Family Disappeared

Lawrence Joss engages in a deep conversation with Charles Achampong about the transformative experience of taking a family trip around the world. They explore themes of parenting, reparenting, emotional inheritance, and the impact of travel on family dynamics. Charles shares insights on legacy, the importance of cultural exposure, and the challenges of navigating family connections, especially in...

Lawrence Joss discusses the emotional complexities surrounding the holidays, particularly for those experiencing parental alienation and estrangement. He emphasizes the importance of acknowledging feelings of grief, loneliness, and frustration while also highlighting coping strategies such as having a plan, seeking community support, and reframing negative thoughts. Joss encourages listeners to cr...

Lawrence Joss continues his conversation with Matthew Brickman, a Supreme Court Certified Mediator in Florida. They delve into the intricacies of mediation, discussing its purpose, the role of mediators, and how to select the right one. Matthew shares insights from his extensive experience, emphasizing the importance of continuous learning and personal growth in the field of mediation. The convers...

Lawrence and Matthew delves into the complexities of family dynamics, particularly focusing on the impact of parental relationships on children. It highlights a troubling incident where a mother instructs her child to make false accusations against the father, leading to legal repercussions and involvement from child services. The discussion emphasizes the emotional and psychological toll such sit...

The conversation delves into the complexities of relationship problems faced by couples, emphasizing the common issues stemming from parenting and intimacy. It highlights the tendency of couples to seek external advice rather than resolving conflicts directly, and critiques the reliance on legal solutions for emotional and relational problems, advocating for a more psychological approach. Key Take...

Lawrence Joss explores the deeper systemic roots of parental alienation, revealing how alienation unfolds gradually through subtle family dynamics rather than appearing overnight. He and Dr. Charlie unpack how cultural norms, family structures, and early relational patterns shape the roles parents step into, and how those roles can quietly shift power, boundaries, and attachment inside the family...

In this highly anticipated Part 2, Lawrence Joss and Dr. Nima Rahmany explore the unconscious dynamics that make relationships feel like a painful dance, especially in the context of family conflict and parental alienation. Dr. Rahmany breaks down the tension between the two core relational fears, abandonment and engulfment, that create the exhausting push-pull pattern in partnerships, and with yo...

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Nima Rami joins Lawrence Joss to uncover how the parts of ourselves we try to hide are the very keys to healing. Together, they explore the transformative practice of shadow work, turning triggers into teachers and pain into purpose. They discuss how true self-regulation begins with co-regulating your younger self, and how embracing your “mess” can break lifelong...

In this conversation, parental alienation expert Lisa Johnson discusses the complexities of navigating custody battles and the impact of communication on children. She emphasizes the importance of building a support team, understanding the role of time in legal proceedings, and the necessity of setting firm boundaries. Lisa also shares strategies for strengthening parent-child bonds and developing...

Lisa Johnson discusses her extensive experience with parental alienation and legal abuse, highlighting the emotional and psychological toll it takes on parents and children. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the legal system, the nuances of parental alienation versus justified estrangement, and the need for support and community among those affected. Lisa shares success stories that o...

In this conversation, the speakers delve into the importance of emotional differentiation and somatic therapy in parenting, particularly in the context of co-parenting and parental alienation. They discuss how understanding one's emotions and boundaries can lead to healthier relationships with children and ex-partners. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-trust, agency, and th...

In this conversation, Lawrence Joss interviews Vivian Marrake, a somatic trauma-informed coach, who shares her insights on somatic therapy and its transformative power in healing emotional pain, particularly in the context of parental alienation. Vivian discusses her personal journey through divorce and how somatic practices helped her reconnect with her body and emotions. The conversation emphasi...

In this enlightening conversation, Gail Kirshenbaum shares her profound journey of forgiveness, focusing on her relationship with her mother and the impact of generational trauma. She emphasizes that forgiveness is a personal journey meant for self-healing rather than condoning past behaviors. Through her experiences, Gail illustrates the importance of understanding the backgrounds of those who ha...

In this episode, Lawrence Joss delves into the complexities of parental alienation, estrangement, and the importance of compassionate communication. He emphasizes the need for a long-term perspective in relationships, the value of community support, and the significance of trusting a child's perspective. Throughout the conversation, he highlights the development of emotional intelligence as a...

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Lawrence Joss discusses the transformative journey from suffering to living, particularly in the context of parental alienation. He emphasizes the importance of community support, creative expression, and emotional intelligence in navigating the complexities of family dynamics. Joss shares personal experiences and insights on how to support childr...

In this episode, Laurence Joss speaks with Daniel Ryan, a UK attorney, about the challenges and realities of the court system, particularly in family law. They discuss the need for a fundamental change in how disputes are handled, the complexities of parental alienation, and the often negative outcomes of court proceedings. Daniel emphasizes the importance of understanding the court's limitat...

In this episode, Laurence Joss interviews Daniel Ryan, a family law attorney from the UK, discussing the complexities of the family court system, the importance of a child-centric approach, and the challenges faced by parents navigating custody battles. Daniel emphasizes the need for mediation and alternative dispute resolution, the financial strains on families, and the commercial nature of the l...

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, host Laurence Joss leads a heartfelt discussion with a panel of parents and grandparents about their experiences with parental alienation and recovery. The conversation explores the transformative power of the 12-step program, the concept of alienation as a family disease, and the importance of community support in the healing process. Panelists s...

This conversation delves into the complexities of parental alienation, exploring personal experiences, emotional struggles, and the importance of community support. The panel discusses the challenges faced in navigating relationships, the role of institutions, and the impact of recovery tools in managing crises. Through shared stories and insights, the discussion highlights the need for patience,...

In this episode, Lawrence Joss interviews Charles McCready, a compassion-based coach who shares insights on parental alienation and the healing journey for parents and children. The conversation covers the importance of understanding child alienation, the dynamics of trust and connection, and the role of grandparents. Charles introduces his nine-step program designed to help parents navigate their...

In this conversation, Lawrence Joss interviews Charles McCready, a parental alienation coach, who shares his personal experiences and insights on the complexities of parental alienation. They discuss the emotional challenges faced by parents, the concept of pre-alienation, and the importance of understanding the child's perspective. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to focus on...

In this episode, Lawrence Joss explores the transformative power of nonviolent communication, sharing personal anecdotes and practical examples. He emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for open dialogue, understanding feelings and needs, and building connections in relationships. Through various scenarios, he illustrates how effective communication can lead to healing and growth, both...

In this episode, Lawrence Joss explores the complexities of estrangement and the transformative power of nonviolent communication (NVC). He discusses the emotional turmoil experienced by both parents and children in estranged relationships, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding. Through real-life examples, he illustrates how NVC can facilitate healing and connection, even in the...

In this episode, Lawrence Joss and John discuss Byron Katie's The Work, a transformative framework for addressing limiting beliefs and emotional pain. They explore the internal processes of dealing with trauma, the impact of thoughts on family dynamics, and the importance of personal agency in finding peace. John shares personal experiences and insights on how The Work has helped him and othe...

In this episode of the Family Disappeared podcast, Laurence Joss engages in a deep conversation with John about Byron Katie's transformative work. They explore the impact of limiting beliefs, particularly in the context of parental alienation and estrangement. John shares his personal journey with the work, detailing how it has helped him navigate emotional pain and trauma. The discussion inc...