Man Within Podcast

A follow-up to Episode 347, today's content deep dives into why we must have both the memory of an elephant and a goldfish if we want to make a long-term recovery. The memory of an elephant allows us to be conscious of our strengths, to learn from our past mistakes, and to ensure that we stay wise. The memory of a goldfish allows us to avoid regret and to ensure that no mistake of the past lingers...

Recovery has obvious elements like developing self awareness, heart healing, identity formation, etc. But many of the long-term success stories are marked by intangibles, one of which is memory. Today's episode explores the impact of memory in both addiction development and recovery, and how we can manage our memories in a way that allows us to move forward. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE...

Few spiritual practices are more useful than discerning the voice of God. God is always talking, the question is - are we listening? Today's episode explores a simple 3-step framework for hearing God's voice, offering examples and practical insights. While the idea of hearing from God may be taboo or strange to some, if you are genuinely interested in growing in intimacy with God, this episode wil...

Shane O'Neill is the Editorial Director from Proven Ministries—a non-profit that creates resources for sexual integrity. Shane is also the host of The Naked Gospel podcast. He has a graduate degree in apologetics and is working on another degree in counseling. Shane is married to Kaylee and they live in Virginia. On today's podcast, Shane opens up about developing multiple addictions to cope with...

Focusing on Romans 12, today Sathiya breaks down the biblical response for handling those that mistreat and demean us. We know that life is not perfect, and that every day we are working with imperfect people. Regardless of what has been done to you, or how you have been treated, today's episode offers a way out to come through the experience stronger than ever. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a F...

We highly recommend you listen to the previous episode ( Episode 342 ) before listening to this. As a follow-up from how to perceive and process emotions, today's episode explains why journaling is one of the most powerful ways a man can process. Specifically, journaling is two-dimensional processing because you are both thinking and writing it and journaling offers you a safe environment to compl...

Our pull towards binary thinking often leads to black-and-white terms. Hot or cold, yes or no, free or addicted, positive or negative, etc. In some contexts, this thinking is useful, however, when it comes to emotions a new paradigm is required. Today's episode explores the gamut of emotions that a man will experience in his life while offering practical ways to perceive and process them. Feel Whe...

Today's episode offers a spiritual viewpoint on the tension between Jesus coming "any day" without becoming complacent. We must be judgement ready because we do not know the day or the hour, but we do not want fear to drive our desire to get free either. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Mike Signorelli is the founding pastor of V1 Church, the fastest-growing church in America according to INJOY Stewardship Solutions. He is the founder of a college, a marriage support network, emotional intelligence equipping for leaders, and Operation Impact - a non-profit that spreads radical generosity through partnership. On the podcast today, Mike does a deep dive into the deliverance aspect...

If you are not yet married and desire to, there is nothing you can do better at this stage than rid yourself of any sexual sin in your life - your future spouse will thank you for it! Today's episode explores three benefits of recovery that translate well into dating. If you are married already, this episode will still provide some insights into useful by-products of recovery that will improve you...

While our human nature tends to avoid pain, conflict and difficulty, the truth is that our innate desire for character, integrity and right-standing cannot exist without them. Today's episode explains why trials necessitate persevering, and how it is in our ability to persevere that we obtain character. If you are on any kind of journey in your life, this episode is a reminder that as long as you...

For years we have all heard that we are to handle life "like a man" – whether it's pain, hardship, or leadership. Today's episode explores where these ideas come from, why they have become problematic in our society, and what it really looks like for men to handle pain in a useful way. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Today's episode is inspired by the example of a well-known Christian leader whose wife recently passed away. Often time we learn the most about people amidst trials and difficulty. Today's episode is a great reminder that surrender evokes the greatest level of change in the life of the believer. If you have hit a wall or are finding it tough to gain breakthrough, surrender just might be the secret...

Dr. Bruce & Dr. Toni Hebel are co- authors of Forgiving Forward: Unleashing the Forgiveness Revolution and founders of Forgiving Forward Ministries, leading hundreds of thousands of people through the revolutionary power of forgiveness. In this interview, the Hebels explain why forgiveness can reverse trauma, wounds of the past, and deep pain in a matter of minutes, why Jesus was so adamant about...

We often believe that materialistic goods provide authority – media appearances, large followings, cars, money, etc. The truth is, nothing breeds authority like authenticity. We all long for greater authority in our own lives and the domains that God has called us to – walking in authenticity on a regular basis will help you get there faster than anything else. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FR...

Have you ever told yourself you "can't" do something? Sathiya explains why this kind of thinking and phraseology often leads us to limiting beliefs, small thinking, and stagnancy in life. Offering a poignant personal example from Sathiya's worship leading days, this episode will open up your mind to new ways of thinking, new opportunities, and newfound inspiration to pursue the goals set before yo...

Every human has insecurities – it's how we handle them that truly matters. Today's episode explores the unique dynamics men often encounter with person insecurity while offering practical ways to begin dealing with them. The more secure you become as man, the better you will lead your life. The more men become secure in general, the better we will lead society. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FR...

The Christian life is not easy, often requiring us to trust God in ways that span far beyond anything we could have asked or imagined. Today's episode explains why failing to trust God often leaves us without his protection, and why issues trusting God are often accompanied by smaller more significant issues around fear, expectations, and traumas. If you are looking to grow in your ability to trus...

Today's episode is a pilot project between Shane O'Neill (Naked Gospel Podcast), Drew Boa (Husband Material) and yours truly. These bi-monthly collaborations will feature candid conversations exploring sexual health and integrity through a biblical, clinical, and anecdotal lens. In this episode, the gang discusses what seems to be working these days in the recovery space, ways that the local churc...

In a time where people are exhausted, skeptical, and polarized, there has never been a greater need for blessing. Speaking words of blessing over ourselves, friends, family, and enemies is a vital part of fruitfulness as a Christian. This episode provides practical ways to do this, including a few real-life examples. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Rela...

Humans are visual creatures. While this has given rise to magnificent innovation, art, and technology, it can also be the gateway for sin and sexual misbehavior. Today's episode talks about the power of visual stimuli, offering practical ways to handle it in a godly and healthy way. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

Failure is a part of life, but how they are framed is make or break. While many see failures as setbacks, they are simply learning opportunities. Today's episode is a stark reminder that if you purpose to learn from your mistakes and use them to devise preventative measures moving forward, they can accelerate the recovery journey. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book,...

Everyone has different ideas of who God is and what He is about, many of which are informed by our own personal experiences with authority figures growing up. To truly know God's unconditional love, we must not only understand it cognitively, but also emotionally, at a deep heart level. Today's episode is a reminder that God is for you, His love towards you will never change, and that your perform...

Chris and Tara Borghese are the Co-Founders of The Marriage Revolution, where they help married couples find the ultimate state of understanding, connection, and intimacy. They have successfully navigated their way through many relationship pitfalls over their 29 years of marriage and use their personal experiences to bring hope and practical tools to marriages around the world. In this candid int...

Everyone has an idea of what should be done first when you start recovery - talk to a trusted friend, read a book, listen to a podcast, join a program, buy a course, etc. These are all vital practical aspects of embarking on the recovery journey, however there is something more important at an inner level that must take place first. Today's episode explores why taking responsibility should be the...