Solarpunk Mythos

In this essay, I question whether men and women can ever truly be "just" friends. Research seems to suggest that women can, but men can't. How can friendship work when so many men would fuck all their friends? Think about what this says about the limits to egalitarianism in a solarpunk culture. If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you think this me...

In this essay, I deconstruct Halloween as an example of a mythos. A mythos includes a narrative with practices, rituals, and festivals that orient people within that narrative. Think about the story you tell yourself about what it means to be a citizen of your nation, and how national anthems, national holidays, and art inspire you to be proud of that national identity. Halloween is a very specifi...

In this essay, I use platonic friendships as an example for how the self is created out of its relations with others. This may seem odd since I've been using romantic relations as a case study for the definition of a solarpunk self. Why are platonic friendships necessary for romance that can create us as ethical people? If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for...

In this essay I connect the dots I've been laying down over the last 13 essays. If the self is relational, created out of its relations with others and the world, then we have to reckon with the meta-contextuality of the self. We are created out of contexts that we create through the person we become across all contexts. There is ethical weight to that insight. If you like this episode, please be...

In this essay, I outline the movement from Expert to Achiever, and beyond. To grow out of conformity we must conform to Experts who represent our emerging ideal. That means that our ideal is intimately bound up with what our culture takes to be "expertise". If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you think this message is important, please share with...

In this essay, I discuss the psychological development that occurs from Conformist to Individualist/Pluralist. I first outline what it means to be Conformist, how we become defined by a social identity. I then outline the movement away from conformity through experts that represent an emerging personal ideal. If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If yo...

In this essay, I discuss the twisted forms of love, phobos and thanatos. Phobos is the love of unhealthy aspiration that drives us to hate the "lower" parts of ourselves. Thanatos is the love of our current world's desires to the exclusion of any aspirational self. I then explore the sexual-romantic worlds opened up by these different forms of love in feminist and manosphere men. If you like this...

In this essay, I united the loves of eros and agape into the stance of erotic agape and the self as a student/teacher. As we interact, we are each of us students and teachers of each other. I then apply this to the problem of consent. If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you think this message is important, please share with your friends. You can a...

In this essay, I introduce eros as the creative love of self-transcending agency. In our development as human beings we must be called to learn and to grow, which requires the willingness to transcend who we currently are. This is not the love of consumption, but of aspiration. If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you think this message is importan...

In this essay I introduce agape as the love of compassionate, educative hospitality for the student's flaws, faults, and mistakes. In producing solarpunk selves we need to be willing to make room for the imperfections of those we seek to change. Transformation is hard enough without punishing people for not already being where we demand they be. If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star t...

In this essay, I discuss how self-development requires an ecology of practices that focus on multiple forms of development. I then talk about the philosophy of aspiration and define what an increase in complexity means. If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you think this message is important, please share with your friends. You can also find writte...

In this essay I go deeper into the notion that we are composed of parts. In understanding the solarpunk self we need to take these parts into consideration because they can be at different stages of development. If we, despite our usual behaviour, frequently do things that defy our best intentions, then we need to understand why these parts of us do what they do. This was inspired by Internal Fami...

In this essay, I discuss the philosophy of Martin Buber, Emmanuel Levinas, and Byung-Chul Han, and how they can help us understand how the solarpunk self emerges. What does it mean to relate to the other as Alter, and why does this actually matter? If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you think this message is important, please share with your frie...

In this essay, I continue my redefinition of the self in a solarpunk culture. We discuss the quality of relations using Martin Buber's distinction between "You" and "It", and then Levinas distinction between "totality" and "infinity". We apply it to the concept of the sexual citizen, using that as our case study for defining ethical relations. As Levinas and Beauvoir say, the sexual relation is ex...

In this essay, I continue the deconstruction of the neoliberal individual, the self-interested, autonomous, rational actor we are all expected to be. I then introduce the notion of the relational dividual, or a conception of the self that takes itself to be created out of its relationships and so focuses on the ethical quality of relation. If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the pod...

In this essay, I begin to contrast the solarpunk self with the notion of the liberal individual, the autonomous, rational actor that we are all assumed to be. What does it mean to expect people to be liberal individuals when many of these capacities must be developed toward? What happens when we fail to educate people in those capacities? If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podc...

In this essay, I begin defining a solarpunk self as a relational self, or one created out of its relations with others and the world. Given the egalitarianism of solarpunk, we need relations that are ethical, and according to Beauvoir and Levinas, the sexual relation is exemplary of the ethical. As such, I use heterosexual relationships as a case study for the definition of the solarpunk self. You...

In this essay, I introduce a new direction for the channel. We're going to start focusing on solarpunk and the psychological development we need to get there.   You can find this podcast on youtube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yy_t6Yfd3WA   You can also find written versions of these with references - Introducing a Solarpunk Mythos - by Will Cameron

In this essay, I introduce the concept of sexual geography and how it can help us understand how a lack of sexual communion, or other-interested care, can manifest. If pickup artistry teaches sexual agency without communion, then we can see how quickly problems might emerge.   Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/metamasculine   If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follo...

In this essay, I introduce Hirsch and Kahn's concept of sexual citizenship and how it reveals the radical idea that most adults do not meet the criteria. What are the consequences of having a population of adults who fail to meet the demands for citizenship?   Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/metamasculine   If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If yo...

In this essay I discuss findings that Dark Triad men tend to have the highest number of sexual partners. If this is the case, can we really create a post-patriarchal pickup artistry? To answer this question we consider game acceptance, game denial, and game change.   Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/metamasculine   If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more...

In this essay I discuss the bodyguard hypothesis, which states that women will choose dominant men who will protect them from other men. I then explore the implications of this hypothesis on the horizon of romantic possibility. Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/metamasculine   If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you think this message is important...

In this essay I address the big question everyone has about pickup artistry, are their theories actually true? To answer this we have to understand the nature of theory itself much more deeply. How do our theories shape our experiences and define our interpretations of those experiences?   Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/metamasculine   If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podc...

In this essay I talk about how the romantic game of man the pursuer and woman the pursued leads to romantic misinterpretations. This turns this game into man the predator and woman the victim. Find out why this happens and what we can start doing about it.   Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/metamasculine   If you like this episode, please be sure to 5 star the podcast and follow for more! If you...

In this essay I introduce the fundamental premise of pickup artistry as, "I suck at talking to women, and I want to learn how so that they are excited about the possibility of sex or romance with me."   I then introduce one of the most popular romantic games - man the pursuer, woman the pursued - and how it can reinforce beliefs about man the predator and woman the victim. Given the fundamental pr...