Emotional Intelligence Developer

Have you tried everything to succeed, but you're still failing? If you feel that you're now officially at rock bottom, and you're struggling to overcome challenges, this message is for you. I want to let you know that I know where you are, and I know how difficult it is when you're not in control. What is rock bottom if this is not it? This is a question I've asked myself becau...

I remember gossiping about a colleague at work named Steven, and he confronted me about it. It was a group discussion, but my workmates labelled me as the ringleader! Effectively throwing me under the bus. I learned a valuable lesson because the disadvantages of gossiping are that it always backfires. In this message, I'll share why I shouldn't participate in negative talk because gossipin...

Can I heal quickly and move on? For those who've tried to bypass important steps in life, one major setback is that it doesn't work. How old are you? I bet you have old wounds that come up as you reminisce about the past? I know because I have a few I wish I had done differently, but life is life, and doing better tomorrow is the key to development. How much time do I need in order to heal...

The roller-coaster emotions you need to control. I remember the day I lost my job as I was about to be hired full time. My hopes were shattered because I had gone window shopping a few days back; I knew which outfit and shoes I'd buy with my first pay check. Things were looking up until I was informed that after my trial period, I'd be let go. When you lose something, you go through a lot...

How to deal with people's emotions and mood. Have you ever asked yourself... Why me? Why do I have to deal with people who've shown me their true colours? In most cases, you can not cut these people off. It's people you deal with on a day-to-day basis, and understanding what can I learn from spiteful people and their character will help you control your emotions. If you don't have a buffer between...

What can I do to find sustainable inner peace in my life? For the past two weeks, my mind hasn't had a break to detach from my daily routine. We all work hard, but a lot of us find it difficult to rest our minds. A lot of people don't know how to find inner peace, which may lead to health related conditions because our minds are always active. In this message, I'll share why a frequent...

Excerpt: Why is minding your own business important? To be honest, I was never good at minding my own business, but I've learned to keep quiet. I don't react... especially in cases where people run your name through the mud. Minding your business is an art, and learning how to discourage yourself from gossiping develops your well-being. Did you know that I don't view peoples statuses o...

Why it's important to have fact checking programs on social media platforms. Do you know why it's important to read factual information? It's because there's a lot of fake news that can harm your well-being. What are community notes? "On X, Community Notes works by leaving fact-checking up to the community. Approved contributors call out content deemed false or misleading by a...

How to exchange boredom into productivity. Covid-19 revealed a lot to me. I saw how focused I am as a person thanks to self development. I also saw how people's emotions crumbled during the pandemic because they needed outside sources to feel whole and normal. Do you get bored at work or at home? I'll share how I stay productive and what drives me. Why a scene in the movie, Hollow Man, cha...

Excerpt: "The disadvantages of doing something that hurts you. I used to drink. I'd have lots of fun, and I wanted to drink like everybody around me, but I had bad experiences. I stopped drinking because of how alcohol made me feel. The joy was awesome, but the side effects of alcohol made me regret it. In this message, I'll share my thoughts about the disadvantages of alcohol. Do you...

Excerpt: "Why it's important to try one more time. If you're like me, you've heard it all. Motivational messages about how to get rich. Why it's important to stay focused until the end. If you're like me... you've probably tried everything you've ever heard to achieve your goals. But here's a question, Has it worked for you? If not, this message may help you. I'll give you reasons why you should h...

Excerpt: "Why being secretive prevents you from being free. Do you know about the "Don't ask, Don't tell phrase" and where it comes from? This phrase was used in the military to keep people from talking about themselves. From being open about themselves. In this message, I'll highlight why the don't ask, don't tell mindset doesn't work in emotional intelligence because it doesn't help you grow. Wh...

Excerpt: "The key to happiness is to learn how to manage your emotions. Whoever tells you that you can grow in a few easy steps doesn't deserve to motivate you. Why? Because learning about yourself takes time. Why? Because you need to unravel feelings that you both love and hate, and you need to be honest when you do it. In this message, I'll share how to declutter your feelings in seven months be...

