Kasbh's Rant

This week the title really says it all.   We love sluts in the lifestyle not ATTENTION WHORES.  We are all taking personal journeys and sharing them is totally OK if they can help others, but "sharing" for attention is wrong and annoying.  If you are making the choice to change your life, great make the change, use resources to help you do it.  Trust me people will tell the difference wi...

In response to the Easter Holiday, we talk about ethics and values.  The struggle we have over coming the "dirty Swinger" Tag.  We go deeper and you need to hear this Rant.  It might not be comfortable but it is true.  Listen and re-listen I think you will find the message is the truth. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio http://www.nomorewetspot.com      U...

This week we talk about truly understanding people events and more.  Everyone is not your friend and taking things at "Face Value" can blow up in your face.   Trying new things is good and important, going in uneducated is not!   Lifestyle it is time to dig a little bit deeper to have a better experience. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio http://www.nomor...

This week is all about being real and taking a look at who you are supporting and hanging out with.  The person that enables others is just as responsible as the person committing the sin or the good work.  So what does it say about you if you are hanging with the folks that create drama, lie, cheat, rip people off etc.  Time to break out the mirror for all of us. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR...

This week we talk about the problem when we share our opinions.  This is a must listen to episode!  Opinions lead to Drama and that is what no one in the lifestyle wants.  We need to learn about keeping our Opinions to our selves!  Give this weeks show a listen and make a change for a better you!  +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://shamelesscare.com/ed-trial...

This week we talk about telling someone.  Telling someone when some thing happens versus waiting.  Taking responsibility and stop hiding behind excuses.   We each have a responsibilty to help make sure bad things do  not happen to someone else.  Secrets do not make friends.  If something is happening to you then it is happening to someone else also!  Make a difference. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO AP...

This week we talk about the punishment for breaking some of the most important and fundamental rules of the lifestyle.  We take an honest look at the the screaming for public shame and humiliation and what does it really do.  Are we really looking for results are just "blood lust"  Drama is out of our control but how we deal with it is.  Here is my take on the reasons why public is not b...

Ok folks here is one of the greatest secrets to make the lifestyle better, Accountability!  In all aspects, from testing, to use of booze and drugs and even money!  Yes we are calling it out because the message needs to be heard!  Yes the reality is Swingers love to find excuses versus being accountable for their action.  Listen to this rant you will be glad you did. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP...

The love and support of your spouse or SO is awesome, the fact they want to help you and have your back  is so important, but can they go over the top? YES!! Help is not always wanted or is not always helpful!  You must learn and know the difference.  The lifestyle involves emotions, feelings, comfort and can not be forced!  Listen to this rant if you really want to help your SO and not go over th...

This week it is all about relationship Drama! Drama is Drama and no one wants it.  So keep your break ups, divorces,  Poly Nightmares where they belong, in private!   It is one thing to talk to close friends, or even Social media, or event planners if something could be an issue.  Spraying your side of a bad situation all over social media, at every event, etc  making everyone else feel uncomforta...

This week the rant is about the big picture, it is about stopping the narrow vision that nothing can change.  We use real examples and put a challenge to each of you for 2023.   It is time the Lifestyle actually opened their mind!! +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://shamelesscare.com/ed-trial-offer/?ref=115 http://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com http://www.full...

It is almost time for Krazy Winter Nights and hotel take overs and events all over the country!   We talk about Cliquey events and how bad they are.  Here is the question is every event a clique or are we miss reading the situation?   What can you do to make an event NOT Cliquey.  What can you do as a new person or an experienced swinger.  Give this show a listen and see what you can learn today!...

New Year New season.  Welcome to Season 4 .  This week we are all about the new year, the new beginning and what you are going to do with the new year and the lifestyle.  The best part about the new year is a chance to completely reinvent yourself and to change your attitude and improve your world, even your swinger world.  Give the show a listen and get ready for an incredible new year. +GET YOUR...

This week we talk about the Weaponizing of the lifestyle and the damage that it does.  We also talk about how it happens and maybe some ideas on how to make it stop or prevent it.  Give this show a listen and hopefully help to make the lifestyle better.  Are you working to hurt others with the lifestyle or not.  How can you make the lifestyle better today! +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH AP...

This week their is no holding back!!  It is really time that swingers own their tittle.  Many people think swingers are assholes and to a large degree they are right!  Yep I said it.  It time if we want to change the image we need to change the actions and we need to change them locally, regionally and nationally.  If this episode pisses you off,  sorry not sorry. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR...

The name says it all.  Reflections on getting better, reflections on growth and reflections on what the future holds listen to the show.  You might be surprised.  The ethical Non Monogamy world we live in has some much room for growth. ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://shamelesscare.com/ed-trial-offer/?ref=115 http://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com http://www...

This week the show is all about not being rude.  Common Courtesy is important.  Being honest and understanding what you do has effects.  You Need to listen to this show and not be that person.  YES  it does happen to everyone.  GIve this show a listen and make a difference! ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://shamelesscare.com/ed-trial-offer/?ref=115 http://...

This week we talk about a very serious and real concern after you have been in the lifestyle for any length of time, Complacency.  Not listening and looking or insuring your SO or Spouse is on the same page.  Not constantly insuring the quality of your main relationship.  Complacency can so quickly and easily lead to becoming a victims of the lifestyle.  Listen to this show and do the check up you...

We talk about it all the time, the lifestyle is a chose your own adventure, your experience  your vision.  The question is what is your vision and why is it important.  You need to know what you want your events to be like, the events you go to, the people you hang with.  How do you know if the lifestyle is living up to your expectations if you are going in blind.  Give this show a listen and I th...

This weeks rant is somewhat of deeper reflections for me personally.  A very realistic look at the lifestyle, friends no longer in and friends that have become victims of the lifestyle.    Like any powerful force, the lifestyle must always be respected and we must stay diligent because left unchecked  the lifestyle can be brutal.  Really like most things, some of the most dangerous things are also...

This week we talk all about finding what is really sexy.  We spend so much time worrying about things that are only skin deep and totally forget, that self confidence is sexy.  Give this week a listen, see if you maybe you are working on the wrong thing or worrying about the wrong thing in the lifestyle. ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://shamelesscare.com/...

This week it is about safety and accountability.  It is about what you should expect when it comes to the social media groups you are on.  It is about taking the time to ready what the rules of groups and then THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH THEY DO OR DO NOT VALUE YOU!  It is about expecting more and stop settling.  There are many "risky" things we do in the lifestyle and not all of them can be...

This week we take a deeper look at what the lifestyle brings to the table, the table of life.  Is the lifestyle positive or negative.  Is their value to the work that influencers do?  Is the lifestyle a positive or negative on and in society.  Yep a rant that goes a bit deeper but it still a tremendous way to learn, if you let. I will be excited to hear all your feed back up this rant! ++GET YOUR...

This week we talk about the search for truth, the holy grail.   We know certain events, people, actions , etc in the lifestyle continue to cause us pain and grief.  Yet we keep doing the same thing WHY?  Is the answer really just about the fucking?  Do we continue to do things that cause us pain for sex?  The answer is no.  Will you listen today and look deeper?  Only you can decide how far you ar...

The newest Trend on Social media is the abiltiy to do Anonymous Posts.  What a great way to ask for help with an awkward question.  What a great way to not have to feel like an idiot for asking.  These are true benefits, but is there a down side to the Anonymous post?  Listen to my rant and you will understand how I feel about the topic! ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   F...