Sippin On Excellence

Let this settle in… would you rather have thousands of likes or one love? In today's world, this question is very relevant. With the pervasiveness of social media, body-imagery, dating apps, etc., are we chasing the love of likes vs. the like of love? Are we able to truly find love within ourselves? This is a must listen episode if your need for love and your desire to be liked are in alignment fo...

Something is in the atmosphere and it's not good! Whether it is (un)social media, political differences, generational gaps, or whatever… people have lost the simple art of talking to each other. How hard is it to strike up a conversation? Are you too focused curating the perfect questions while also trying to anticipate every possible answer? Are great opportunities being missed because of waiting...

Do you have an ego? Of course you do. Every human does. The real question is how fragile is it? Do you exude a quiet confidence while checking your ego at the door when necessary? Or do you plonk your ego around the room like a boomerang covering up your inadequacies? Who has the bigger ego, men or women? The ego can be a monstrous beast… if you let it! With this episode, we are trying to help you...

Every human on this planet has needs, and that's a fact! But when do needs become well… TOO NEEDY? How do women get what they want without turning off the very person they expect to serve those wants? Is a controlling man a needy man? Is your line of communication in alignment with your desires? Basically, ARE YOU BEING CLEAR WITH WHAT YOU WANT?! This episode is about having a better understanding...

There seems to be a discrepancy in understanding the difference between being broken and being broke as it relates to men. Is a broke man BROKEN? Can a man of financial esteem be internally fractured? Sip Boyz tackle in depth and with curiosity the understanding, meaning and direction of the broken man. Questions, reviews and topics you would like to hear on the show: Website: podcastsoe.com   Ins...

Relationships are about harmony and balance as a unit. Often when there's a jolt that incites chaos within that relationship, it usually comes from an external stimulus, meaning… who shook the bottle? Where did this acute battle between the sexes come from? Is social media become too "triggering"? How have family and friends been the divider? This is a conversation between two brothers that just m...

Social status is everything, and we are all guilty of chasing it. Do you have as many options as you think? What's valued more...fame or wealth? Social status, financial capital, sexual capital... what holds more value and for who...men or women? This episode was dynamic with many twists and turns for so many reasons. Man, we went everywhere with this one, and, as usual, tied it all together! This...

The word friend is tossed around way too easily. Would you agree? It's understood that using friend can be used as a quick term to give identity and connection… but what does being a friend truly mean to you? What defines a true friendship? Who do you think has better time-tested friendships, men or women? What are your friendship expectations? Do you meet those expectations? These are just a few...

Do you ever ask yourself, "what are my intentions." If you're trying to get a job that may be temporary for you, do you state to your potential boss your future plans? You're happy in a relationship but you or your partner may want more, do you share what you envision between you two? The subject of intentions comes up quite often these days without truly defining what it means. Well people, Coach...

We all have wants. We all have needs. Is there always a difference? It's crazy how we can want something so bad that we convince ourselves of the need. Wants and needs can change with time and life experiences. Where you decide to focus your energy will often dictate your level of happiness. It's ok to want it all as long as you don't try to convince yourself that you need it all. Coach and Doc ge...

We have all faced conflicts both internal and external. Whether at home or at work… conflict is inevitable. How do you handle a potentially irritating or volatile situation? Do you face it head on, or do you run? Do you add fuel to the fire or do you extinguish? Most importantly, how do you handle that most troubling of conflicts...you vs. you? This is one for both men and women alike to better un...

How's your trust doing today? Is trust something that has to be earned for you? Do you give trust, until you cant? Even deeper, do you even trust yourself? Trust is so subjective. In this episode, we get into all aspects of trust and the pursuit of trusting relationships.  Questions, reviews and topics you would like to hear on the show: Website: podcastsoe.com   Instagram: @soe_podcast   YouTube:...

You worked hard to get where you are. You bought the house. You got the car. You created the lifestyle. But most importantly you got the haters! Haters come in all different fashions. Why does family (out of all the people) question your actions and potential? Why is your work ethic trumped by negative evaluations by co-workers that you've far surpassed? Man, we really dove heavy into this one. Th...

