Kasbh's Rant

This week we talk about being reached all the time.  It is amazing that you hear clubs ands groups that the owners/admins or whatever are not reachable.  This is wrong!  If you are at a party the party host should always have time to talk to you.   You are the most important part of the lifestyle and you should always be able to reach the people putting on the events.  +++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO...

This week the message is all about accountability, accountability for our actions, our health, our spouses, our rules etc.   In this lifestyle our actions can affect so many different people but just like in real life some people don't want to be accountable for themselves.  Accountability means growth, means improvement.  Picture hanging with a group of people that feel the same about the li...

Have you ever seen or heard something that just caused a red flag?  Of course you have, we all have.  Red flags things that don't set right are all ways our body is trying to warn us.  In the lifestyle trusting your gut is so important, not just about hooking up but about events, venues, clubs, groups etc.  So many times we see things that just don't seem right and we justify it because...

So lets talk about the party and the Party themes.  I know this will not be the most popular rant I have done, but it needs to be said.  I get that themes have value but it is time we do a better job of coming up with new and exciting parties.  It is time we stop using old and possibly offensive party themes and put a little more work in to the meat and potato's of what the event has to offer...

This week we talk about the Comfort zone.  It was an refreshing event this weekend that got me out of my comfort zone and got me thinking about how it is for new people.  Give this show a listen and think back to when you were new.  If you are new hopefully this rant will keep you movin http://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com                                   http://www.fullswapshop.com              ...

This week we talk about the 1 percent.  You know how I say 99% of the people in the lifestyle are awesome,  Well we talk about how much power the 1% really has and what do we do about it.  How to do we stop it and how do we make sure we do not become that 1 percenter The show is keeping it really give it a listen http://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com                                   http://www.full...

So this week we are going to try again to get people to grow!  Yep I said we want people to become better people to have a better lifestyle experience.  This is for newbies, or old vets.  People you have to figure out how to communicate and that mean more then just Verbally!  This is not rocket science but we are going to point it out.  Non-verbal communication is huge in the lifestyle, body langu...

Welcome to the first Rant after KWN.  I new I would i have some things to talk about.  2022 is the year of making a stand.  It is time the lifestyle makes a stand against the people that do not think the rules apply to them.  The people that put events and parties in jeopardy and the ability of promotors to use the venues again.  we all want to have a good time, but the rules are in place for a re...

The rant was recorded before Krazy Winter nights.  This week we talk about haters, how we respond to haters and when the haters have to eat crow!  Yes we have haters (hard to believe).  Really this week is about learning how to be an adult in conversations in the lifestyle even if it with idiots.  ( See how this works LOL)   This is about people talking out their ass about things they really do no...

Welcome to week 2 of season 3 and we are back in rare form.  You know people make mistakes and that is ok, but some people keep making the same mistake over and over again.  In the lifestyle that leads to people being uncomfortable, feeling harassed and over just plain drama.  The problem is, these habitual offenders always offer the same lame ass "I am sorry, I forgot"  or "I forgo...

Happy New Year!!!  It is 2022 and the new season of Kasbh's Rant has started!!!!  Welcome to season 3.  SO this week we talk about new beginnings, new starts and making the most of it.  Yep its a clean slate so don't fuck it up.  We talk about what it takes to have a 100% success rate in 2022!  100% success rate of fun for each event you go to!  Make the most of it this year and start of...

This is the one of the deepest rants I have done.  I get extremely real about what it takes to do lifestyle business and more.  IF you ever wanted to really understand what it takes to take and what you are really giving up to "go Big"  You have to be friends with the Monster so to speak.  I truly hope you will give this show a listen and use the knowledge to do more in the lifestyle and...

You know we all want to get laid that is what the lifestyle is about but... What happened to letting things happen natural.  It seems more and more times activities are designed not to meet and get to know people but just get laid.  That is an issue!  Listen to my opinion and you tell me what you think.  In the mean time remember badger, hounding, forcing or intimidating people to participate is N...

