Love Thy Neighbor Show

Love Thy Neighbor: Episode Notes Episode: "The Dinner Divorce" (LTN48) Hosts: Tom Vann, Colette Fehr, Dan Dennis | Guest: None Sponsors / Ad Reads No sponsor segments or ad reads in this episode. Segment Rundown Cold open: intro debate. The hosts argue over whether they need to introduce themselves at the top of every show. Tom calls it pointless since listeners already know who they are. They flo...

Love Thy Neighbor: Episode Notes Episode: "Let's Talk About It Now" (LTN 47) Hosts: Tom Vann, Colette Fehr, Dan Dennis | Guest: None Sponsors / Ad Reads No sponsor segments or ad reads in this episode. Segment Rundown Cold open: rough restart. The hosts explain that last week's show was skipped because Colette had food poisoning. The opening goes sideways fast, and the hosts joke about starting ov...

Love Thy Neighbor — Episode Notes - LTN 46 - Pity Sex Hosts: Tom Vann, Dan Dennis, Colette Fehr | Guest: None Sponsors / Ad Reads No dedicated sponsor/ad-read segment in this transcript. A supplement brand targeting low testosterone/low libido is referenced in passing during the discussion (not a formal read). Segment Rundown Cold open: double hello — Tom opens with an intentional double "hello,"...

  Love Thy Neighbor — Episode Notes Episode: "Take Me Line Dancing" Hosts: Tom Vann, Colette Fehr, Dan Dennis | Guest: None Sponsors / Ad Reads No sponsor segments or ad reads appear in this episode. Segment Rundown Cold open: 80s cover band night — The hosts open by discussing a Molly Ringwald's-themed 80s tribute show one of them attended, riffing on how great cover bands can be at delivering pu...

Love Thy Neighbor — Episode Notes Episode: "Mama Coco's Milk Vortex" Hosts: Tom Vann, Colette Fehr, Dan Dennis | Guest: None Sponsors / Ad Reads No sponsor or ad-read segments appear in this transcript. Segment Rundown Cold open: age is just a number — Banter kicking off the show about embracing/celebrating age, and the Southern-raised taboo against ever asking a woman's (or grandma's) age. Aging...

Love Thy Neighbor returns for back-to-school season Late-night fishing with Tommy leads to no shave and unfinished dishes Close friends use deep trust to safely needle each other Tom and Dan function like a non-sexual married couple Imagining Tom and Dan's productivity as a gay couple Teen hormones and developing brains limit emotional control and decision-making Peer pressure and social media mak...

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Love Thy Neighbor relationship show and listener updates Colette prepares for Italy with language lessons Why Italy's culture, food and slower pace are so appealing Venice travel stories and European dress expectations Rushing vacations vs staying longer in one destination Dressing respectfully in public and while flying Airline buddy pass dress codes and travel etiquette Budgeting for travel and...

Off-air teaser and bonus live content for Twitch and YouTube viewers Why people struggle to say no Fear of disappointing others and people-pleasing Healthy compromise vs chronic people-pleasing Ignoring your own needs creates hidden resentment "Victim volcano" analogy for bottled-up emotions Small triggers can unleash years of buried frustration Emotional suppression can affect mental and physical...

Love Thy Neighbor relationship show introduction Jokes about lending friends money and buying a boat USA soccer win, FIFA officiating, and Bosnia confusion Friendships, family, and business relationships Handling money requests from friends and family Financial help can create guilt, pressure, and resentment Difference between true hardship and entitlement Listener requested money for a house down...

Divorce rates are falling while marriage rates also decline. Younger adults marry and divorce less often. Gray divorce is rising among older couples. High living costs keep some unhappy couples together. More couples choose lifelong partnerships without legal marriage. Some couples hold weddings without filing marriage paperwork. Legal marriage offers emotional value but financial risk. Silent mar...

