Stepmomming Made Easy

The school year is in full swing for many of us! One of the most common questions I receive from stepmoms this time of year is, "Should I attend the parent-teacher conference?". My answer isn't the same for every stepmom, but in today's episode, I'll give you some helpful insight into boundaries to set about being involved in your stepchild's education and questions t...

Stepmom, you are in for a treat today! I'm chatting with No Guilt Mom's JoAnn Crohn all about the sources of guilt, and how to rewire years of conditioning that make it such a powerful motivator. If you suffer from guilt in your stepfamily, you definitely won't want to miss this interview! JoAnn Crohn, M. Ed is a parenting educator and life coach who helps moms feel confident in rai...

Oftentimes, stepmoms and their partners work to keep the peace with their stepchild's other home. But at what cost? If trying to keep the peace outside of the home has cost you the peace inside your home, then you do not want to miss today's episode! Perhaps it's an unpopular opinion, but I truly believe "Keep the peace" is really shitty advice for stepmoms and their partn...

Hey stepmom! Welcome back to the Stepmomming Made Easy podcast!! I've missed you this summer!! I have so many incredible episodes lined up for you this season. I thought we knocked it out of the park with season 1, but somehow season 2 is EVEN BETTER.  Get ready, because it all starts on October 3rd! Grab your free ticket for StepmomCon now, and mark your calendars for April 22-24! https://st...

Hey, stepmom! Summer break is quickly approaching, and with it, stress and overwhelm for many stepmoms. In today's episode, I share with you my three main tips for how to navigate summers as a stepmom: 1. Manage your schedules 2. Manage your energy 3. Manage your boundaries Plus, I answer some of your questions about summer! If you're stressed about the kids being home for a couple of mo...

Hey, stepmom! Mini-wife (or husband) syndrome is something many stepmoms are combatting in their households. Today's guest expert, Maarit Miller of Blended Family Frappe, is talking about what it is, how to deal with it, and how to communicate with your partner about your uncomfortable feelings! It's a GREAT conversation you won't want to miss! Maarit is a writer, artist, and former...

Hey, stepmom! In today's episode, we're hearing the final installment of our "Let's hear from our partners!" series. In this episode, we're hearing from our partners about the stepmom's role and involvement, and what our partners would change if they could. I think you'll find their answers to these questions SO interesting: If you got a do-over in your curr...

Mother's Day is often one of the hardest days of the year for stepmoms. It's a day that highlights for many stepmoms how the role mirrors the mom role but is still dramatically different in certain ways. If you're concerned about the upcoming holiday, here are 5 tips and reminders for you: 1. This is only 24 hours. Don't let this one day define your worth. 2. Separate your fact...

Hey, stepmom! It's time for the second installment of our partners series! This time, our partners are answering critical questions like: What’s one thing you want your partner to know about your struggles as a divorced/separated parent? What are you insecure about in stepfamily life and how can your partner make you feel more secure? What worries do you have about stepfamily life in the futu...

Hey there, stepmom! My parents divorced when I was 2, and I had a few different stepparents throughout my childhood. Today, I'm sharing what I learned from that experience and how I use that intel to be the best stepmom I can possibly be! We've heard from the partners; now, let's get the stepchild's perspective! Ready to create a stepmom life you love? Grab my FREE GUIDE 15 Way...

You are in for such a treat today, stepmom! We’ve spent some time talking about our partners’ perspectives, but now let’s hear it directly from them! In today’s episode, a panel of partners is answering some of your most burning questions, including: Is your current situation any less special than the relationship with your child(ren)'s parent? How have lessons from your past relationship imp...

Hi, stepmom! If you are ready to ditch the guilt and show up confident and purpose-filled in your stepmom role, then today's episode is for you!  Don't love your stepchildren? Dreading seeing the ex at your stepson's baseball practice? Feeling guilty for not showing up in the same role the ex did? Disappointed in yourself for not being able to figure out this stepmom stuff on your o...

Hi, stepmom! Have you ever struggled to understand your partner's perspective and why they seem to have such a different experience in your family than you do? Today, we're exploring why! You and your partner have different lenses through which you view your family, and once you understand the differences, it can explain so much! Ready to set boundaries with the ex to protect your peace?...

