Selfless Esteem

Dear Selfless Esteem, How do you heal a broken heart? Signed, Hurting Tune in for the answer... It's free to submit an anonymous question at GinaLeggio.com . The answer could be featured in a blog post, YouTube video, and/or podcast episode. If you're interested in therapy services:  Selfless-Esteem.com If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest eme...

Dear Selfless Esteem, My 2 kids are constantly bickering over everything and antagonizing each other. How can I stop this endless sibling rivalry? Signed, Mama Referee Tune in for the answer... Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post, YouTube video, or podcast episode: Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself If...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I don't have any friends because I'm so old that all of my best friends (and a lot of my peers) have passed away. I'm thankful for my long life but I'm very lonely. I don't think anyone would be interested in being friends with me because of my old age. How can I have close friends again? Signed, All Alone Tune in for the answer... Ask a question and the answer could be featu...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm curious about your thoughts on those of us who are addicted to being productive and always trying to tackle too much at once (including self-improvement initiatives)? How do we center and focus on one thing at a time to ensure what we're pursuing is meaningful and lasting? Thanks! Signed, Perfectionist Peggy Tune in for the answer... Ask a question and the answer could be...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm tired of doing and saying whatever pleases people when sometimes I don't want to, or I don't really mean it. I've been this way all my life. How can I stop people pleasing? Signed, Major People Pleaser Tune in for the answer... Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfle...

Dear Selfless Esteem, My dog died and I miss him so much. He was my fur baby and I can't believe he's gone. Do you think the Rainbow Bridge is true? I can't bear the thought that I'll never see him again. Signed, Heartbroken Pet Parent Tune in for the answer... Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I have a lifelong friend who seems more & more ungrateful & cold hearted. For years I've been there for her by encouraging & listening & helping her out financially when I didn't have much myself. She had similar beliefs but now snaps at me whenever I bring up God or the Bible. She gets mad over any & everything. She's become extremely critical, yells when I disagree & no mat...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I think I'm a victim of religious trauma because I'm such a perfectionist.  I've been this way since I was a child, and although there's some things I'm grateful for in my upbringing, religion isn't one of them. Whenever something bad would happen to me, a church leader or a church member would say God's punishing me for some unconfessed sin. I don't go to church anymore, but...

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm interested in aging gracefully but I'm also dreading sagging skin, wrinkles, and everything else that goes along with aging.   I see some crow's feet forming by my eyes, which I think is a bigger deal for me as a woman than it is for a man.   How can I stop focusing on this every time I look in the mirror? Signed, Not Forever Young Tune in for the answer. Ask a question a...

Dear Selfless Esteem, Why do I get so mad when I see my co-workers slacking off? I feel like I work twice as hard as they do, yet I don't make as much as they do. They never get in trouble for not doing their job. And I never get any praise for doing more than I need to do. I know it's not my place to "straighten them out" but how do I manage these strong feelings of anger and resentment towards t...

Dear Selfless Esteem, Does the "Let Them" theory contradict the Bible? Doesn't the Bible say that we should motivate each other to do good works? It also says to make disciples all over the world. In my life, I've even had people betray me, backstab me, and try to bring me down. Is it Biblical or even reasonable to have a hands-off approach? Signed, Just Wondering Tune in for the answer. Ask a que...

My fellow Americans usually attend barbeque parties or look for sales on Labor Day. But no matter what we do, let's remember the significance of this holiday. Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself

The Bible tells us how to become prosperous---but it's different than worldly methods so you may be surprised...and challenged. All Scripture quotations are taken from the updated World English Bible USA on  worldenglish.bible . 

In today's episode, we find an interesting connection between the books of Leviticus and Luke. It's also a healthy basis of our relationship with God. All Scripture quotations are taken from the Word English Bible in BibleGateway.com .

Analyzing Psalms, Matthew 16 and Mark 8, we discover more about God's faithfulness, which causes us to have more peace and joy. All Scripture quotations are taken from the Word English Bible in BibleGateway.com .

Today's episode is about Saul's conversion in Acts Chapter 9, which has interesting symbolism that applies to our spiritual growth.  All Scripture quotations are taken from the Word English Bible in BibleGateway.com . Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ®

Wouldn't it be great if we always had immediate gratification? We'll discuss a couple of reasons why God doesn't do that, and we'll look at examples in the story of Noah's ark (Genesis chapters 6-8) and in Mark Chapter 8. All Scripture quotations are taken from the Word English Bible in  BibleGateway.com . Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Self...

We continue with our study of the Bible as we seek answers to the question, "Why can't every part of our lives be perfect?" Let's dive into the book of Ezekiel. All Scripture quotations are taken from the Word English Bible in BibleGateway.com . Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ®

This episode addresses negative thinking that we easily fall into. It's also the beginning of a Bible study series so let's discover what God is telling us in Scripture about why God allows grueling work. All Scripture quotations are taken from the Word English Bible in  BibleGateway.com . Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Sel...

My fellow Americans usually attend barbeque parties, parades and fireworks shows. But no matter how we celebrate, we should remember the significance of this holiday. Tune in for details summarized from the National Archives. Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfless Esteem ® - The best versi...

Some families have celebrated Juneteenth for generations while some people are less familiar with it. This episode is an effort to benefit all people with both old and new ideas for celebration. Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode: Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself If you're in cris...

As you know, Memorial Day is coming up. And although many people appreciate having a day off the last Monday of May, the holiday means more than we could ever fully grasp. Tune in for more info. Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode: Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself If you're in cris...

Dear Selfless Esteem, My wife is Catholic and I'm Jewish. I think she's been taking the death of Pope Francis too seriously. She's been watching all the coverage, and it just makes me realize how different we are regarding religion. For the past year or so, she increased her church attendance and has been going to mass daily, which I think is excessive, especially since we have enough to do raisin...

Mother's Day weekend coming up. Sometimes Mother's Day is a happy occasion, sometimes it's sorrowful, and sometimes it's a combination of emotions. And so, this episode will address different kinds of Mother's Days. Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode: Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yours...

Listen in for several suggestions that you can pick and choose from so that Holy Week is personal to you.   Ask a question and the answer could be featured in a blog post or podcast episode:  Ask Selfless Esteem - Selfless Esteem ® For more info:  Selfless Esteem ® - The best version of yourself If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to...