Sari Swears

The way we spend our money says a lot about what we value in life. The same is true about how we spend our time.  In today's episode, find out why there's a direct correlation between how much you love your life and how much you struggle with time management.  Imma 'bout to drop the mic on y'all, and you're gonna love it!   - Sari   Quote: "When you're doing a bunch of shit you don't want to do, t...

Because you are a trial lawyer, chances are you're living with all kinds of trauma. If you're not okay, you don't have to suffer.  In today's podcast episode, I'm joined by my husband (and lead H2H Mindset coach), Kevin, to talk about trial trauma and what we want you to do if you're struggling.  Don't skip this one, mah dudes. I fucking mean it.   -Sari   Book recommendations: The Body Keeps The...

What better way to find out what you'll be learning in the H2H Playground than to hear our coaches give answers to some of the most common questions they're asked by trial attorneys. Tune in to find out…  What should I ask in voir dire? How do I stop working weekends and evenings?  How do I deal with money when it comes to my opening statement?  How can I be more present at trial?  How do I stop b...

There are four things you need if you want to become a master at anything… including the craft of trial lawyering. Tune in to today's podcast to find out what those four things are and why you should not hire a trial consultant (including me)—until you have 'em.  Don't spend a cent on a trial consultant until you listen to this episode. Promise?    -Sari   ***JOIN THE H2H PLAYGROUND*** Join us in...

What's the difference between coaching and therapy?  And does every trial lawyer really need a coach? (Yes. Yes, they do.) I'm joined by lead H2H Mindset Coach Kevin in today's podcast to give you 10 reasons why you (and every trial attorney) need a coach.  If you don't think you have to listen to this episode because it doesn't apply to you, then you definitely need to tune in.     -Sari   *****R...

How many times have you blamed the jury for getting it wrong?  I hate to break it to you, but that's not true.  They don't always get it *right*, but the jury NEVER gets it wrong.  Find out what I mean in today's episode of the FH2H Podcast. For continued learning, I recommend reading this article by Stephen O. Roberts, found HERE .   -Sari   ***** GET ON THE WAITLIST FOR H2H PLAYGROUND ***** Join...

Today I'm sharing my special well wishes for the new year with my favorite people in the world… plaintiff trial attorneys.  Tune in to the podcast to hear me cheer you on as you head into another year bravely fighting for justice. Don't let the big swinging 🍆s of the world keep you down.    Love, Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2...

As you prepare to usher in 2023, I invite you to reflect on the three questions I always ask myself at the end of the year: What did I create this year? What did I learn this year?  How did I grow this year?  Tune in to the podcast to hear me explain each of the questions in more detail. Then grab your notebook and take some time to answer them for yourself.  Happy New Year!   -Sari   * * * * * FR...

Are you wasting precious time in closing trying to persuade the jury to be on your side, by spending hours reviewing evidence and statements and doing other boring shit?  STOP it!  If you want to communicate effectively with your jurors—and I know you do—you have to get out of your head and into theirs.  In today's episode, I'm going to help you do just that. Tune in to the podcast for a crash cou...

We were doing a trial debrief recently after one of our H2H members didn't get their verdict.  "We went in, did the principle thing, and we lost."  But here's the thing. There's a hierarchy of principles. And that's what I'm talking about in today's episode.  The principle that's going to win will be decided by what your case is about. Is it about a sense of security or a sense of esteem?  Tune in...

Do you find yourself asking, "What if…" when facing a scary situation? You know, like, trial? Recently I had a major scare myself and found my brain going to all sorts of crazy places. But I remembered what I knew about the brain, and got myself on the right track. And you can too. Give this episode a listen to learn more.   -Sari   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PRO...

The holidays are a big time for depression.  And depression affects lawyers in disproportionate numbers compared to other professions. So in today's podcast I'm talking about the myths and truth about depression , how to get help, and the do's and don'ts for someone trying to help a loved one who is depressed. I am currently depressed. I share because I want to remove the stigma from mental illnes...

