School Of Thoughts! {Habel}

Their are significant things that happen in our lives: most of the time, they affect friendships and need to be understood to make the transition easy to the people involved.

This episode is about being careful of what we say when we get to say it .For words can create or destroy, bless or curse...

When we avoid what matters in our lives and always choose to dodge,tell part of the truth,stretch the truth and even literally running away from meaningful conversations and spaces to what we convince ourselves is right even when we are wrong!

This is every time we think it's our right to be assisted,heard, or even involved by our socials. We sometimes,if not all the time, become enraged if we are not involved.that ladies and gentlemen being ENTITLED.

Axe: an issue which is supposedly already discussed and done with Wedge: a person who is provoking,instigating,disturbing the peace by reigniting or restarting a matter which was already dealt with,causing unnecessary tension.

It's always an annual decision when the year begins. It's about the relationships that we have formed over years.and in this, we are sometimes avoiding the issue and playing victim even if we are the course! What if we rethink how to do it.

You have to constantly be cognisant of where you stand in the tea set.cups will wait to be poured in to same as the tea pot needs to be refilled constantly so that it can pour!any residue or remains in the tea pot is always considered garbage.

The ability to be sensitive to the ones we offended,it needs to be a process to apologize and let the matter cool down literally. A chip of trust has left the offended:there's need to work it back,so if we realy want it to get better then we let the person heal and go back,even if it means space and little communication with respect to their healing.it might call for one even to avoid normalcy (jo...

This is a successive process of learning about a situation in our relationships: Love Hurt Forgive Learn

This is the habit showing off,yet there's work to be done for self,not for people. Mostly in matters/things that are constructive. The lack of personal accountability makes us be in more hurry to show others(what we are made of),yet there's work to be done for objective results and mostly it's personal.

These are things that people don't talk about or engage a lot in because they are important yet sensitive to each person. It's always a process, and pretence has made them manoeuvre conversations:smiling,grinning make a light comment but yet inside they are realy struggling,in their privacy they cry,and in their spaces they are 'choking' sometimes even 'drowning' in the thoughts.thus the unsaid.

When you actually believe in that which you re doing in a group activity,the best way to get assistance,correction, and even change,one has to come out loud(self believe).killing doubt and delay. It is only Farr that one comes out of their fears and second guessing ti a place where you can spotted and assisted for the better!

Shame can be a chain,it holds you back from exploring and puts you in a cocoon:it makes you stay somewhere for long because of the unexpected,but just if we jump beyond the invisible line,we discover more about self and delay we had before!

This episode is about bringing down our idea of help: the anger that it might provoke,the entitlement that it Instigates,the disappointments that we face if not given to us, and also the idea that its a compulsory thing to be done to us!

This is the ability for one to prepare for any possible outcome on our daily journeys!

This is about the necessary relationships,people,information..to be able to work better in any spaces that we walk in to irrespective of scope:cooperate,social ,family, work, or even homes.

This is the ability to move from our yester_habits in order for change to be effective, and we get to experience different things:family,friends,business,personal...

It's the ability,to question self in the midst of a situation and be able to answer it honestly: that I truly might have played a part in the disagreement need for me to own my end of the complain

The need to help someone should preceed the need to talk about their downfall/discrepancies.people come to us or we go to them in search of help not talk.so if we can not assist lets just drop it and stay quite.

It is how we need to view situations in life/situations:one side is always reflective(how we see it),the other side is (how others see you)...be careful and avoid the need to be self righteous but rather slow to judge,and ready to listen,also quick to apologize.it makes us a better people.

The many times in life that we have been told to wait for the situation(dust) to favour us for us to react or respond. What if we went ahead despite us not knowing what is to happen,because life moves on irrespective of us taking a bench;others will keep on,and we will not be able to catch up!

Yes, we might disagree, but we don't have to make it worse because it's already bad: this means yes, we are parting ways, I would like to say No to your offer and still keep the relationship even if you ruffled me,I don't have to come to your level but still stop it and tou from going on in disrespecting me.

Just like a hand shake,friendships will one day end,the hands will have to let go someday.and it's the reality at hand.

This episode is about what we usually need and the ones we want. We end unsettling for what other people have not what we need and it ends up not realy working for udls yet we could as well pick what is pocket friendly and truly useful to us not useless after a few days in our hands

It's all about making changes to continuous cycles that have been going on despite them being wrong. It needs one person,one decision,one courageous person to bring to a hault all these nefarious and ugly acts that affect people.