Sometimes Curious, Often Confused

Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 5 Every January, millions of people embrace the promise of a fresh start, setting New Year’s resolutions aimed at personal growth, better health, or greater happiness. Yet, by February, many of these goals have already fallen by the wayside. Why does this cycle of optimism and abandonment repeat itself year after year? Is it a lack of...

Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 4 Christmas is often filled with glittering lights and festive cheer, but what’s really happening behind the scenes? In this episode, we’re digging into the emotional and social costs of the holiday season—the pressures to overspend, overindulge, and maintain fake connections. From the stress of trying to live up to expectations to th...

Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 3 Why does being humble sometimes feel like a competitive sport? In this episode, I dive into how humility can shift from a genuine trait to a performance, with some people using it to project an image rather than live it authentically. Have you ever spotted these behaviors in others—or noticed yourself doing something similar? If tod...

Season 1: Why We Do What We do and why It’s Not Weird | Episode 2 "God When" has become a familiar phrase in Nigerian conversations about success, hope and timing. This episode discusses what it reveals about the balance between aspiration and societal pressure, as well as the broader global fascination with public milestones. Got thoughts on today’s topic? Let me know at scocpod@outlook.com or co...

A casual compliment, a kind gesture, or an offhand comment—why do these seemingly small moments sometimes leave such a lasting impression? In this episode, we explore how these interactions can unexpectedly shape our lives, influence our emotions, and even alter the way we view ourselves or others. Whether it's a kind word that boosts your confidence or a careless remark that stays with you, these...

People are fascinating — how we think, how we talk, the choices we make, and I’m here for it. I'm Richard Okongwu, and every week I talk about trust, money, and our relationships with one another. You know, the little and significant events that shape our lives. This podcast is part thought experiment, part personal journal — sometimes messy, other times obvious, but always honest. I'm no expert;...