Secrets from a Billionaires’ Matchmaker With Gina Hendrix

The women who stay magnetic are the ones who never stop evolving, in how they look, how they show up, and the energy they put out.  Re-invention is the theme for this episode of Secret’s They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker, with Gina Hendrix and we have two very special guests to help us on that journey. Kerry Brett is a celebrity photographer, podcaster, dating author, and a longtime celebrity costume...

In this episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker, Gina Hendrix takes calls and offers advice to women who are navigating dating and the dating apps. We cover everything from first dates, to saying no and how to spot the good guys from the bad. One caller asks about dating multiple people at once and when it's actually time to stop, another who is hoping to build something long-term, w...

If we don’t ask the right questions, we’re never going to get to the truth of any situation. And when it comes to dating, that works in multiple ways. If we’re not curious about someone, we can build an image of them that doesn’t truly reflect who they are, and that is a recipe for disaster. If we’re not brave enough to ask about our red lines, we’re just going to be disappointed further down the...

We can all put our best foot forward when everything’s going well. But how we react to the small stuff usually tells us a lot more about a person. How you handle a curveball, not a crisis, just the little stuff, a messed-up reservation, a late Uber, a plan that falls apart last minute, can be very telling.  Matchmaker Gina Hendrix has seen this play out hundreds of times, and shares two very diffe...

Sometimes life is hard, sometimes bad things happen to good people - but the answer is never to hide away. This episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell A Matchmaker is about dusting yourself off and going again. Whether that’s in the dating world or in life more generally. Matchmaker Gina Hendrix shares two very personal stories from her early years in LA, that almost derailed her, but instead helped...

Our special guest on Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker is David Matthews, author of “Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think.” David is a men’s dating coach and he’s here for a candid conversation about how men actually think, communicate, and approach dating.  He and matchmaker Gina Hendrix cover why the idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a...

People rarely sabotage promising relationships because of what actually happened, they sabotage them because of the story they told themselves about what happened.  In this episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker, with Gina Hendrix, we’re having a reality check - is the story you’re telling yourself the truth, or one you’ve made up? Gina walks through a recent matchmaking date that went...

Sometimes a date can take a turn for the worse, and it’s not entirely clear why. In the early stages, it doesn’t matter too much. If you’re not that interested and not 100% invested, just move on - life really is too short. But matchmaker Gina Hendrix says often, when we look back on why things took a turn, we can learn a lot - and more times than not it comes down to one thing: we weren’t curious...

A positive attitude can go a long way, and that is particularly true when it comes to dating. We all have stories to tell of bad dates, being let down by men we had high hopes for, and wading through bad profiles on the dating apps. But getting downbeat about it all isn’t going to help you find love. And a harsh truth is, being around cynical people can rub off on us. Matchmaker Gina Hendrix knows...

Whether you’re going on dates, in a relationship, or meeting men on the dating apps, one thing remains constant: you need to be true to yourself. It’s a rule matchmaker Gina Hendrix has lived by for years and one she’s shared with hundreds of women who are navigating the world of dating. By being true to yourself, you are much less likely to overlook the red flags that often show up when dating. T...

If you want to find love, you’ve got to jump in with both feet. 18 years ago, matchmaker Gina Hendrix was cold-calling billionaires with a shaking hand and a lucky pen. And the mindset shift that took her from those nervous calls to a woman who built a business out of thin air is the same mindset you need if you want to find love. It’s about no longer waiting. Waiting for the right time, putting i...

If the man you’re dating isn’t showing up with real effort - he’s not the man you should be dating. Low-level messages, failing to book a second date, or not calling when he said he would are all red flags and it’s probably time to look elsewhere. In this live Q&A, Gina Hendrix gives the advice every woman needs to hear based on her many years working as a matchmaker for billionaires. We hear...

