HeartsnSpades

Finding your better half is no childsplay. This is one activity that could take a life time. Choosing the right one is a phase people ponder on greatly as it could determines and shapes ones future. There are so many things that go into choosing the right one, for one, both of you have  some very great learning to do, tolerating eachother as pointed out by our guest takes commitment and patie...

In a world that is plagued by virtue signally and identity politics, there has been a better time to remind people about being original and authentic especially to themselves. We just feel the need to conform to the statusquo sometime out of fear or just to play along. In this episode, we examine aspects of our lives that we have changed and asked ourselves if we really needed to make those change...

Colonization has had its numerous impact in Africa and the world at large. Our focus in this conversation is largely centred around Africa and Nigeria. For Nigeria, It has been 62 years of independence yet, we still blame our colonial masters for our current situation. We personally believe that it is time to take responsibility for ourselves and find a solution for ourselves. In this episode we d...

Getting scammed is no joke. You almost feel foolish if not foolish for falling for such deceit. The feeling of getting scammed more than once is even worse. Particularly, in this episode. we look at the reasons people get scammed, we share our experience in getting scammed. We speak about some particular scam stories we are aware of and finally, we discuss how to avoid scams. We would love for you...

Moving abroad, especially when it is by yourself can be a big change. It comes with loneliness in the early months, especially when you do not have anyone there. The question is how do you deal with? In this spectacular episode, we discuss how things were when we moved here, how are fared with the situation of things and how others can create a community over their own. We would also love for you...

The popular bible verse proverbs 13:14 reads "Spare the rod and Spoil the child". Our parents employed this well-known adage very frequently at any slight provocation. Some term the use of the "rod" as abuse while others say it is a form of discipline. The issue is, times have changed, that form of discipline cannot be employed across the world anymore as it is now frowned on in some parts. For us...

The recent growth in technology has seen a great increase in the number of entrepreneurs. People, young people in particular are opting out from the traditional 9-5 jobs to being self-employed and down the line employing others. The thought here is, what other reason could be leading to the increase in entrepreneurs, how can one switch from having a 9-5 job to being self-employed? What are the pro...

In this present age, some of us have to put up a show or live a certain lifestyle even though we are not there yet. We wonder what might be the cause of this and how it affects us… Listen and let us know your thoughts. Enjoy!

There seems to be the growing mindset that one has to move out of their native homes to be successful. This is particularly the case for Africans and Carribeans across the world. We do not neglect the fact that there are successful people in our home countries and we always appreciate them for reminding us that we can infact be successful in our home countries. In this episode, we ask ourselves se...

Moving to a new country sometimes require you to do so many things you never thought you would to make ends meet. Sometimes we have to do some jobs we never thought we would ever do just make sure we have a place to lay our heads at night and have the light turned. In this episode we discussed some of the first jobs we had to do as immigrant and howfar we have come. Cally also gave some gems with...

In this episode, we began by mourning our brothers who lost their lives in Toronto. We also made our stance on Gun violence clear. Touched a little bit on some superstitious beliefs held in African homeS. We then proceeded to discuss how we all met each other. Enjoy

In this episode we talk about reliable friendship, as aspect of fashion, and we give an introduction to the podcast; who we are and what the podcast is about. Enjoy!