Soul Boss

Have you fallen into a rut of striving and efforting? Try taking a fun, light-hearted attitude and rely on soft skills to power your results. Be the person who marries play and productivity!

Has someone told you that you can only get ahead by doing things at other people’s expense? Don’t fall for that story. Instead, learn how you can use soft skills to bring your principles to life!

Admit it—are you a little stubborn? Instead of putting your head down and pushing forward, redirect your will. Use that energy and stubbornness to your advantage to learn, expand, and grow!

Is your internal wisdom urging you to Be the Somebody that leads a transformation? Learn how soft skills will help you flip the script like a Visionary!

Speaking up isn’t just good communication—it is an act of self-respect and self-care. So, start advocating for yourself early and often using soft skills. Say no before you blow!

True self-care isn’t about isolating or hanging out at your favorite nature spot. It’s about learning how to maintain your center in a loud, complicated world. If you’re getting baited into arguments, including squaring off with strangers, start using soft skills. Make the smart choice to sashay away!

Taking care of yourself isn’t vain or self-centered—it’s an essential, shrewd way to meet your goals. Use the soft skill of healthy self-esteem to fill up your tank so you can keep going all day long. Respect yourself!

Are you ready to release unrealistic expectations, guilt, and that ridiculous To-Do list that never gets done? Turn to the 3Ds: Do it, delegate it, or dump it. Use the soft skill of smart choices to advocate for your self-care!

When stresses and pressures happen, do you know how to advocate for your peace of mind? Click to learn 5 ways soft skills can help you respond when you feel triggered and tongue-tied.

Do you feel like you need to fight fire with fire to be taken seriously? Learn how soft skills can help you step back from stress, anger, and confusion and find answers. Care without getting carried away!

We all need to GSD, but are you the person offering clarity and insight that people love to see coming, or the hellraising steamroller where people sigh, “Whew—I’m glad they left!” Learn how soft skills can help you transform frustrated aggression into positive action.

Are you tired of feeding the email-chat-text beast? Use the soft skill of making smart choices about what to say and when. Quit the Most Mail Sent club!

When you think back to your pre-lockdown world, did you constantly judge yourself for not measuring up to others? Scorekeeping probably made you feel constrained, worried, and miserable, and that’s no fun! Click to learn how soft skills can help you turn the page from stress. Design Life 2.0 from joy and what captures your imagination.

Are you forcing a creative idea just because it’s the first idea you had? Refining is a natural and necessary step of the creative process. Learn how healthy self-esteem can help you prime your creativity!

Are you feeling nervous that your post-pandemic life isn’t falling into place? Reframe this period. See it as a detour where you’re learning to stay open, curious, and teachable. Click to learn how to combine the soft skills of adaptability and creativity—make delays work for you!

Has Life ever tricked you, where you thought you were playing one game and found out later you were in the middle of a completely different situation? As you think about your post-pandemic world, you may be determined to reverse that curse. If you’re not sure what to do next, follow this simple formula: Align to what matters to you, then design your life around those qualities. Click to learn how...

Pandemic life has hit a tipping point—finally! But are you already feeling frustrated trying to leap into your Best Life Ever? Learn how to use the soft skill of creativity to get back to basics. It’s time to revive and reclaim the hopeful, true you.

Have you ever seen the Pinterest pin that says, “I do hard things,” and your next thought was, I do hard things. Uh, sometimes! Everyone has a gap or two—but the trick is being courageous enough to accept missions that put you in a daring high-wire act of mastering new skills. Are you ready to accept the mission to level up? Click to learn how!

Have you ever felt like a truth needed to be told, but you were stumped about when, where or how to do it? So, you kept stuffing but until a bad day turned you into a volcano and you became Blurty McBlurt? Me, too! Click to learn how to use soft skills to speak your truth.

One-upping people with a snappy comeback may feel good in the moment, but there’s a big difference between forcing and The Force. Before you jump into a power struggle, remember what Han Solo said: “The Force doesn’t work that way!” Click to learn how to skip stand-offs and use the genuine power technique to Update to Confrontation 2.0.

Are you aware of how you show up and how you're using your energy? Before you hit turbocharge and overwhelm everyone in the room, use Technique #4, Control the Burn, from my free bestseller Genuine Power: 7 Techniques to Be Powerful in a Loud, Complicated World. Learn how to shift your energy from a steamrolling fixer to a supportive ally.

Has a good or bad mood become the boss of your decisions? Choices can backfire when you’re accidentally ruled by your mood. So, take inspired action like the creative, wise CEO of your life—a Soul Boss—and take charge of your decisions. Click to learn how!

Are you hanging on because of time invested, pride, or someone else's opinion? It’s easy to pull back or pull out altogether when the facts are obvious and negative. But most of the time, knowing when to bounce is much more ambiguous. Click to learn how you can make smart trade-offs so you can trade up. Stop clinging to what is comfortable and take the wise step of knowing when to bounce!

Is your go-to habit texting ten people before you make any choice? Hold up—you may be letting your personal power slip. Wise choices are about more than the result—they’re about how you feel as you make them. And when you don’t feel confident, it’s tough to make any decision, let alone a wise one. Click to learn how to make power personal.

Do you ever wonder if you’re listening to your gut or indulging your ego? Click to learn how to pay attention to the inside information that’s coming your way, even if you’re getting feedback your ego would rather not hear. If you want to make wise choices about where to go next, don’t minimize those messages—listen up.