Excerpt: "Why you shouldn't work for money. The rat race is something I knew I couldn't do for the rest of my life. I began working at a young age when my friends were advancing in school. So I knew before a lot of them what was coming once they graduated. I had a head start, but the disadvantage is that it meant my options were limited. I didn't have good grades, and whatever job I could pursue h...

Excerpt: "How to manage your emotions using self-confidence techniques. Do you ever think about the past and wonder where you'd be today if you knew what you know now? I battled with this because I used to overthink everything, and it left me vulnerable to emotional attacks. In this message, I'll share how envy cost me some happy years due to an unsettled heart. For a long time, I used to overthin...

Excerpt: "How to consider other people's emotions in order to develop strong bonds with them. I know it sounds simple enough, but a lot of people don't know how to consider other people's emotions in order to develop strong bonds with them. In this message, I'll explain why taking people for granted leads to regret if you don't play your part. I'm not perfect. I share this message knowing the disa...

Excerpt: "How men can deal with personal issues and overcome emotional problems. As a man, growing up, I kept all my secrets private. Real secrets I'd never share no matter how close you were to me. Unfortunately, I had to learn the hard way why asking for help enables you to deal with your problems. I crashed and burned many times when I could've found solutions. Success came when I finally asked...

Excerpt: "The advantages of being yourself in a world full of liars. I hate fake people who pretend to have what they don't have. Did you know that people who lie end up regretting it when reality knocks on the door? This is why fake people hurt their brand, image, and value when you lie. I can give you an example of a silly situation where a liar was caught red-handed. I was walking down the road...

Excerpt: "Why it's important to deflect harmful people in your life. Did you know that your emotions are strong but not that strong? We're all vulnerable to certain triggers, and if you find the right person at the wrong time, your life can change. You can be a cool and calm person until you're not, and learning how to deal with a bigot can save you from unimaginable pain. The definition of a bigo...

Excerpt: "Did you know that a lot of people want to see you fail, especially when you're doing something that benefits your life? Look at celebrities as an example who fall from grace. How quick are the trolls on the internet that laugh and ridicule a jobless celebrity, as if they can do better? It's unfortunate because most of us like to see people fail. That's why it's important to learn how to...

Excerpt: "Why wishful thinking without an action plan leads to failure.  Have you ever tried to change your behaviour but you fell short? It happens when your goal and heart are not aligned. In this message, I'll share insights on how to maximize positive thoughts and ditch wishful thinking. Because thinking, and doing are two different things.  I'm a good planner. When I work, I always take an A4...

Excerpt: "Why anger and uncontrolled emotions lead to outbursts.  I remember the day I had a Twitter meltdown when X was still called Twitter. I did not have control over my emotions, and I knew I was venting, but I didn't care. The outburst happened anyway. In this message, I'll help you understand how to deal with aggression and violent behaviour because it will benefit your life.  During my Twi...

Excerpt: "How to use emotional intelligence to manage bad behavior. Insights on the disadvantages that can lead to a weak mindset. In this message, I'll share my story about how to use emotional intelligence to manage bad behavior. I'm not perfect. I went through challenging periods in my life to understand why it's important to develop your mindset. I used to be paranoid. My mind was weak, and th...

Excerpt: "How to use motivational material to develop your mindset. If you want to succeed, you need to understand why encouraging yourself with motivation boosts confidence. I have a question: How do you succeed in life? Personally, the key to success is 99% effort and 1% of your dream. If you want to succeed, you must be intentional because all goals must have a target, or you'll find yourself r...

Excerpt: "How your spiritual journey empowers your dream to succeed. Is it possible to succeed by chance, or a higher power plays a role in your life? In this message, I'll share with you how your spiritual journey empowers your dream to succeed because you need faith to achieve it. If I conducted an experiment to test how you react to inhaling smelling salt. If you've done it before, you know how...