Embracing All of Me

In this episode, you’ll be gently invited into a space of stillness, self-compassion, and radical acceptance. This is not love you must chase or earn. It's not conditional or performative. This is boundless love—love that holds you exactly as you are. Let this meditation remind you:You are not late. You are not broken. You are not too much. You are here. And that is enough. This is a space to...

Discover the remarkable journey of Steven Spencer, a bisexual bodybuilder, HIV advocate, and trailblazer for queer visibility. In this series finale, Steve opens up about growing up on an Australian cattle farm, coming out in a conservative environment, and championing self-acceptance in the face of biphobia and HIV stigma. From co-founding health initiatives to transforming his mental and physica...

Ever wish you had a personal coach cheering you on when dating gets complicated? Meet Coach Danny Morales—a dynamic relationship mentor for gay and bisexual men. In this candid interview, Coach Danny unpacks everything from setting boundaries and navigating fear to surviving breakups and coming out on your own terms. Learn why “dating yourself first” isn’t just a cute slogan, but the key to buildi...

In a media landscape obsessed with spectacle, DL (down-low) men are often punchlines, predators, or shadows. But what if we stopped moralizing and started listening? In this episode, Ross peels back the layers of DL discourse to explore the survival strategies behind the silence. Through the story of Adam, a bisexual man from Ghana denied asylum in the UK, and his own reflections growing up bisexu...

What happens when “I love you” is answered with a plate of perfectly sliced pears? In this tender, laugh‑out‑loud episode, Ross sits down with Chinese‑Canadian spoken‑word powerhouse Anto Chan to trace the messy alchemy that turns generational pain into punchlines. Together they unpack: ​Ancestral wounds, intergenerational trauma, and the model‑minority cage ​Queerness, masculinity, and why love l...

In this gentle guided meditation, listeners are invited to reconnect with yourself as a living archive, a breathing, evolving, record of memory, emotion, and becoming. Through a somatic journey of the body and a inner visualization, you’ll explore the stories stored in your chest, shoulders, stomach, throat, and beyond. You’ll step inside a quiet room within, a sacred inner archive, where a moment...

What if your name was the gateway to the highest version of yourself? In this episode, host Ross Victory sits down with Zamokuhle Zulu, a South African scholar-activist, lecturer, artist, and writer whose work spans African feminism, decolonial psychology, and building Pan-African LGBTQ+ networks. Zamo shares how reclaiming his bisexual identity meant reconciling personal truth with collective cul...

What does it truly mean to belong, especially when your experiences and identity feel like an anomaly, fragmented and caught between worlds? In this solo episode, host Ross Victory unpacks the complexities of belonging beyond corporate slogans. Through reflections on history, culture, and ancestry, Ross challenges the notion that belonging is a fixed destination. Instead, he offers belonging and t...

In this moving episode, Pastor Xavier shares his journey from growing up in 1960s South Central Los Angeles to relocating to Altadena/Pasadena area, where he faced the devastating 2025 Eaton Fires that destroyed over 9,000 structures and claimed at least 18 lives. He discusses how spoken word poetry became a lifeline for processing trauma in the face of mass destruction and loss. Raised in conserv...

How do you reconcile family expectations, cultural traditions, and queer identity—especially when you’re growing up in rural China? Join host Ross Victory as he sits down with Dr. Chongzheng Wei, a Chinese clinical psychologist and bisexual activist whose extraordinary path spans rural southern China, Thailand, France, and the United States. Hear how Chongzheng navigated stigma, internalized shame...

In this guided meditation from Embracing All of Me , host Ross Victory invites you to release shame, silence, and the inherited weight of stigma. Through breath, visualization, and affirmations, you’ll reconnect with your inner light and remember that you are not broken, in-between, or too much—you are whole. This episode is designed for anyone navigating layered identities, especially those in th...

Free worksheet download link included! In this episode, we explore the “paradox of visibility” within the LGBTQ+ community—especially for those of us who are bisexual/bi+/pan and feel misrepresented in the world at large. Visibility is be a powerful statement of existence and self-worth. Yet it also comes with risks: being seen can make you a target and a political scapegoat, while being erased an...

Join me for an intimate conversation with bisexual English poet Nicholas Cairns, whose raw insights illuminate the intersections of grief, isolation, and the expansive possibilities of Bi joy. Discover how Nick turned to poetry to navigate personal loss—particularly the death of his father—and to process isolation. Learn how embracing his bi+ identity not only fueled his artistic journey but empow...

Dive deep into the mental health needs of bisexual and queer communities of color with Dr. Tangela Roberts, a psychologist and researcher at the University of Buffalo. In this illuminating interview, Dr. Roberts shares her insights on identity development, the dual tracks of representation and policy, funding gaps that disproportionately affect bi+ individuals, despite being the majority of the LG...

Bisexual Mexican American Author Aaron H. Aceves on This Is Why They Hate Us & Writing Queer Latinx Truth What does it cost to write yourself into existence when the stories you need don't exist yet, and what becomes possible when you do it anyway? In this inaugural episode of Embracing All of Me , host Ross Victory sits down with Aaron H. Aceves, bisexual Mexican American author of This I...

Embracing All of Me is a digital house for identity, futurism, language, and self-reunion—centered on bisexual and bi+ people of color worldwide, and anyone craving depth without the noise. Here, we explore the path toward embracing all of ourselves without spectacle. We discover identity without performance through conversations with writers, scientists, pastors, and creators imagining new ways t...