Lunchtime in Rome

Why Do People Make Such a Big Deal Over the Smallest Things? In this week’s episode of Lunchtime in Rome , the guys welcomed Amy Hammond back to the table for a powerful and deeply personal conversation sparked by a viral video clip from persuasion expert Chase Hughes (former Navy intelligence, jury consultant, and behavior decoder). The core idea they unpacked? Every “bad,” dramatic, irrational,...

How to Actually Comfort Someone (Without Making It Worse) Lunchtime in Rome Episode 312 “I want them to stop crying. There, there, shut up now.” That’s how the episode opens — with the exact wrong way most of us comfort people. We mean well. We really do. But good intentions plus zero skill usually equals “thanks… I feel worse now.” In episode 312 the guys finally give comfort the deep dive it des...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 311 is entitled “Why we shouldn’t judge”. We know that we shouldn’t judge others for their behaviors, but why? What are the reasons behind it? How is it more destructive than maybe we’ve thought? We’ll be talking about that at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Get full access...

In this episode of the Lunchtime in Rome podcast, entitled “ Why We Judge ,” the guys sit down to peel back the layers of a struggle we all face: the tendency to pass judgment on others. From parking lot frustrations to professional incompetence, the conversation explores why certain behaviors trigger us more than others. Snow Days and Fingerprinting Frustrations The episode kicks off with the guy...

Episode 309: Judgy Judgerson – Why Do We Judge? Pull up a seat at the table! In this episode of Lunchtime in Rome , the guys dive into the tricky, often hilarious, and sometimes convicting world of judgment. While Chris was away recovering from a “bacchiatomy,” Brian, Jay, and Eric held down the fort with a mix of travel stories, extreme temperature therapy, and some serious soul-searching about w...

In this episode of Lunchtime in Rome , titled “The Quiet Place,” the guys pull up a seat at the table to discuss finding respite in an increasingly noisy world. From the science of silence to the “magical” clarity of a morning shower, the conversation explores how we can intentionally shut out distractions to simply “be”. The Noise vs. The Stillness The guys kick off the discussion by acknowledgin...

In Episode 307 of Lunchtime in Rome , titled “Emotional Maturity,” the guys kick off the new year with their signature mix of personal stories, laughter, and thoughtful discussion on a topic that’s deeply relevant to relationships—and especially to living as a Christian. After catching up on holiday adventures, family moments, church meetings, house-hunting disappointments, and even a double-booke...

In episode 306, the guys welcome back Abby Herr – Brian’s daughter – who first joined the table a few years ago as a precocious 10-year-old and now returns as a thoughtful, self-aware 14-year-old eighth grader. The conversation is warm, funny, and surprisingly deep for a teenager sitting between three grown men who love to talk. The episode kicks off with the usual “how’s everybody doing?” chaos:...

In this warm and laughter-filled episode, the guys welcome back the beloved Amy Rayman after a long hiatus (a “big minute,” as they call it) for a deep dive into the many seasons every marriage seems to pass through. The table starts with lighthearted catching-up: gym routines, snow days vs. “FID days,” rental cars the size of roller skates, and the invention of Thanksgiving Street Corn (yes, it’s...

How to Build Relational Intimacy In this heartfelt episode of Lunchtime in Rome , the guys (minus Chris, who was melting into his couch after a rough day) dive deep into what it really takes to move a relationship from “good” to “great.” The core idea? Emotional and relational intimacy is the missing piece for most couples and friendships that feel stuck in “fine.” They break it down into two big...

From “Fine” to “Very Good”: Unlock Real Intimacy in Your Relationships Hey Lunchtime in Rome crew! Episode 303 hits hard: Why do most relationships stall at “good” or “fine” instead of God’s “very good” benchmark (Genesis vibes)? The guys unpack it with laughs, raw stories, and zero fluff. Let’s dive in—quick and punchy. Life Wins Fuel the Fire * Cabinets installed in a day (friendship goals). * F...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 302 is titled “Jared Turner” Ohio? To Pittsburgh? Because Ishan (EE Shawn) asked you to go? What’s that all about? We’ll be finding out about all of that and more at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! In this week’s episode of Lunchtime in Rome , the guys welcome Jared Turner,...