When you're dating - you need to keep your standards high, and that means we don't have time to waste on low-level losers. But spotting the signs isn't always easy - unless you know what you're looking out for. In this live Q&A, we cover that and all sorts of other dating topics, including one of the biggest mindsets holding many women back in dating - the tendency to make everything about you...

Catfished: How to Spot a Romance Scam It’s the number one scam in the United States and the people doing it are getting more and more sophisticated. Catfishing is more than just an occupational hazard for women looking for love - but knowledge is power and this episode will help you spot the red flags, and could save you a fortune. Matchmaker Gina Hendrix meets David McClellan, aka "the Catfi...

The Secret to Calling in Better Men After 18 years as a private matchmaker, here's what I know for certain: the quality of the men in your life is a direct reflection of the boundaries you have — or don't have. And most women have it completely backwards. They set boundaries after something goes wrong. After they feel disrespected. After they're frustrated. But boundaries aren't a...

Make Him Work for It If there's one thread running through this episode, it's this: stop doing the work that should be his. After 18 years as a private matchmaker to some of the most eligible men in the world, I've learned exactly how men think, what they value, and what makes them chase a woman versus what makes them coast. And almost every dating problem I see comes back to the same...

"Should You Lower Your Standards to Find Love?" It's the question nobody wants to ask out loud. But after 18 years as a private matchmaker to some of the most eligible men in the world, I'm going to answer it — and my answer might surprise you. There is so much noise in the dating advice world right now. Burn the haystack. Trust no one. Raise the drawbridge. And I get why it reso...

John Gray: What Every Woman Has to Know About Men He wrote the book that changed how the world understands relationships — and nearly 30 years later John Gray is still dropping truth bombs that most people aren't ready to hear. In this episode matchmaker Gina Hendrix sits down with the legendary author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus for a conversation that every woman dating right...

Are You Having Too Much Sex? It sounds like a question nobody would ever complain about — but what happens when one person wants it constantly and the other just wants to go for a hike? In this episode matchmaker Gina Hendrix tackles one of the most unspoken compatibility issues in dating and relationships — what happens when your sex drives are completely mismatched, and what that actually tells...

Will He Date a Woman Your Age? It's the question every woman over 40 is secretly asking but nobody is saying out loud. Will he swipe right on me? Am I too old for the dating apps? Are the men I want to meet even looking at women my age? In this episode matchmaker Gina Hendrix gives you the honest, unfiltered answer — and it's not what most people will tell you. Gina has spent 18 years work...

How to Spot a High-Value Man How do you actually tell the difference between a man who is genuinely high value and one who just looks the part? Matchmaker Gina Hendrix has spent 18 years watching men operate behind the scenes — and in this episode she breaks down exactly how to spot the difference before you waste another minute of your time on the wrong one. But first — Gina shares one of the mos...

What Made Him Propose in 8 Months? Gina Hendrix is sharing one of the most remarkable love stories she's ever been part of. Natasha was 33 years old when she lost her husband to cancer. She was left with four children all under the age of eight, a business to run, and a life to rebuild completely from scratch. Dating was the last thing on her mind — until four years later when she finally deci...

What Men Say vs. What They Mean You went on the best date of your life. It lasted five hours. He texted to make sure you got home safe. He said he'd love to see you again. And then nothing. Sound familiar? In this episode matchmaker Gina Hendrix finally tells you what's actually going on — and it's not what most dating coaches will ever say to your face. When a man says he didn't f...

When Should You Sleep With Him? It's the question every woman asks but nobody gives a straight answer to. Until now. In this episode, matchmaker Gina Hendrix sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Matt Boggs — creator of Cracking the Man Code and co-founder of the Brave Thinking Institute — to give you the unfiltered truth about physical intimacy, what men actually respect,...

Why Bad Dates Happen to Great Women You're smart, successful, and you know your worth — so why do you keep ending up on bad dates with the wrong men? Matchmaker Gina Hendrix has been asking that question for 18 years and she has the answers. In this episode she gives you the unfiltered truth about what great women consistently get wrong when it comes to men — and none of it is what you think....