Father's Day gift preferences vs traditional gifts Men and women valuing appreciation differently Joke about sexual favors as Father's Day gifts Father's Day overlapping with Men's Mental Health Month Growing up where men never discussed mental health Stigma around men prioritizing mental and physical health Mental health historically viewed as weakness in men Fitness culture acceptance vs mental...

Therapy recommendation changed a listener's life eight years later Therapy vs using alcohol to cope with stress and emotions Returning to therapy after emotional strain affected a marriage Benefits of talking with someone outside the relationship Mental health stigma and growing up without therapy discussions Therapy compared to hiring a trainer for mental fitness Realization therapy helps more th...

Colette recovers from a successful book launch and discusses reader impact Jokes about writing books for money lead into relationship trends Gen Alpha AI romantic partner trend sparks concerns about future relationships Growing trend of couples maintaining independent lives within committed relationships Separate hobbies, friends, activities, and solo trips can strengthen partnerships Healthy inte...

Love Thy Neighbor relationship show and anonymous listener emails Man reflects on life after raising kids and building a business with his wife Anxiety about retirement, aging, identity, and no longer being needed Fear of losing purpose after stepping away from career success Hustle culture masking insecurity and avoiding self-reflection Reinventing yourself after parenting and career transitions...

Debate over whether "high maintenance" means difficult or just outspoken Opposite personality traits attracting in relationships Emotional partners pairing with non-emotional partners Confident traits becoming annoying over time Restaurant table requests viewed differently by different personalities Difference between advocating for preferences and being demanding Nostalgia for the original smalle...

Confusion over whether the show is called Love Thy Neighbor, LTN, or the relationship show Colette joking about being Double D and acting off the rails Marijuana drink jokes and therapy client humor Listener email asking why Colette works with Tom and Dan Hate listening and consuming content people claim to dislike Rush Limbaugh jokes and pain pill references Colette receiving backlash over a Subs...

Reigniting relationship spark with affection, novelty, and deeper conversations Relationships becoming transactional with kids, work, and routines Reflection on separation and divorce during a South Beach birthday trip Relief and optimism after leaving an unhappy marriage Story of meeting a future spouse in a dirty New Orleans bar Fantasy vs reality of dating again after divorce Disappointment wit...

Love Thy Neighbor rebranding discussion and tone shift Dan jokes about appearance, gray sideburns, unshaven look Beard dye trends and contrast of gray vs dark facial hair Ska band and exaggerated character comparisons Listener email segment kicks off after backlog Husband obsessed with Instagram coastal minimalist aesthetic Comparing real life to influencer homes, bodies, vacations Pressure on wif...

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Show intro jokes about smooth opening and host banter Colette praised for wide range of talks and promo work Desire to do more public speaking but lacking demand Upcoming Rollins College talk on communication and conflict Online dating class with Wing Girl on sustaining attraction Focus on connection after early dating stages Zoom classes for global audience comfort Older men dating younger women...

Hormone therapy benefits include energy, sleep, overall health, and balanced estrogen, testosterone, progesterone Promo offer 100 off evaluation through MyEternalVitality with podcast mention Ghosting in jobs and relationships as avoidance of hard conversations Ghosting framed as self protection and discomfort avoidance Short term ease of ghosting vs long term lack of growth Ghosting causes psycho...

Social Media https://tomanddan.com https://x.com/tomanddanlive https://facebook.com/amediocretime https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive Where to Find the Show Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-mediocre-time/id334142682 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2FtZWRpb2NyZXRpbWUvcG9kY2FzdC54bWw Tom & Dan on Real Radio 104.1 Apple Podcast...

Sponsor promo for MyEternalVitality.com and Dr Powers offering $100 off hormone evaluation and blood testing Discussion of hormone replacement therapy improving energy, libido, sleep, and overall quality of life Mention of gut health testing and identifying foods that trigger inflammation Dan plans to begin a gut health regimen after recovering from hip surgery Introduction to the Love Thy Neighbo...