Divorced Dad

I found out...............beware.

The #2 reason for divorce: finance and/or cash issues.  Let's examine.....

What to do about my 17yr old son? - whose caught in some bad co-parenting

What are the hardest things to regain post-divorce?  Self-assurance and confidence are top of the list.  Let's examine......

and a few 2023 resolutions for us. 

I wanted to let the DD community know about "the Dream" we're trying to build.  Let me know your thoughts.....

Let's discuss "spite" - what it means and how it affects us.

What's the best thing that's happened to me since starting this forum? Listening and helping YOU!  Here are a few......

It's holiday time divorced dads: some past perspective and tips handling a dicey time of year.

I'm back from my little "hiatus". 

That's right team, we've finally reached signing day!!  Halleluiah!!

It's been too long.......... But there's much to share.  The holidays were slow, but sometimes slow is fast.

Yup, we went into pre-trial optimistic.  The light quickly turned to clouds and a raging storm fast Now - we're in a full-fledged $%^&*show

We are here!  The old pre-trial is up next.  Can this be the end..................my friend?  

Well my friends, we thought we were at the Endgame.  Not so - back into the stinking Infinity Wars (sorry Marvel). But with a plan Stan, it might not be too far off.

We had our 2/9 "Remote Resolution Plan" meeting.  The foundation is set and the end is near - but my feelings are going haywire.

It's 2021, can it be the year of "the decision":).   The holidays brought reflection on my relationship with my girls, not in a great state - then last week a glimmer of hope, an email from the state.   

Happy holidays to all!  An update on the "case" and some thoughts on how to best deal during this holiday time. 

We've waited a long time, but there's finally some movement.  I spoke w/ my new "ace" attorney who guided me well.  He then reached out to my ex's attorney.........................

Some startling stats around our DD community and a few awesome listener feedback pieces

Here we go folks > I've submitted all my ex's info to my new "shark" attorney and am waiting for his advice on a next move.  It's email refresh all day long.  I'll review where we are and what I sent..............

It's been a long summer into fall with no communication or movement and then BAM, an email drop and here we go.   Now I prepped for this moment for a while....................will it work?  I sure as hell hope so................

July was a full court press to see more of my kids...............I planted a Trojan Horse and it worked:)! And I did a great webinar with the Divorced Dadvocate; https://youtu.be/-pDN-H231rU , plus, got a little insight into my case from the state.

I feel as if I have hit the "stall" segment of this show.  Crickets from the other side.  Do I press the issue or wait patiently?

Sounds like a Star Wars sequel.  The last we spoke a key decision was made...........and we were questioning:  Did we do the right thing?   Whats our next move.? Fear not dads, some solo time during quarantine have brought us to a new, hopefully better direction.