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In this episode, I talk about how the insecure attachment styles (anxious, dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant) cope with relationship anxiety. ---------------- My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Free Attachment Style Quiz: w...

In this episode, I talk about how (and why) anxious and fearful avoidant attachments identify as “caretaker”, “savior” and/or “fixer” in their relationships and how to shift these roles in order to promote more balanced relationships. ---------------- My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasil...

In this episode, Relationship Anxiety Coach and founder of Anxious Love Coach, Natalie Kennedy, shares her personal experience with relationship anxiety, her process for managing this anxiety, the multidimensionality of attachment styles, as well as how she uses feminine and masculine polarity to create balanced relationships. ______________ Natalie Kennedy: Instagram @anxiouslovecoach Website: ww...

In this episode, writer and content creator behind @anxiousheartsguide, Rikki Cloos, shares the healing power of owning your anxious attachment style. She also gives tons of helpful insights and tips on how to become more securely attached yourself. ______________ Rikki Cloos: Instagram @anxiousheartsguide Book: The Anxious Hearts Guide ---------------- My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasi...

In this episode, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist + Mindfulness Expert Gabrielle Gonzalez shares her challenges with having an Anxious Attachment Style and how self-soothing has helped her cultivate more security within herself and her relationships. Gabrielle shares the benefits of emotional regulation on the brain overt time, as well as some quick tips and strategies for all attachment sty...

My goal with this podcast is to give you guys an inside look into my relationship with my mother. If you’ve been listening for a while, you know my mom has played a huge role in my prior fearful avoidant attachment style. Even though we have our rough patches till this day, we’ve both learned to become more secure in our own ways, thus helping us maintain our relationship. ______________ My Secure...

In this episode, Ed Coambs, a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Financial Therapist & Planner, talks about how each attachment style experiences financial anxiety within a relationship and insights on how to approach it in healthier, secure ways. ————————— Find Ed Here: Website: www.healthyloveandmoney.com Book: The Healthy Love & Money Way: How The Four Attachment Styles Impact Your Fin...

In this episode, guest speaker Ren Russ talks about her challenges in dating and relationships with having an avoidant attachment style. Ren speaks to the complexities and the multidimensional nature of our attachment style(s). If you’re ready to understand the fears that drive the avoidant’s behaviors and how to become more secure, definitely tune into this conversation. ————————— Ren Russ Contac...

In this episode, I talk about some key essential elements for deciphering whether your needs are or are not being met in your relationship and what to do. This episode will give you clarity moving forward. ————————— Values List: https://drive.google.com/file/d/16wyOMzM749bJVtWIAi1dNX89qvxWB_0c/view?usp=sharing My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ___...

Todays podcast episode is a little different as I am sharing an interview in which I was a guest on Jemma Joels The Dating Diaries Podcast. I loved our conversation so much that I asked her if I could share the episode on my personal podcast as we touch on a lot of commonly asked questions: —How to create a healthy and happy relationship considering our attachment styles?—How to tell someone’s att...

In this episode, former coaching client Meghan Kelley shares her journey of beginning overcome her fearful avoidant attachment style and her favorite tools to becoming more secure. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call...

In this episode, Intimacy and Dating Coach Priyanka Yadvendu shares her story of healing her Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style and finally experiencing her first secure relationship. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Priyanka’s instagram @wildyintimate —————————- Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilva...

In this episode, I talk about how each attachment style experiences relationships with other attachment styles and tips to mitigate certain challenges that arise with these specific dynamics. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book a free C...

In this episode, I talk about how each attachment style deals with break-ups…From their general thoughts and feelings to their behavioral responses. This will help you understand what they may be experiencing through an attachment lens. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessica...

Learn about how attachment trauma gets passed down from generation to generation and how to begin breaking these painful cycles! ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Free Att...

What does setting boundaries in a relationship look like?—-In this episode, I share my experience of lacking boundaries in the past and the impact it had on my attachment style + what setting boundaries has looked like in my current relationship. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok...

In this episode, I shed light on why abandonment is the root of our attachment insecurities, what abandonment looks like, how we respond to it in regards to our attachment style and my go-to process of reframing these fears into secure ways of operating. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilv...

In this episode, I interview Morgan Bolender and Scott Ferreter from the band The Feelings Parade about their relationship/band dynamic and how their attachment styles have manifested in their love lives. Their transparency sheds light on the uniqueness of each relationship. ————————— The Feelings Parade @thefeelingsparade https://link.thefeelingsparade.com/Loose_Boards ————————— My Secure Self E-...

In this episode, I talk about the difference between self-sacrifice and self-neglect and when to let go of a relationship. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Free Attachmen...

In this episode, I talk about how attachment styles experience insecurities that arise in work + career. I also share tips on how to reframe these insecure thought patterns into secure belief systems. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book...

In this episode, social worker and former coaching client, Priyanka Sahajpal, shares her journey, her challenges, her victories with healing her attachment style and embodying her secure self. This episode has tons of wisdom, relatable examples and tools to help you on your journey as well. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Pri...

In this episode, we talk about the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style and their conflicted + self-sabotaging ways of experiencing love. I also share my favorite therapeutic strategies to begin cultivating a secure attachment style. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilv...

In this episode, Natalie Holbrook and I talk about attachment styles and how astrology can help us understand these relationship patterns in more intricate ways. ————————— Natalie Holbrook info: Instagram: @risewithnatalie https://natalieholbrookwellness.com ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tikt...

In this episode I share why buying an Audi helped me embody my Secure Self. Cultivating a secure attachment style shifts our relationship to everything in life!———-My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course

In this episode, I share my experience of growing up with a Fearful Avoidant / Anxious Attachment Style, how our attachment styles get passed down from generation to generation, and why we can change. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book...