In this lively episode of Lunchtime in Rome, the guys kick things off with some exciting updates, including breaking in new microphones (shoutout to their generous supporters for making it happen!). They dive into personal stories that set a fun, relatable tone: Eric recounts a hilarious mishap at Sam’s Club involving early entry privileges gone wrong, while Julia shares a wild day at work dealing...

After seven years and 300 episodes, the guys of Lunchtime in Rome take a heartfelt look back at how far they’ve come. From recording around a single snowball mic to building a community rooted in empathy, humor, and authenticity, this milestone episode celebrates not just longevity—but growth and connection. Looking Back: Then vs. Now The episode opens with laughter and nostalgia as the hosts revi...

This week at the table, Jay, Chris, Eric, and Julia dive into an engaging mix of personal stories, humor, and thought-provoking lessons about life and relationships. The episode opens with laughter as Julia officially joins as co-host, bringing her sharp wit and quick impressions to the conversation. From disc golf goals and Renaissance festival plans to unexpected adventures in car shopping, the...

In this week’s episode of Lunchtime in Rome , the guys welcome special guest Julia Michalski to the table. Julia, a dental hygienist by day and Young Life leader by night, opens up about her life, faith, and the emotional needs that shape who she is. The guys guide Julia through a thoughtful and often humorous conversation, exploring her relational needs questionnaire results —with appreciation, e...

In this week’s episode, the guys – Jay, Eric, and Chris – gather at the table to tackle a powerful and often overlooked topic: the importance of healing emotional hurts. The conversation kicks off with some lighthearted banter and personal updates, from family moments and birthdays to concerts and even late steak deliveries. But the heart of the discussion centers on how we handle the emotional wo...

In this week’s episode of Lunchtime in Rome , the guys—Jay, Eric, Brian, and Chris—dive into the theme of healing and how recent events have impacted them personally and collectively. The conversation begins with Brian sharing a harrowing story involving a dangerous chemical reaction in his pool that nearly created a catastrophic situation. For him, the experience became more than just a physical...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 295 is titled “Distractions” What gets in our way? What is distracting us? What are those distractions…distracting us from? We’ll be talking about that at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Episode Summary In this week’s episode of Lunchtime in Rome , the guys—Jay, Eric, Brian,...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 294 is titled “Unfamiliar Emotions.” Have you ever felt bad but for an unfamiliar reason? Have you ever been unable to figure out why you felt the way you do? We’ll be talking about that at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Episode 294: Navigating Unfamiliar Emotions In episod...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 293 is titled “Back to School.” What is it like to go back to college? What about going back to school as a teacher? What do parents go through when their kids go back? We’ll be talking about that at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Get full access to Lunchtime In Rome Podcas...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 292 is titled “Brenda Tremblay!” Last week we listed our dream list of guests and Brenda was number 1! You get to know her, and we get to talk to her at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Brenda Tremblay Joins the Table! In this lively episode of Lunchtime in Rome, the guys wel...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 291 is titled “At The Table”. We’ve had MANY folks sit at The Table over the years. We’re going to look back and remember a lot of them and revisit some very special people. That’s what we’re doing at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Get full access to Lunchtime In Rome Podca...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 290 is titled “Emonie Campbell”. Emonie lives life to the fullest and teaches students at Woodland Hills High School to do the same. We’ll get to know her at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Getting to Know Emonie Campbell In this lively episode of Lunchtime in Rome, the guys...

Welcome everyone and pull up a seat at the table. It’s Lunchtime in Rome. Tonight’s episode 289 is titled “Why so guarded?” Tonight Jay will tell us all about his Young Life camp trip and dive into why young people seem to be more open than adults. That’s what we’re talking about at The Table this evening. Pull up a seat at the table and join us! Episode Summary In episode 289 of the *Lunchtime in...