School Of Thoughts! {Habel}

It's easy to pick on mistakes from people who are doing something.it would be easy to understand one objective and be at least complimentary or just clap for them for achieving something rather than sit and wait to pick on what was not done, yet there's a lot that was done..so let's learn to clap for the doers.

Have is what we have on, with,by us..while Not is that what we dont have. In a great swahili proverb a far placed stick will never kill the snake. We have so much been trained by society or self that l,that which is outside us is better and even forget that which is inside us or in our hand.which exactly need sometime!

Everytime we feel down and low,we are almost tempted to pull people to our mood. We become inadvertently manipulative to other people: we become insesnitive to theri situation,position,need or conditions and we demand their time,care and attention...

We always have choices in life: the only problem we have is that most people tend not to be responsible of any choice that we make.and m

What we all need to know about cars wellness are these three things that were passed to me by a stranger.1.Maintanance 2.Service 3.Handling...if we emulate these 3 in our own lives,we are guaranteed for a great change!

Access misused is when we abuse the audience,a view,an allowance to get in to a particular place.it sometimes maybe as petty as talking where you are supposed to listen,or even when you put your feet up in someones cofee table or even messing someones fridge arrangement becuase you are been allowed and didnt respect the chance accorded to you!

Change needs to be given: Chance,Time,Ground & An audience!

We have inadvertently cripled others bu making them constantly come to is for things that we could teach them and allow them be Independent.compeletely devoid of us and allowing us (depended on)..to have more time on our selves,to learn more. We have made people think of us more as solvers for even trivial matters that they can handle on their own.

Tea set Theory is a description of how we relate. The tea set represent either a cup or Kettle: which one is only supposed to pour,and the other to receive and none should be in question or doubt of their duty..just like friendships one has to know their purpose in it,either to receive or pour in to and be okay with that

It is an analogy of cup(person),content(character) which for a long time we have tried to separate the two. Character maketh man is a common saying but what if,we allow people change? Won't be the same ones to say he was bad but now he is a good person(not a bad person with good character 🤔

These are the many acts that we do(good or bad)..when we sometimes wonder what happens to us continuosly unexplained and tend to forget that which we did.sometimes it stays longer before it changes because we don't realise it is the reap/harvest of our social afore input.

Many are the times we pick the faults in people(so do we have them).On the flip side,when this is observed we actually can get some attributes which are admirable,also can be immulated to make our selves better only if we observe. Kei apple have some succulent fruits!

The very many times that we are needed to practice wisdom. Being able to hear and hold information for the better good. Because the reaction,the matter and the people sometimes are better left as they are for the damage might be bigger or even the matter might not be a non issue...

In life we all grow,and acquire a different interests. This needs to be accepted by all our former socials because we might always stay stuck in a past that needs to be accepted by both parties(you and I ) that we have either grown or out grown or even we have acquired new activities over time!

It's a person's take on who as friends should one have around them. As hard as it may seem or our difference in preference of friendships,we should consider OPY (Older,Peer,Younger)

Simply because someone doesn't talk about somethings doesn't mean they don't go through it or think about it. It might be a matter of strain or psychological pain thus they don't condone nor participate in the conversations. They shouldn't be provoked or even be joked about,because they know the pain underlying .

Most of the times what we seek is with someone else:mostly answers about life.be it romance,finance,spirituality,social,lifes general questions; these are all hidden in someone's book,story,question,sharing,seeking them and even directly asking them. If we only be intentional enough them we shall be very much solved!

It's always what we are all seeking for: some level of mental peace that everyone is seeking. This needs a physical place,a set of values and mostly people providing this space! #safespace

These are the relationships that we publicly destroy but privately we might need to go back for something and sometimes it's irrepearable

The dire need for everyone to constantly keep growing(in the art and space,from a past know how) and to develop (skill,prowess,knowledge).It's a necessary requirement for our continuity irrespective of our societal standing or even professional position.

The modern day socials have been reduced to TRANSACTIONS(I put in to get something out),instead of RELATIONAL(Where there's invaluable values like faith, trust...) that need to be inculcated.

Brought about by our constant need not to listen but rather prepare for a response. It is very detrimental to constructive or even objective response to any question asked.

We sometimes truly and genuinely forget about ourselves most of the time.we give out,and forget to love and care for self;the same self who is needed to take care of others

It should be a our daily habit,to remain humble enough to hear from and learn from trusted sources and also be able to for go our past knowledge to make our selves better with time!

It really matters who speaks to us and we end up listening to. As much as the decisions are ours despite the multiple sources of advice we might have. We need to be careful as to who we allow to speak in to our lives. It's very a much needed resource for personal growth be it carrier or life in general so as to either avoid bad outcomes or even grow to better beings.its extremely important we choo...