 This is one of the most powerful Rants I have ever done!  This weeks show is about fucking Drama! This is simple is this lifestyle for you are not.  Figure it out!  This is a choice.  This week I am going to hit on the key component, we are going to actually go deeper then just, "don't have Drama".  Come on people listen to this show and figure out the basic concepts.  Get a grip. ...

This weeks show is all about the new blood and life that is coming into the lifestyle!  It is so refreshing to have new ideas in any part of your life. whether it is your job or swinging!  So many new individuals and couples are stepping up to put on awesome new events and we need to support them!  Be quick to support, be quick to compliment and be slow to judge and enjoy the new style events that...

This week we talk about the growing trend of people expecting to get laid at every event, or even worse, labeling the event a success or failure based upon sex.  What happened to go to have fun?  What happened to not setting expectations.  These basic qualities need to make a comeback and I talk about why.  If you can not justify the cost of a ticket to got to a lifestyle event unless you get laid...

This week we talk about the very basic common sense of life.  Stop being rude.  How hard is this.  We learned everything we need to know about life in Kindergarten.  Keep your hands to yourself look with your eyes,  don't interrupt.  COMMON SENSE!   It does not matter how much you want to get laid, being a rude ass will not help you.  How hard is it to wait until someone is done talking to ge...

Sometimes the title really does say it all.  This week we are back to trying to educated the idiots to make the lifestyle better.  The reality is people need to have some sort of concept of volume.  We talk about the people that just don't care who knows what and the people that are ear rapped by these idiots.  Be smart, be respectful.  Hell half of this rant is not just focused on the concep...

this week the rant gets deep.  Put on your philosophical hats on and close your eyes and open your mind,  Yeah I can go deep and look at the big picture and not just bitch.  SO this is the challenge are you ready to think about the lifestyle on any other level other then just simple fucking?  Why, well if we are going to take the basic animalist part of the lifestyle away then lets really go deep...

Yes we are all excited to be back at events.  I get it but I called it, once we could get back out people have seemed to forget all about any type of common sense.  This rant is about telling you all to get your heads out of your asses.  Just because it is a lifestyle event does not allow for extremely stupid and stereotypical behavior.  Do you realize that some of the "funny" things you...

This rant is about demanding more!  Why Why Why do we continue to support sketch events and more importantly sketch people.  Why do we continue to bury our heads in the sand versus making people be accountable.  Demand quality, Demand more and demand honesty.  The adult alternative lifestyle is about honesty and communication but we do not require the same thoughts when it comes to events.  Wake u...

This week we talk about just being a damn Swinger.  It gets old to hear everyone introduce yourselves in all of the Kink terms.  Really how about you introduce yourself as a person and fucking lose the damn resume of titles.  At some point it is ok to just be a Fucking swinger.  Do you really need to hammer the kink titles in a swinger event?  Save it!  Some people like to just hook up with others...

This week I call out the Fake rage and anger that is caused by Dick pics.  It is time that people start acting like adults and take some ownership for the reasons some things happen.  Is it right that people send random dick pics? Fuck no it is not but can we do things to make sure you are not in a position to get them?  Fuck yes.  Should you have to change what you do? No, but you have to own you...

This week we do the reminder to keep your hands to your self unless you have permission.  Yep it is the reminder going into the  Halloween holiday season about consent.  People, please just have a little respect and this is not that hard of a topic.  Yes you want to fuck but you have to get permission first.  NO TOUCHING OTHERWISE.  http://www.smokinmeatsbbqtreats.com                              ...

This week we hammer home the point of get a damn grip.  Yep you have to own your own lifestyle experience.  This crap of blaming everyone else for your unhappiness or lack of success is no longer tolerable!  Whiny posts,  lack of willingness to take a look at our self to improve the bullshit must stop!! I do not hold back.  Yep own it and make it better or shut up an get out of the lifestyle.  You...