Eyes Wide Open

Feeling lost and out of purpose is common, but it's easier to fix than most think. Cyn and Jay break down all the misinformation out there about 'finding your purpose' and propose a more helpful view.

Cyn and Jay break down one of the most misunderstood expressions on earth, "do what you love." Should we care what others think? Or do whatever we love, no matter the consequences? How do we do what I love, exactly? And what does "do what you love" even mean, anyway? Enjoy a wild ride. :)

Flirting tips don't work. Aphrodisiacs don't work. Cyn and Jay dive deep into 5 things no one talks about... that actually do work... to elevate your sex life & intimacy. (Note: Some of them may be a bit controversial.)

Cyn and Jay cover 5 common manifestation mistakes people make when using the law of attraction. The last one is pretty off-the-wall but will get you thinking.

Your most neglected, life-changing super-power gets a deep dive from Cyn's relatable questions and Jay's eye-opening insights in this epic episode. (You can turn your whole life around once you get this, just like this ex-junkie, ex-homeless couple did.) Why listen to 'gurus' who've led a cushy life? Jay's homeless years and Cyn's junkie journey give us a unique perspec...

Cyn cries and heals her perfectionist ways, live, in this frank discussion about perfectionism, idealism, and being good enough. Why listen to 'gurus' who've led a cushy life? Jay's homeless years and Cyn's junkie journey give us a unique perspective on turning your life around regardless of your situation. Our harsh truths may sting, but we don't judge and only come from l...

Does procrastination actually exist? What is an 'urgency matrix' and how does it help us decimate to-do lists with a flick of the wrist? What does Cyn's laser printer have to do with time management? Find out in this high-value episode.

Cyn and J-Ryze shatter the stigma of this insanely powerful, but constantly overlooked, mental health cure. Why listen to 'gurus' who've led a cushy life? Jay's homeless years and Cyn's junkie journey give us a unique perspective on turning your life around regardless of your situation. Our harsh truths may sting, but we don't judge and only come from love to help you grow.

J-Ryze and Cyn dig crazy-deep into what REAL gratitude looks like, and demonstrate how different it is from what society has taught you. They also highlight how game-changing it is to create the life you really want.

This episode puts other relationship coaches to shame. It's the Lamborghini of relationship advice, and it's yours, free. Cyn and Jay dive deep into the overlooked foundations of navigating any relationship successfully. Enjoy!

Cyn unburdens herself of a lot of Mom guilt, Mom shame, body anxiety, and not feeling "good enough" to keep her family together, as J-Ryze takes us deep into the hidden depths of self-esteem, narcissists, and family dynamics.

Cyn inspires J-Ryze to share the 5 Happiness Hacks she used to turn her life around. Cyn's "Life 180" took her from a miserable, aging addict, to a thriving, youthful entrepreneur... ...and now she and Jay teach you how to revolutionize your happiness levels and create a better life, too. P.S. We believe you won't find a better video on happiness on all of the internet, so buckle...

Cyn is not a fan of Andrew Tate, but when she tried to make a video called "5 Reasons Andrew Tate Sucks", she discovered that he seemed to have grown and that she (shockingly) agreed with a lot of his more recent views. More than that, she actually felt comfortable letting Andrew Tate talk to her son! So, she asked J-Ryze to dig deeper into Andrew Tate's views, and as usual, some rev...

Cyn's therapist may not have been great, but ~99% of therapists get at least one of these things wrong. Did yours?

Cyn's mom put her in a mental hospital at 13. Cyn asks J-Ryze whether she's right or wrong to blame her for that. His response takes us on a wild ride covering limblessness, buddha, and the "chain of blame."

Cyn was a die-hard liberal feminist for decades, now she's a party-less trad wife, and she has lots of questions about internalized misogyny, feminists, and trad wives. Jay offers some pretty wise, eye-opening answers. After listening to their conversation, we'd love to know what you think: Who's more misogynistic, trad wives, feminists, or something else...? Why listen to 'gurus&#...

Cyn's been struggling with 'letting go' of parental over-attachment, so she asked J-Ryze about it. The resulting chat is pure fire. Letting go is simple, effective, and recommended by every story you've ever read... but do you understand it well enough to do it? And if you do, are you actually applying it?

Society is full of people pleasers, and parents keep creating more by accident, so chances are you are, or have been, a people pleaser. Cyn and J-Ryze dig deep into people-pleasing trauma and discuss cures that empower you to live so much better. Enjoy!

We've been told more than once that we're "re-parenting people the right way", and part of that job is delivering real talk to a society who may not have gotten much of it. Unfortunately, these truths are strong medicine, and likely to trigger you, but if you're bold enough to handle it, they could unlock the path to your dreams, whether that's fast cars and brimming bank...

What if the people who taught you sexy is 'bad' or 'inappropriate' were... wrong? Since Cyn & J-Ryze ran a kink clothing line for a while and helped OnlyFans models as @thebimbowhisperer , they have many interesting questions and answers about the value of sexiness in today's society. Enjoy the titillating talk :)

No guru covers fear and love this clearly, deeply, and simply. And no coach offers such an easy solution. (P.S. Unsurprisingly, Cyn has a crying revelation in this episode lol!)

Raw, real talk and jaw-dropping life lessons from a busty ex-addict and a high-energy ex-homeless dude. What can they teach you about freedom, following your heart, and spinning traumas into positives?

Networking used to scare Cyn. She claims to be an "introvert", but Jay has something to say about that claim. He then teaches us how to get the hang of networking... a skill that should be as basic as eating or walking, since it's really just a fancy name for "connecting with people."

Men are about half the population, 4 billion or so people... and they play an instrumental role in society, so failing to understand them is, well, pretty bad. Cyn digs deeper into why society treats and approaches men a certain way, and Jay delivers some incredible clarity on the situation.

Cyn starts out feeling pretty strongly about trans activists championing biological men over women, but goes on quite a journey with J-Ryze during the podcast. They cover transphobia, gender language, "what is a woman?", and more. See how it all turns out. :)