Are you like me and blame yourself whenever ANYTHING goes wrong? This confused me as I am not known as a people pleaser, nor do I suffer from low self-esteem. Ahem. So I went looking for the answer to why I was throwing so much blame my way, when whammo: it hit me. And it was a total surprise. Tune in to learn more.   -Sari   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS I...

You asked and I delivered. Specifically, on how I make my life work. In this podcast episode I'm telling you the top 10 things I use/do to make my life awesome, and I know they can make your life awesome too.   - Sari   * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case...

Have you recently purchased the brand new H2H FUNdamentals masterclass or tried something you read in the book or heard on the podcast? How did it go? If it didn't go the way you hoped, there's a reason for that. Seven reasons, in fact. I discuss them all in this podcast episode.   -Sari   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Meth...

Do you ever blame yourself for not having the success you crave or the life you want? Do you think, "Maybe if I wasn't so lazy or stupid, I could finally change my life..."? You keep trying to "change your attitude" and "be positive" but is it working? What if you - weren't - the problem? You might not be. Tune in to find out.   -Sari   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR...

A month or so ago I got an email telling me to "stop telling lawyers not to buy books or attend  CLE's." You know when someone tells me -not- to do something, I'm gonna do it, right? (I'm a toddler  like that.) But is that REALLY my message? Do I honestly want you to stop buying books and attending  CLE's? Tune in to find out. I'm going on the record, y'all. Buckle up. -Sari   LIBSYN, WEEBLY, YOUT...

Last week my beloved took over the mic and helped you have a mindset shift around case prep. This week I expand on his thoughts and tell you how, on a practical level, overpreparation is  killing your case. You'll want to give it a listen, I swear. -Sari LIBSYN, WEEBLY, YOUTUBE * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir...

Give a warm welcome to SariDLM's Lead Mindset Coach (and my #1) Kevin de la Motte! Coach K (as he is known in our H2H Membership) is here to debunk the three myths that are killing your cases and share the three truths that will help you win in trial.  He'll cover his proven mindset practice, step by step, so you can have more fun, feel less stress, and never worry about winning again - I swear. G...

Whenever a client loses a case (it happens!) I always ask,  "Did you talk to the jury?" And in MOST cases my client sheepishly says, "No…." Ma dudes. You've GOT to talk to the jury after a loss (or a win, for that matter) but the reason goes way beyond getting a critique of your performance. Not talking to the jury costs you in more ways than one. Give this episode a listen.   -Sari   * * * * * FR...

"I've been listening to your podcast and love the book. Tuesday, I got the largest med mal verdict in Georgia history. Just wanted to say thank you." That's the three-sentence email I received earlier this month from plaintiff attorney Natalie Woodward. Natalie had been preparing for the biggest case of her life this past March, when a friend told her about H2H.   She went way down the H2H rabbit...

Warning: this podcast episode has provocative language and references. Put headphones on around kids or your boss! Today we're talking about the size of your dick. Your VERDICT. Sheesh. Get your minds out of the gutter! Y'all have a lot of SHAME around your (ver) dick size.  So let's put this fear to bed, shall we? (You're gonna want to give this one a listen, I swear.) -Sari   * * * * * FREE H2H...

How do you choose to invest in yourself? Is it when you have the time and money? Yeah, that's the WRONG time. It's when you are struggling that you need to spend time and money on yourself. Sound backwards? I know. But it's not.  I explain it all in this podcast. -Sari   Register for the FREE training, 3 Powerful Strategies to Help Read a Juror's Mind at https:// sariswears.com/live

One question I continue to get is: how do I get more confidence? What if I told you that you don't need it? I'm serious y'all. Confidence is a nice thing to have. It's definitely something you can have. But you don't need it to do whatever it is you're attempting to do. What you DO need are the three things I'm talking about in today's podcast. Give it a listen. -Sari   H2H Fun-damentals™  masterc...

Today I'm talking about OUR purpose as a company and how that ties into having fun at trial. Are you having fun at trial? How about in your life? If not, you're doing it wrong. BUT you can turn that shit around. I will show you how in this episode. Give it a listen. -Sari Our new website is live and you're gonna fucking love it. Check it out here: https://sariswears.com Also, the H2H Fun-damentals...