Teens: No Cap

Struggling with a teen client who refuses to talk? You're not alone. In this episode, we're tackling one of the biggest challenges for teen therapists and parents: what to do when a teen shuts down. I'm sharing the top 5 practical, validating strategies you probably never learned in grad school to de-escalate tension, build trust, and create a safe space for even the most resistant teens. Learn ho...

Chaos before coffee! Join teen therapist and specialist Charity Chaffee as she answers your Reddit questions with her signature no-nonsense, expert advice. In this episode, she tackles three big parenting dilemmas: Piercings & Permission: What to do when one parent says "yes" to a 14-year-old's belly button piercing and the other isn't so sure. Charity breaks down the real questions to ask bey...

In this solo episode of Teens: No Cap, Charity Chaffee, LMHC (Licensed Mental Health Counselor and teen/tween specialist), breaks down why collaborative parenting is the game-changer for raising tweens, teens, and young adults. If you’ve been using gentle parenting (great for little kids!) but need a more effective approach as your child grows, this episode is for you! 🔹 Why collaborative parenti...

In this heartfelt conversation, we dive deep into parenting teens with empathy, setting boundaries, and fostering genuine connection. Learn how to model healthy behaviors, handle tough conversations, and create a safe space for your teen to thrive—even when emotions run high. 🔹 Key Takeaways: ✔️ How to role-model accountability & emotional regulation for your teens ✔️ The power of listening v...

🎙️ Episode 13 of Teens: No Cap features Liz Garcia from The Simplified Struggle diving deep into parenting teens—especially adopted teens—with trauma, emotional regulation, and building trust. From navigating independence to understanding behavior as communication, Liz shares her experience as a mom of four (two adopted, two biological). 🔹 Key Topics: ✔️ Differences between parenting adopted vs....

Welcome back to Teens No Cap! In this episode, licensed mental health counselor Charity Chaffee reacts to real Reddit threads to share professional insights on parenting and working with teenagers. In this episode, we cover: Lying About Dating: We review a story about a 14-year-old boy who lied about hanging out with a girl instead of a buddy. Learn why responding with clear boundaries and expecta...

Are you a parent or therapist feeling overwhelmed when a teenager goes into crisis? In Episode 41 of Teens: No Cap, host Charity Chaffee, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor specializing in high-risk adolescents, breaks down the reality of teen crises and how to safely manage them. Charity explains that teens are not just "little adults" and require specialized understanding and scaffolding. A cris...

⚖️ "70% of IEPs fail to deliver promised services—here’s how to change that." In this must-latch episode, teen therapy expert Charity Chaffee (LMHC) sits down with Frances Shefter (Special Education Attorney, Host of Stress-Free IEP podcast) to reveal: 💡 You’ll learn: ✅ The #1 mistake parents make in IEP meetings (hint: it’s not being "too pushy"). ✅ How to decode "edu-speak" and spot when scho...

🔴 "63% of teens learn about sex from friends or porn - here's how to change that." In this must-latch episode, teen therapy expert Charity Chafee (LMHC) sits down with Brittney Slater (Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist & Sex Therapy Specialist) to break down: 💡 You'll learn: ✅ Why the "one big talk" about sex fails teens (and what to do instead) ✅ How early sexual experiences rewire...

🔴 "If your teen is self-harming, they’re telling you something—but are you listening?" In this raw, unfiltered episode, teen therapy expert Charity Chafee, LMHC sits down with Cally Sullivan, LMHC (specialist in adolescent suicidality and self-harm) to dismantle the myths, fears, and systemic failures in treating high-risk teens. 💡 You’ll learn: ✅ The shocking difference between adult vs. teen...

🎆 This July 4th, celebrate true teen independence—by becoming their safe harbor. In this solo episode, Charity Chafee (LMHC & founder of Teens Uncharted) shares why connection is the foundation of every healthy parent-teen relationship—even when they act like they’d rather "declare independence." 🔥 In this episode, you’ll learn: ✅ The "Declaration of Dependence" paradox: Why teens need conn...

🎙️ TEENS UNCHARTED | PART 2: "The Modern Rites of Passage Every Boy Needs" (Missed Part 1? Watch here: https://youtu.be/QZnjPS1q_AM?si=QQD0kKtG0hi0-SJ- ) In this critical conclusion, trauma coach Gregory Meadows reveals: ✅ The 3 non-negotiable rites of passage for today’s boys (and how to implement them) ✅ Why fathers must lead this charge—and what happens if they don’t ✅ How to rebuild trust w...

🎙️ Welcome to the Teens Uncharted Podcast! In this episode, host Charity Chaffee (Licensed Mental Health Counselor) and guest Gregory Meadows (Trauma & Family Coach) dive deep into: ✅ Consistency in parenting – Why tracking behavior beats assumptions ✅ Repairing strained parent-teen relationships – Prioritizing connection over control ✅ Rites of passage for boys – Why modern teens lack tran...

In this moving episode of Teens Uncharted, host Charity Chaffee, LMHC, sits down with Dr. Angela Parente, a clinical psychologist, to unpack the truth behind teen behavior — and why it takes tremendous courage for adolescents to say: "I don’t want to go to school because my brain shuts down from anxiety." Together, they talk about how: No one wakes up choosing depression. "Manipulative" behavior i...

In this heartfelt and insightful episode, we’re joined by Marissa Dungan, LICSW-CST, to talk about the often-overlooked emotional and developmental transitions that teens—and their families—experience. Together, we explore what it means to parent through change, how to reflect as a family system, and the unique challenges of watching your “little human” grow up. This episode offers a sneak peek in...

In this raw and insightful episode, we’re joined by Jessica Jamison—licensed therapist, fitness coach, and the heart behind the Dumbbells and Donuts community. Together, we unpack how disordered eating and compulsive exercise can go hand in hand for teens—and how what looks like "discipline" or "health" can actually be a cry for help. This conversation is a must-listen for therapists, parents, and...

In this episode of Teens Uncharted: The Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Misti J. Norton, a licensed psychologist specializing in OCD treatment for teens and families. Dr. Norton shares her expertise on how parents can best support their teens in managing obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and the crucial role therapy plays in the process. Dr. Norton talks about the importance of setting boundaries,...

🎉 Welcome to the very first episode of Teens Uncharted: The Podcast! 🎉 In this pilot episode, host Charity Chaffee is joined by Dr. Emily Gordon for a candid and compassionate conversation about teen therapy — especially when working with high-risk adolescents. Together, they explore how clinicians and parents can better understand teen behavior, improve communication, and strengthen relationshi...