It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

Does your situation-ship or Ex owe you money? Is your partner continuously letting you down? Is your child exploring their sexuality, do you know how best to support them?    Lala helps to answer them all! If you are owed money from your partner or ex partner money and are struggling to get it back you can get help below: Small Claims Mediation Service scmreferrals@justice.gov.uk Telephone: 0300 1...

Why does stabbing someone on the street carry a lower minimum prison sentence than if you are stabbed in your home? Every week, 2 women are killed by their partner in the UK. In this powerful episode Lala tells the stories of women murdered by their partners and calls for action alongside the organisation Killed Women. It is a group set up by mothers of murdered daughters. They are advocating for...

This week you lot get icky with the names men use to refer to your breasts, imitating animals and snoring, plus discussing the value of a pinky promise. Lala also tries to get her head around the red flags that have been flying high in your lives!  If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A So...

Lala has never been this angry: Are you dealing with a partner who is struggling with addiction? Do you think your much older partner is taking advantage of you? Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone you are dating? Lala shares her thoughts on wastemen as she answers three of your dating dilemmas. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Insta...

Lala discusses Women’s Health. What does the Menopause really mean? What does it mean to be a middle aged women? How can women best prepare and embrace their mind and body for the Menopause. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts...

Ashley James joins Lala to answer your love dilemmas. They discuss cheating, being a mother of boys and answer your red flag questions. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcast...

Have you had casual sex and been unable to turn off your feelings? Ever been worried that your partner has cheated and given you BV? Have you been in a situation-ship and felt like you’ve lost all confidence? Lala gives you the real, trustworthy tough love to empower you through the crazy world of relationships and love. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexpl...

Why does Valentines Day hit some of us so hard? Where does it come from? Why does it matter who your with, or not with, on this totally random February day?!  Listen now for Lala's real talk, Val day style. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find mor...

Entering into the game this week are icks regarding giants building the pyramids, a 31 year-old going live on TikTok, and the pure use of the word "panties". Why are these icks SO ICKY?! Lala gets into it! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more...

Are you worried about your partners overprotective behaviour with your child? Does your boyfriend seem perfect but, what's with his hideous mates?! And have you been let down by someone you were really into, and you don't know what to do? Lala gets right to the route of the problem, and helps YOU navigate that wild wild world of relationships. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in...

Ever dated someone, wondering if they're on the apps with other people, or maybe something just doesn't feel right? The Facebook group "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" is here to help, or is it? Lala discusses the pros and cons and what you should be looking out for! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscap...

Unapologetically true to herself, Megan Barton Hanson is well-known for her 2018 stint on Love Island. Now, as an Only Fans creator and podcast host, Megan joins Lala to help answer your dating dilemmas and tells all about her biggest icks! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music...

Are you trying to be a good role-model for a family member, but being shunned? Do you want to get back on the dating scene but don't know where to start? And the big question, have you ever had an orgasm whilst working out?! Lala is back with all the answers! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape tog...

Please note: this episode contains descriptions of sexual abuse Stephen Bear is a sex offender who has been released from prison after serving just 11 months of his 21 month sentence for image based sexual abuse, far less time than it took him to be convicted in the first place. Lala discusses whether justice has really been served, has the law done it's job and what the future is for perpetrators...

This week it's the three C's of icks. AND have you dated someone that looks like he's stepped out of a 90s boyband video?! If not, count yourself lucky...this listener was not so fortunate!  Lala also checks out the red flags you're just not sure on. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A...

Are you unsure about the actions of the man you're about to marry? Is casual sex making you feel bad? Or is your ex still trying to ruin your life? Lala is all ears and ready to help! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from S...

I’m thrilled to announce that a brand-new season of the podcast How to Fail featuring the incredible Elizabeth Day is out now! The show is about celebrating resilience, growth and the wisdom that comes from our failures. Join Elizabeth as she sits down with incredible guests, each sharing three pivotal moment when life didn’t go as planned. From these stumbles, they uncover valuable lessons that p...

Please note: This episode contains descriptions of abuse For the first time ever, the police are investigating a case of virtual rape on a young girl which took place online in the MetaVerse AKA the FUTURE of the internet.  How can this happen? Why are these people doing it? And how can we protect the next generation? Over to you, Lala.  If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch...

This week you lot get icky with Disney, instagram, looking both ways before you cross the road PLUS legitimately one of the ickiest icks we've ever had! Lala also tries to get her head around the red flags that have been flying high in your lives!  If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscap...

Are you having mad feelings towards someone who isn't able to reciprocate? Are you wondering what age the perfect man is?! Or are you struggling to move on from a frightening sexual experience? Lala has ALL the answers! If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Ente...

Please note: this episode contains descriptions of violence against children and human trafficking. Paedophile Hunter groups can have a positive effect on our communities, getting dangerous people off of our streets. What happens, though, when these groups are not managed properly or are even lead by dangerous people themselves? Lala discusses the true effects these untrained groups can have and h...

You lot get icky about crossing the road, tuna baguettes and not enough dressing gowns in this week's Friday episode, and Lala has SOME of her own thoughts on your distress!  Also Lala tests the waters on the texts you're not sure about sending. How would a f*ck boy reply? Lala's in the know!  If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Insta...

Are you feeling low about your body postpartum? Wondering whether to date a guy recovering from addiction? Or maybe you're unsure of whether to intervene with a possible safeguarding issue? Lala let's us know all her feels. If you'd like to be involved and ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music...

As we settle in to 2024, do we REALLY need to transform ourselves into someone we've never been before? Should we be setting more realistic goals to look after ourselves? Or can we put all that to one side and just be, still fabulous US! Lala has some ideas of her own! SPOILER ALERT..... YOU DO YOU BABES XOXO Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram...

New Year....NEW ICKS! JUST because it's 2024, it doesn't mean people are less icky! In this episode Lala delves into Skateboards, Tories, LED lights and....waving! Obvs!  Lala also gives her stance on the red flags you've been seeing ALL OVER THE PLACE! Is it a red flag?! You can be sure Lala will know! Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and le...