So ladies, you say you can't find a good man. Or as many say, there are no good men available. Now let's be real, is that true? Are you even able to recognize a good man if you see one? Does your energy create a door of invitation… or warning sign saying #iwishyouwould! Coach and Doc, two life-experienced brothers, are going to give you ladies a healthy diet of what it really takes to get a good m...

This show is a straight shot, no chaser! Men are men, and women are women… period! But are too many men housing their masculine traits to cover the cost to enter a woman's heart? Do women take on masculine traits too often to suppress their need for a man? Men and woman think differently, work differently, and move differently because we are DIFFERENT! Simply understand that everyone brings someth...

It's safe to say that in true human nature fashion, we all want more in life… more money, more things, more, more, and even more! But is it the desires of our own ambition, or is it the chase of wanting what others have? Are shiny objects and luxuries seen as sources of motivation or envy? This is a timeless subject that never gets old, just more volatile and egregious with our societal excessiven...

This topic came from a viewer that really got us saying hmm… Is it ok to be content with where one is in life or is that considerd failing for not wanting more? Is being content the same as settling? Are you failing if your life's ambitions are minimal? We have so many questions to ask and many directions to take this subject.  The boyz go all in it to give you some thoughts to sip on. So let's ge...

Kenny Rogers said it best, "You gotta know when to hold 'em. Know when to fold 'em. Know when to walk away. Know when to run!" This question is a constant in everyone's life, right? How long am I going to stay in this thankless job? When will he treat me better? When we get married? These questions are just a few of the many that even Coach and Doc can't answer. Only you can decide the when. Some...

If there is anything we can learn from the hit animation series Inside Out, it is that our emotions are very real. The question is how are you managing your emotions? In the moment of crisis, grievances or specs of personal intrigue are you able to navigate how you're feeling or just reacting emotionally? Are your emotions intact or do you wear them as a badge of honor? The Sip Boyz get in-depth w...

As Men's Mental Health Month comes to a close, we decided to have an in depth, uncensored and unfiltered look into the mind of a man and what matters to us. This discussion challenges conventional thinking and poses many questions that women and men alike need to hear. Open your ears, your minds and your hearts as we attempt to help you understand that WE MATTER!!! Questions, reviews and topics yo...

The idea of mutual reciprocity is on the table today. You receive goods, services or benefits in exchange for personal interests. That is the definition of a transactional relationship. However, is there too much giving of time and things with an expected kickback… that wasn't expected by all parties involved? Are all relationships transactional?  This episode will dice up every piece of what coul...

"They made me a better person." This statement gets tossed around way too easily and frequently. People love to lay claim to the glory of other's success, but we hear nothin but crickets for the failures. Men and women are very different in this mindset. Why? Truth be told, no one can make you better. Turn up the volume and lock in. The Sip Boyz are are giving you a hell of a lot to swallow in thi...

The alarm goes off. You hop in the shower, grab your coffee and keys, and run out the door. Pause for a moment. What are your intentions for the day? Seriously! The lack of intention can be a derailment of purpose and success. Does procrastination have a recurring role in your life? Does chasing your desires get out-played by the #1 success killer...comfort? This episode is about moving through li...

Mama always said never call someone "stupid".  Sorry mama, sometimes we have to call 'em like we see 'em.  Let's just face the fact that in an ultra politely correct world, the use of the word stupid can't be denied when there is nothing else that applies. If able and capable, yet never doing the job hired for, that's stupid! Posting HD, overly-edited pictures just hoping someone will see you for...

Nothing plucks at the heartstrings like a great love story.  On the other hand, what's more gut-wrenching than a love story broken? This episode will most definitely poke at your perspective of love. Does attraction automatically lead to chemistry? Are you compatible with your partner if you're no longer attracted to them? Are chemistry and compatibility the same? This is a conversation where the...