I Hate Talking

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 27 of I Hate Talking starts by defining "optimist" and "pessimist" from a dictionary and philosophical perspective, with one host identifying more as an optimist in the philosophical sense (believing good will triumph), but a pessimist in the day-to-day sense (seeing the world as relatively evil). The other host identifies as an optimist, seeing no ben...

Send us Fan Mail  The quote " time is not running out, but it's building up " is discussed and debated. Is time running out or not? Can time be " built up " or is it better to describe experience , memories , and relationships being built, through wise use of your time? Episode 26 of I Hate Talking starts with a discussion of the word "emblematic," defined as ser...

Send us Fan Mail  Pickle juice, ducks, weddings, and long-distance dating. We tackle all these topics in an emblematic episode of I Hate Talking. This is a great episode for new listeners to “dive” in. Episode 25 of I Hate Talking begins with the hosts welcoming new and returning listeners, including those who may have heard test episodes early on. One host reveals a quirky detail: they were going...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 24 of I Hate Talking begins by discussing the word "para" as a root word, inspired by a Joe Rogan episode with Louis Elizondo. While Elizondo correctly defined "para" (meaning "beside" or "alongside of" in Greek), he incorrectly used "parachute" as an example. The hosts clarify that "parachute" comes from Italian...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 23 of I Hate Talking begins by exploring the word "nice" and its etymological journey from meaning "ignorant" in the 13th century to its modern connotation of "pleasant" and "agreeable." The hosts then transition to discussing their "Summer of Camping" challenge, where they tent-camped at least one night per week for 13 we...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 22 of I Hate Talking tackles the concept of mental load, also known as cognitive labor, defined as the cognitive effort required in managing work, relationships, family, and household tasks. The hosts delve into the often invisible and intangible responsibilities involving thinking, planning, and decision-making. The episode explores potential gender disparities in mental...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 21 of I Hate Talking delves into the concept of decision fatigue and choice overload, exploring how both impact people's mental state. Decision fatigue occurs when one becomes overwhelmed by the sheer number of decisions they must make, while choice overload, or the paradox of choice, stems from being overwhelmed by the multitude of options available when making a si...

Send us Fan Mail  Mandela Effect & the “Shazam” Movie Myth The hosts revisit the Mandela Effect, focusing on the widespread false memory of a 1990s movie called “Shazam” starring Sinbad as a genie. In reality, no such movie ever existed. The confusion likely stems from the real 1996 film “Kazaam,” which starred Shaquille O’Neal as a genie. Sinbad himself has publicly denied ever making a genie...

Send us Fan Mail  We discuss the definition, source, and many examples of the Mandela Effect. How many do you remember correctly, or incorrectly?  What amimal laid down with the lamb? What color is Pikachu's tale? What are the lyrics to Mister Rogers' Neighborhood or Queen's We Are The Champions? Why are there so many different Mandela Effects associated with peanut butter?  Episode...

Send us Fan Mail  We then talk about some of our favorite drinks, including: Water Josh Lodi Gratsi - order with this link and get two free Bàcaro glasses. Pickle Juice Episode 18 of I Hate Talking explores the concept of toxicity, specifically in relation to caffeine, alcohol, and even fruits and vegetables. Key Points: 1. Word/Phrase of the Episode: Toxic The hosts define "toxic" as po...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 17 of I Hate Talking continues the money miniseries, focusing on cost tracking and budgeting strategies in light of inflation and money dysmorphia. Key Points: 1. Word/Phrase of the Episode: Naivety The hosts stumble over the pronunciation of "naivety," defining it as a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgment, stemming from the French word "naivete." 2...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 16 of I Hate Talking continues the discussion from the previous episode on money, money dysmorphia, and inflation, focusing on concrete strategies for enduring the current economic climate through budgeting and personal consumption adjustments. Key Points: 1. Intro and "Chicken Wing" The episode begins with a humorous intro about the phrase/word of the episode,...

