SelfHealers Soundboard

Trauma can show up in our relationship in many ways. We can be shut down, defensive, and unable to speak what we really feel. In this episode, we share how trauma shows up in our own relationships and how we work through it. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR...

We are all in desperate need of connection. Recent events have had us more lonely, isolated, and disillusioned than ever. In this episode, we talk about building emotional intimacy and trust. If you’re ready for relationship upgrades, this ones for you. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/w...

There is one thing that causes relationships to end more than anything else: assumptions. Our brains tell stories in order to make sense of our world. Those stories are usually full of assumptions about “why” people do things. The problem is, our assumptions hold us back from true emotional connections with our partners, friends, and family. In this episode, you’ll learn how to stop assuming and s...

Trauma has many negative impacts, and it can also create the foundation for resilience + a connection to something greater than ourselves. In this episode, we talk about transforming tragedies + breakdowns into triumphs + breakthroughs. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW...

In this solo episode, Dr. Nicole talks about being a cycle breaker. Cycle breakers become aware of dysfunctional family patterns and heal. In our society people don’t talk about how scary, isolating, + lonely this can be. If you’re a cycle breaker on a journey of healing, this episode is for you! NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS C...

In this episode, we talk about two things that seem very different: gratitude and jealousy. But what if jealousy could teach us how to be grateful? In this episode, you’ll learn how to be more self aware, how to understand why jealousy happens, + how to switch up the way you think about jealousy you become happier + fulfilled. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobethelove...

If you’re looking to find your people this episode is a must listen. Dr. Nicole shares why she created a virtual healing community and gives you tips on how to connect with likeminded people. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself....

Most of us were taught as children that our emotions were wrong or bad. Some of us were punished for crying or told to not get angry. This makes us disconnected from our emotions as adults. In this episode, you’ll learn hope to have a new relationship with your emotions to create better relationships, feel more fulfilled, and have an overall better understanding of yourself. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HO...

Do you find yourself in relationships where you feel disappointed, unhappy, or like your expectations aren’t met? We repeat the dynamics and patterns we saw when we were little. Knowing this can help us heal our own patterns. If you’re craving more vulnerability and connecting with yourself and the people around you, give this episode a listen. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: http...

Grief is part of life. We lose people. Relationships end. Life changes. In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna share how grief can be medicine that helps us grow. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: h...

In this solo episode, Dr. Nicole breaks down nervous system health and why it’s so important. She also shares the vitamins responsible for creating neurotransmitters + how the health of our body creates the health in our mind. This one is a must listen for all SelfHealers! NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholist...

If you’ve ever felt resentment, frustration, or disappointment in your relationships, this episode is for you. We talk about why our beliefs about what relationships “should be” get in the way of us having the relationship we want. You’ll learn why society sets us up to believe another person completes us (they don’t!), why conflict isn’t always s bad, and how we can all create healthy relationshi...

Both Dr. Nicole and Jenna took space from family members during their healing journey. In this episode, they share their personal stories of how they reconnected with boundaries (yes, it’s possible!) If you struggle with family relationships, or if you’re ever thinking about rekindling a relationship from your past—this episode is for you. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://h...

In this episode, we talk about letting go of people that keep you in your past self. You’ll learn how to grow a better relationship with yourself, why letting go of relationships is part of evolving, and why it’s ok if you feel alone. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO...

In this episode, we talk about how trauma can impact our relationships causing us to feel alone and disconnected from the world and others. You’ll learn why spending time alone can help you grow and connect with your true self. And, why feeling disconnected from other people creates an opportunity for you to find healthier, more fulfilling relationships. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU...

In this episode, we talk about personal responsibility as an empowering choice and how it can help you co-create the life you desire.  You’ll learn why personal responsibility shifts the way you think, behave, and how it allows you to tell a new story about who you are. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticp...

In this episode, we talk about what is self-sabotage, why we do it, and how to practice out of it. We discuss how self-sabotage stems from unworthiness, why we fall back into old patterns that do serve us, and the opportunity to cultivate conscious choices to help you align with your future self. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS C...

In this episode, we talk about how to cultivate and strengthen a foundation of true self love. We discuss why the way you feel about yourself influences everything you do + how all of us have had an opportunity to learn to love ourselves. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HO...

In this episode, we talk about why forgiveness is for us, not the other person. We also talk about why forgiveness doesn’t excuse someone’s behavior and also doesn’t necessarily mean we allow them in our lives. Like all things, forgiveness is a journey. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/w...

In this episode, we talk about one of the most common trauma responses: fawning. Fawning is another word for people pleasing. Or believing other people “know better” than we do. We recently made a post on Instagram about people pleasing went viral, so we decided to break down how we learn this pattern, why it creates resentment + low self worth, and how we can take steps to start connecting to our...

In this episode, you’ll learn the foundation of healing, some practical tools to begin, and how Dr. Nicole began her own journey. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO DO THE WORK: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Wor...

In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about “setbacks” on the healing journey and how we can learn from them. They go into why change is so uncomfortable for the subconscious mind and why so much do the healing journey is about self-acceptance. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitl...

In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about feeling alone on the healing journey, losing certain relationships, and how this is all part of discovering who we truly are. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/waitlist/ GET HOW TO MEET YOUR SELF: https://howtomeetyourself.com/ GET HOW TO D...

This episode is a vulnerable, honest conversation about our new relationship. We recorded this to honor our commitment to authenticity and transparency with our community and the world at large. We are here to normalize new and difficult conversations. To speak consciously and bravely. We hope you’ll listen with an open heart + mind. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobe...

In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Jenna talk about interdependence. In this episode, you’ll learn why we are wired for connection, why codependency is so common, and how we can create healthy relationships where we don’t abandon ourselves or our own needs. NEW BOOK! PRE-ORDER HOW TO BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK: https://howtobetheloveyouseek.com/ JOIN SELFHEALERS CIRCLE: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/...