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In this episode of S.A.L.E. (South Asian Love Experiment), Radha explores the unexpected rise of Facebook Dating and why it might just be the dating app you haven’t considered yet. From the ease of use to Facebook’s deep insights into its users’ preferences, Radha discusses how the platform is quietly becoming a powerful tool for matchmaking—especially for women and South Asian singles. She also d...

Join us for an empowering conversation from our Men's Mental Health Month event: Live Powerfully as a Modern Desi Man. In this engaging discussion, Virinchi Tadikonda ( @kingvfitness ) and Ankur Bhatia ( @ankurdinated ) dive into critical topics like: Mental health stigmas around Desi men Navigating familial and societal expectations Embracing authenticity in fitness, fashion, and self-growth This...

In this episode, Radha explores the concept of masculine and feminine energy in the context of Desi dating and relationships. She discusses how these energies manifest in both men and women, breaking free from traditional gender roles and embracing a more balanced, fluid approach to connection. Radha dives deep into how South Asian singles, including those in queer relationships, can embody both e...

What does it mean to be truly desirable as a South Asian man? Hundreds gathered in San Francisco recently for a Dev Patel Look-Alike Contest, celebrating the actor’s role in redefining masculinity, attractiveness, and South Asian identity. From Patel’s journey of self-financing Monkey Man to claim an action-hero role, to Gen Z’s evolving relationship values, this event marked a cultural shift that...

This Veterans Day, we reflect on the sacrifices and service of South Asians in the U.S. military—a choice often seen as unconventional within our communities. At Single to Shaadi, we’ve been honored to welcome South Asian veterans, whose resilience and commitment to service bring depth to relationships. From Sikh soldiers upholding centuries-old traditions to those seeking citizenship through mili...

In this week's episode, I explore the evolution of Diwali from a cherished family celebration to a mainstream phenomenon, highlighting its dual identity that can empower yet alienate South Asian singles. As we navigate the commercialization of our traditions and the aspirational pressures of social media, it’s essential to reclaim the festival’s authenticity. For singles, this year’s Diwali can be...

Welcome to the October session of our Mindful Dating Book Club ! 📚 This month, we had the privilege of hosting Shailee Mehta, author of " Indians Don’t Get Divorced ," for a compelling conversation about love, marriage, and the cultural taboos surrounding divorce in South Asian communities. In her powerful debut, Shailee examines the social pressures and expectations that influence marital decisi...

As a matchmaker deeply immersed in the South Asian dating landscape, I’ve seen firsthand the complexities of transitioning from casual dating to serious relationships. Recently, I connected with relationship coach Tanya Mitra to explore common pitfalls singles often overlook. We discussed how a lack of relationship experience, failure to learn from past relationships, and unresolved inner conflict...

In this episode of Learn Love, Live , we bring you the much-anticipated debate between Modern Desi Man, Aakash Desai ( @aakidesai7 ), and Modern Desi Woman, Vaidehi Patel ( @lifeofvaidehi ). Listen in as they tackle the hot-button issues of love, dating, and relationships from their unique gender perspectives. From the challenges of finding connection in today’s fast-paced world to the cultural nu...

Is dating harder for Desi men or women? South Asian singles navigate a complex mix of modern dating expectations and cultural pressures. In this post, we break down both sides of the debate—whether it's emotional availability, family dynamics, or who should make the first move—and explore how these challenges manifest differently for men and women in the South Asian diaspora. Discover the unique h...

🐾✨ Meet Moo Deng, the baby hippo who's taken the internet by storm with her irresistible cuteness and playful attitude! 🌊💖 Beyond her adorable antics, Moo Deng teaches us valuable lessons about authenticity, playfulness, and confidence in dating and relationships. Just as she enjoys life without concern for outside opinions, we too can navigate the dating world by embracing our true selves. Jo...

As the leaves fall and the temperatures drop, 'Cuffing Season' is officially upon us! In this episode, we dive into an article I wrote last year about how this cozy time of year opens new opportunities for connection, especially within the South Asian diaspora. We'll explore the cultural resurgence of in-person events, festive gatherings, and how singles can take advantage of the socia...