Hi, stepmom! In today's episode, Erin Careless, PhD and I are chatting about all things stepping back! If you've noticed that your role needs a refresh and you want to learn how to take a step back from tasks and triggers that disrupt your peace in your stepfamily, you don't want to miss this talk! Erin Careless, PhD is a Certified Stepparent Coach and writes under the name, Steplif...

Hi, stepmom! I want to talk about CONTROL! As stepmoms, we feel like we don't have any, we crave it, we need it... and yet, sometimes we inadvertently give it away! Today, I'm sharing 4 ways we unintentionally give away control as a stepmom:  You're not empowering your partner to make decisions. You're answering texts or emails as they come in. You're not setting boundarie...

Stepmom infertility is like salt in the wound. Raising another woman’s child while struggling to have your own is a uniquely painful experience. For my fellow stepmoms battling infertility as a stepmom, I'm sharing 4 big tips for coping with those feelings before they turn to resentment! Ready to create a stepmom life you love? Grab my FREE GUIDE 15 Ways to Become a Happier Stepmom Overnight:...

Hi, stepmom! One of the BIGGEST stressors that many stepmoms face in their stepfamilies is their partner's ex. The ex may be overtly high-conflict, or they may be more subtle with their distrust or dislike of you. Even though it can feel *really* personal, it's entirely possible you didn't do anything wrong to cause them to dislike you. In today's episode, I'm diving into...

Stepmom, you're in for a treat, today! I'm joined by Joslynn Flowers of The Daily Stepmom, and we chat about all things full-time stepparenthood, adding an ours baby to the family, and race dynamics in stepfamilies. Joslynn is an absolute delight, and I know you're going to love this conversation! Joslynn is a full time mom of 4, (the older 3 being her stepkids) and a certified step...

Hey, stepmom! Today, we have a special guest, my friend Beth McDonough of The Inclusive Stepmom! We discuss a tendency for some stepmoms to "stepsmother" their stepkids and what you should do instead! We also chat about feeling jealous of your stepkids, the shame you may experience around those feelings, and what we can do to resolve it! Beth is a Certified Stepparent Coach, Co-CEO of St...

Hey, stepmom! If you've been struggling in your role, you're definitely not alone. Stepmomming isn't challenging because you're not good enough or not cut out for it. It's just plain tough! In today's episode, I'm sharing three aspects of the stepparent role that make it so challenging. Ready to create a stepmom life you love? Grab my FREE GUIDE 15 Ways to Become...

Hi, stepmom! Barb Goldberg is joining us for today's episode of the Stepmomming Made Easy podcast, and I'm so honored! Barb is one of the most fun, creative, and insightful people I've ever met. You're going to LOVE this conversation! Barb Goldberg is the author and owner of The Evil Stepmother Speaks website, blog and book. As the stepmother to three children and the biologica...

Stepmomming is uniquely challenging. Unless you've been one yourself, you'll likely never understand a stepmom's perspective. In today's episode, I'm sharing 5 things stepmoms want their partners to know:  1. I had no idea what I was signing up for. 2. Some days I need a break, and that needs to be okay. 3. My role is different. 4. There is so much pressure on me as the st...

When I was first dating Kevin, I was consumed by thoughts of his ex and constantly questioning if our relationship was as special as theirs had been. In this episode, I'm sharing 5 reminders that helped me to get out of my head and recognize how uniquely special our relationship truly is. You deserve freedom from your insecurities too, my friend. 1. You are the only one thinking about the ex...

Nearly every stepmom I've ever met has felt like an outsider in her stepfamily at some point. In today's episode, I'm sharing my 3 best tips for overcoming outsider syndrome to build a stepmom life you love. Ready to create a stepmom life you love? Grab my FREE GUIDE 15 Ways to Become a Happier Stepmom Overnight: https://stepmomming.com/happier Let’s work together: https://stepmommi...

Hey, stepmom! Amelia Lane is joining me for today's episode of the Stepmomming Made Easy podcast. We had a fascinating conversation about her experience moving into the home her partner shared with his ex and my experience with the ex moving in with us. You don’t want to miss it! We talk all about:  A stepmom's perspective when the ex is figuratively or literally in your home (Literally...