It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

The amazing Grace Campbell is back for round two!! Grace joins Lala to dissect some juicy dating dilemma’s. Does penis size matter? Is turning up to a first date with lube a red flag and when should you have 'the relationship label' conversation? Plus Grace tells us her Icks and delivers her Friday night reminder to set you on the right path this weekend. Got a question, an ick story or a red flag...

How do you play the ‘Feeld’? Feeld is a  non-monogamous dating app. Is it possible to have fun on there and stay safe? Ever found yourself at odds with a friend whose views have drastically diverged from yours? Would you let your partner carry on a friendship with his ex? Lala gives her insights and advice on navigating these complex situations. Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need...

La La recalls a hilarious and unnerving encounter from her twenties. Hear how a simple festival meetup and a seemingly innocent picnic date took a shocking turn, taking in drugs, sex and more than a little bit of blood. Enjoy this ‘eye’ opening tale that almost ended in an emergency visit to the hospital and a potential man(hood) slaughter charge! If you’ve got any dating horror stories you’d like...

The Icks are back and this week La La has ‘Lifted’ the hopes of a Lighthouse Family super fan and tackles a new love interest who has never tried lasagne!!?? Plus, the body count discussion is back in this week’s listener Red Flag. Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape...

Your cousin’s older partner makes a move on you, how do you deal with it!? How would you help a friend in an abusive relationship and how do you recognise the red flags?  What affect does porn have on sexual computability and can you change a partner’s sexual habits? Lala answers all these question in this episode! DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas...

Lala discusses the challenges of living with ADHD and the profound effects it has on relationships and everyday tasks. This episode explores ADHD's many layers, the addiction, compulsive behaviour, and even the inadequacies of our education system in accommodating people with ADHD. Glossary of terms used in this episode ADHD - Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a condition that aff...

Lala is joined by the phenomenal Grace Campbell to help navigate the turbulent waters of love and dating. How would you feel if your bestie hooked up with your ex? Would you be alarmed if your date was into water sports? Lala and Grace answer these questions in today’s episode. Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Insta...

How do you spot the 'f**kboys' fresh out of relationships looking for casual encounters? How would you react if you discovered your partner had been hiding a new-born child and baby mum? Is disappearing after sex to wash your penis something to be worried about? Lala gives you her take as she tackles your dilemmas! DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas...

What's your body count? Why does it matter? No... Really. Why does it matter?  Is it a weapon to shame women who like casual sex? Or a way for men to make a smart judgement about their partners? This week Lala runs the numbers and the figures don't look good for body count obsessed men...  DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits o...

Lala unravels the hilarious layers of this week’s Icks stories sent in by the listeners and she’ll be replying to your red flag queries ranging from love bombing to extreme jealously. Plus, she sets you up for a fabulous weekend with her Friday Night reminder to make sure you have an enjoyable weekend centered around self-care, ensuring a weekend devoid of negative encounters. Got a question, an i...

Would you give your boyfriend a free pass to be with another man? How would you tell your friend that is sharing too much of their sex life? Would you share your annoyance when a date gets rearranged? In this week's episode, Lala takes on these questions and shares her thoughts. DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embar...

Lala is speaking with Grace Campbell about the harsh truths surrounding rape, sexual assault, and the justice system. They look at the daunting task of reporting rape, the seemingly insurmountable challenges that survivors encounter in proving their cases in court and the stigma victims face after a verdict is not guilty. DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating d...

How would you approach a covert narcissist? What are your stag do’s and don’ts? How do you get back into the dating scene after a huge betrayal? Lala tackles it all in this week’s episode, answering your questions. DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embarrassing. Lala is here to shed light on those areas of life we’re...

Have you ever found yourself completely infatuated, to the point where it feels like a rollercoaster ride of emotions? Well, you're not alone. Lala unravels the often overlooked yet relatable topic of limerence - an obsessive infatuation that blurs the line between normal crushes and disturbing obsession. Lala delves deep into its addictive nature, its impact on our daily lives, and why it's more...

It’s time for the podcast premiere of f**kboy replies!! Lala’s f**kboy alter ego responds to text messages from someone sick of being the “other women”, a double ghosting and getting turned down to chill. Hilarious ick stories are back and this week with hhhhonions, enjoying a cool breeze, and flexing muscles on Facetime. And there is BIG news…We have an update from one of our listeners from our N...

Have you fallen for a one night stand? When would you tell someone you’d like to date, that you have a 19 month child? Is it ok to text a colleagues’ work phone to ask him on a date? Lala is here every Wednesday to take on all your questions around sex, love, relationships and dating. Listen to what Lala has to say in response to the questions above, from one night stands, approaching a colleague...

Lala is shedding light on the gender debates and looking closely at feminist writer, Caitlin Moran's new book ‘What About Men’ and exploring the recent comments that are circulating on social media. In this episode, Lala is delving into Caitlin’s comments and exploring the realities behind them. DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off li...

Would you wait for someone that has asked for space? Are you triggered when a couple can't speak each others language? What would you say to someone that is negging you on a dating app? Lala is here every Wednesday to take on all your questions around sex, love, relationships and dating. This week Lala is taking on all of the above, from a man pulling back after a strong start, inner triggers abou...

It’s hot take Monday where Lala discusses a topic that is currently being hotly debated. And this week Lala is discussing female misogynist grifters. Have you seen the clips on social media or YouTube or heard these women on podcasts that are saying things like ‘I don’t think women should vote’ or ‘I am blessed to know feminism is a scam’. These are female misogynist grifters that live amongst the...

Lala brings her Instagram (@lalalaletmeexplain) to life with hilarious reactions to your ick stories and sharing her advice to your Red Flag alerts. Plus she’s dropping her Friday Reminder for you to have a f*ck person free weekend. Ever felt an instant repulsion for a seemingly decent person and wondered why? Lala is diving down the rabbit hole of 'The Ick,' that strange sensation that's as hilar...

Would you tell a potential boyfriend if you had previously slept with his two brothers? What does it mean to squirt in the bedroom? And how would you feel if your partner called your labia Flappy and Dumbo? Lala is here every Wednesday to take on all your questions around sex, love, relationships and dating. This week Lala is diving into all of the above from squirting, labia woes and sleeping wit...

Welcome to our first episode of It’s Not You, It’s Them…But It Might Be You. Every Monday Lala brings you her hot take on a hot topic that is currently being hotly debated. And this week Lala is discussing the controversial conversation around sex education. In response to recent comments made by the MP Miriam Cates, Lala delves into the importance, purpose, and role sex education plays in shaping...

In her brand-new podcast, Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trust...