The recent arrest of Sean "Diddy" Combs has brought the issue of domestic violence back into the spotlight, reminding us that abuse can exist even in the most powerful and high-profile relationships. For South Asians in America, this mirrors the struggles in our own communities, where shame and stigma often keep women trapped in toxic marriages. In this post, we explore the deep-rooted c...

In this episode, we dive into the intersection of politics and relationships within the South Asian American community. From Kamala Harris' historic presidential run to JD Vance's ties to the South Asian diaspora, we explore how political values influence modern dating. Is it possible to overlook political differences in relationships, or do they reflect our deeper values? Tune in as we br...

In this enlightening episode of the South Asian Love Experiment podcast, we delve into the mystical world of soulmates, karmic connections, and the profound beliefs surrounding marriage. We explore how these timeless concepts, enriched by astrological wisdom, can illuminate your journey to finding your true match. Join us as we discuss: The Concept of Soulmates: How Hindu beliefs view marriage as...

Welcome to the replay of our August Mindful Dating Book Club session! 📚 This month, we had the pleasure of diving deep into " Remember Who You Are: The Story Behind the Stories of Purpose " by the insightful author and astrologer Shweta Gandhi. 🌟 In this enriching discussion, Shweta shared her unique blend of astrology and storytelling to guide us on a journey of self-discovery and purpose. We e...

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's love story is one of Hollywood's most iconic, marked by passion, breakups, and reconciliations. As they face another separation, Vedic astrology offers a unique lens to explore the karmic patterns and planetary influences that have shaped their tumultuous relationship. From their shared Leo Rashi to the intense Scorpio Moon, discover how cosmic forces have...

Raksha Bandhan is a cherished tradition that celebrates the bond between siblings, transcending religious boundaries to focus on love, protection, and support. This year, as we honor this beautiful ritual, we’re also diving into how astrology can provide deeper insights into our sibling relationships and how these dynamics influence our approach to love and marriage. Astrology teaches us that our...

Welcome to "Learn Love, Live," the podcast that offers you an insider’s look into the real-life love lessons shared during Single to Shaadi ’s live events. Whether you're seeking to deepen your understanding of love, find meaningful connections, or enrich your life with practical wisdom, this podcast is your go-to resource. Each episode captures the essence of live-recorded sessions,...

Discover how my experience seeking sponsors for our Third Annual Speed Dating Event mirrors modern dating frustrations. From ghosting to endless questions, this post explores the parallels between sponsorship struggles and dating hurdles. Gain insights and tips to overcome these obstacles and stay motivated in the dating world. Read more on Single to Shaadi's blog !

Welcome to the replay of our July Mindful Dating Book Club session! 📚 This month, we were thrilled to explore the intriguing world of " Contracted Together " by the talented author Jyoti Dhanota ( @geetisbooked ). 🌟 In this engaging discussion, Jyoti shared her inspiration behind the creation of the characters and the fascinating world of contracted marriages. We delved into the realit...

Middle-aged divorcees are finding fresh starts and meaningful connections in the vibrant "Second Time Shaadi" community. At Single to Shaadi, we specialize in supporting mature singles who are re-entering the dating scene, often with kids and a focus on companionship over starting a new family. Whether you're exploring new hobbies, enjoying cultural events, or just looking for someon...

In our latest blog post, we dive into two viral TikTok trends—"Looking for a Man in Finance" and the "Hawk Tuah" girl—that starkly highlight gender disparities in dating culture. From the unrealistic beauty standards and financial expectations in the finance trend to the sexual objectification faced by women expressing their agency, these trends reveal the complex pressures fac...

Welcome to the replay of Single to Shaadi's empowering virtual event, "Elevate Your Dating Game: Fitness, Fashion, and Mental Health for South Asian Men," featuring esteemed guest speaker Virinchi Tadikonda ‪@KingVFitness‬ . In this insightful session, we delve deep into the three pillars of success for the Modern Desi Man: fitness, fashion, and mental health. Virinchi Tadikonda, a r...

Navigating the dating world as a South Asian man can be challenging, but with the right focus on fitness, fashion, and mental health, you can truly shine. Discover how these key areas enhance your confidence and charisma, helping you build genuine connections. Dive into our latest blog post to learn actionable tips that blend cultural richness with modern practices, transforming your dating journe...