Send us Fan Mail  Warning: This episode is about the assassination attempt on President Trump on July 13, 2024. It also references the outcomes and deaths related to the events that transpired.  This bonus episode, released on July 13, 2024, discusses the assassination attempt on former President Donald Trump at a Pennsylvania rally. Key Points: The Incident: Trump was shot in the right ear during...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 15 of I Hate Talking discusses dysmorphia, focusing on body dysmorphia and money dysmorphia. Key Points: 1. Defining Dysmorphia The hosts define dysmorphia as a distorted perception of one's physical form or financial situation. While the word implies something is genuinely misshapen, the psychological use refers to a perceived flaw. 2. Body Dysmorphia They discuss t...

Send us Fan Mail  Warning: this episode contains references to 9/11, various wars, and death statistics.  Episode 14 of "I Hate Talking" is a July 4th (Independence Day) special that reflects on American independence, language, and the complexities of U.S. history and identity. Key Topics: Independence Day Context: The episode opens with the hosts expressing their enthusiasm for July 4th...

Send us Fan Mail  Warning: this episode contains reference to shark attacks.  Episode 13 of "I Hate Talking" opens with a discussion about the superstition surrounding the number 13 and its omission in contexts like building floors and episode numbering. The hosts reflect on their reluctance to skip numbers in sequences and share personal anecdotes about encountering missing numbers due...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 12 explores the nuances and meanings of three related words: exhibition, exposition, and expedition, prompted by a listener’s request. The hosts also discuss the challenges of communicating time expectations using common phrases like "in a second" or "in a minute." Key Points: 1. Defining Exhibition, Exposition, and Expedition Expedition: A journey or...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 11 dives into the phrase "que sera sera" ("whatever will be, will be") and explores its meaning, origins, and philosophical implications, especially in relation to fate, control, and acceptance. Key Points: 1. Introduction and Word of the Episode The episode begins with Adam unaware of the topic, creating a spontaneous and candid conversation. The phra...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 10 celebrates reaching double digits in the podcast series and focuses on the origin story ("Genesis") of the podcast itself. Key Highlights: Word of the Episode: Genesis The hosts explore the etymology of "Genesis," tracing its roots through Hebrew (Berisheth), Latin, and Greek, where it means origin, creation, or birth. This ties into the episode&apo...

Send us Fan Mail  Or send us an email at ihatetalkingpodcast@gmail.com . You need to "actively" listen to this episode. Are audio books a valid way to "read"? We explore this and many more topics in this episode.  Episode 9 focuses on the concept of active listening, marking the first time the podcast discusses a phrase rather than a single word. The hosts explore what active l...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 8 centers around the theme of "elastic"—both as a noun (the material) and an adjective (describing something that can stretch and return to its original shape). The hosts use this as a metaphor to explore the concept of elasticity in people, particularly in how individuals process thoughts and conversations. Key Topics Discussed: 1. Word of the Episode: Elastic...

Send us Fan Mail  Main Theme The episode explores the distinction and interplay between narrative (storytelling) and reasoning (facts and logic) in communication, art, and personal experience. Key Points Definition of Narrative: The hosts define narrative as a spoken or written account of connected events—a story—which can be found in literature, art (like sculptures and pictographs), and even eve...

Send us Fan Mail  What does it really mean to be a perfectionist? Episode 6 of “I Hate Talking” explores the concept of being a perfectionist, moving beyond their initial show introduction into more open-ended topics. They discuss the common perception of a perfectionist as someone who demands flawlessness and is self-critical, often with negative or positive connotations, but the dictionary simpl...

Send us Fan Mail  The first episode of the podcast I Hate Talking introduces the show’s focus on etymology, frustrating everyday topics, current events, and random subjects. The hosts explain that etymology—the study of word origins and evolution—will be a recurring theme, with a “word or phrase of the show” featured each episode.  This episode centers on “who hates talking,” highlighting introver...

Send us Fan Mail  Episode 2 of I Hate Talking opens with two featured words: ketogenesis—the metabolic process that produces ketone bodies as an alternative energy source for the body—and cryptocurrency, a digital currency maintained by a decentralized system using cryptography rather than a central authority. The hosts note these words reflect their personal interests and joke about future episod...