privilege". We had a fascination conversation about privilege, social ineptitude and the biphobia bi men experience when they share their sexuality with their partners Support the show If you enjoy the p...

After recognizing that this conversation is felt very differently bi bisexual folks of different genders, I decided to split my call-in show up and specifically have conversations with folks who were designated female at birth, who react quite differently to this conversation. In this call-in show, we have some really amazing conversations about how bi women are fetishized by men and often erased...

This is part 1 of the 3 part True Tea Call-In show for the episode, "Do Bisexual People Have Straight Passing Privilege", a conversation that started when Lindsay Ellis' old blogs about her own feelings about her bisexuality resurfaced. In this segment, I quickly go over my own feelings on the matter and then Lindsay Ellis herself calls in to discuss and clarify her statements. We b...

My Amazing followers call in and discuss the previous episode of True Tea where we discuss whether or not Trans Women have "male privilege". Specifically in the context of women like Caitlyn Jenner, who managed to amass wealth using her image as a quintessential, White, American cis man. I don't think "privilege" is the right word, but there's a lot to discuss about p...

Lindsay Ellis was recently in some heat for some comments she made about Disney's new movie, Raya; but part of that so-called "cancellation" brought to light some previous comment she made about bisexual people having "straight passing privilege"- This idea that bisexuals are able to essentially protect themselves from homophobia because they are in relationships that seem...

Caitlin Jenner recently commented that transgender girls should not compete with cisgender girls in sports. I don't have a full opinion on that specific question, but it struck me that Caitlin Jenner has never been a teenage transgender person wanting to participate in sport. Instead, she lead a life where her athletic achievements and fame were built during a time in her life where she was k...