Date, Affirm, The Real

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Are traditional gender roles still relevant when dating with the intention of finding your life partner? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) go into the evolving dynamics of gender roles in dating and relationships. They discuss shifting expectations, personalexperiences, and what truly matters when building a lasting partnership. Tune in for real talk, fre...

We’ve all heard the phrase, "Stick with the devil you know rather than the devil you don’t." But when it comes to relationships, is settling for the familiar—despite its flaws—really better than waiting for the right partner? In this episode, we dive deep into the mindset of staying in unfulfilling relationships out of fear, comfort, or history versus having the patience and faith to wai...

"Ever wonder why we chase relationships? Is it love, companionship, or something else? On this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real*, hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don aka Jr. Lily get real about what drives us to seek connection. They dive into the messy, beautiful reasons behind our search for love—whether it’s to fill a void, find a partner, or just feel less alone. Tune in for a raw, relatable conver...

In this raw and unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a harsh reality— the ways men’s actions reveal they don’t actually like women.  From lying and shaming to cheating and withholding love, we’re unpacking the behaviors that scream  disdain, not devotion. How does a man claim to love a woman yet publicly humiliate her? Why do some men speak so negatively about women—even their own wives—for...

Join hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist as they discuss how love and relationships are evolving in 2025. In this episode, we explore the shift towards authentic connections, the end of love bombing, embracing what you truly want, and navigating changing social norms. Don’t miss this delightful conversation on building lasting, genuine relationships in the modern age! #Authen...

Join Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) as they dive into the dynamics of communication in relationships. In this episode of "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast," we explore the difference between listening and fixing, and what women truly need during tough conversations. Learn how to foster deeper connections and improve your communication skills. Don’t miss this insightful discussion!

In this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast*, Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) explore the typical challenges and deeper issues that men encounter in relationships. From the fear of being vulnerable to uncertainties about commitment and dealing with personal insecurities, they discuss what prevents men from forming meaningful connections. Tune in for an honest discussion about the obstacle...

Breakup is never easy, and having the right person by your side makes all the difference in your healing. What if you choose the wrong person to lean on? In this episode, Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist go through the proper choice of support after a breakup, as well as the likely effects of choosing the wrong one. They are going to talk about everything from deeper emotional p...

Is sacrifice a requirement for love, or is there a healthier way to create balance in relationships? Join hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) as they explore what it really means to give and receive in love. They’ll get real about how much compromise is too much and whether love should always come with a sacrifice

In this episode, hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist tackle one of the biggest challenges in relationships—asking the right questions to build and sustain long-term love. We’ll talk about how certain conversations can reveal true compatibility and strengthen your connection for the future. Drawing from real-life experiences and popular TV relationship scenarios, we’ll guide y...

In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast, Marcus and Don (Jr. Lily) are getting real about the balance between masculinity and vulnerability in relationships. What does it mean to be a “soft man” versus a “masculine man”? Is vulnerability a strength or a weakness in today’s world? We’ll be diving into the perceptions around each, how they impact relationships, and whether embracing a soft...

In this special live episode, all four hosts—Marcus, Don (Jr. Lily), Keya McClain the Poet, and Shimeka the DAR Therapist—come together in person for the first time to dive into the concept of "De-Centering Your Partner" and how it connects to embracing the soft life era. Tune in as they explore what it means to shift the focus from constantly prioritizing your partner to embracing your own peace,...

In this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real*, hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist get deep into the topic of “Decentering Men and Women Deciding on Single.” Together, they unpack what it means to embrace the power and beauty of choosing yourself—whether that's through self-love, focusing on personal growth, or deciding to live a full, thriving life without centering your exist...

In this episode, we explore the growing trend of the "Soft Wife Life." Is it a lifestyle built on privilege, or does it reflect entitlement? Marcus and Don share their thoughts on how this concept impacts modern relationships and what it means for women today. Tune in to hear their perspectives and join the conversation. Don’t forget to like, comment, and share your views!

In this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast*, hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) take on the concept of "Relationship Goals or Relationship Fool's Gold." Are those picture-perfect relationships we admire truly golden, or just a shiny façade? We unpack the differences between the appearance and reality of relationships, and discuss the dangers of using money and material t...

In Part 1 of our four-part series, "The Community that Heals Together," we focus on the journey of rebuilding relationships and strengthening communities through healing and open communication. Join Shimeka, the DAR Therapist, and Keya McClain, the Poet, as they share valuable insights on nurturing genuine connections, resolving past conflicts, and fostering a supportive environment for...

Ever had that awkward moment of deciding who rides in the front seat—your partner or your in-law? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast, Don(Jr. Lily) and Marcus get real about the mixed signals and unspoken rules that can cause tension in relationships. We’re breaking down the messy dynamics, societal norms, and how to handle these situations with care. Join us as we talk about settin...

In this episode of "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast," Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist talk about the roles men and women play in today’s society—whether they’re imposed or assumed—and how these roles shape our relationships. They’ll break down the concepts of masculine and feminine energy and what it all means for finding balance in a partnership. Don’t miss out on thi...

Join "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast" with Marcus Goodwin, Don (Jr. Lily), and special guest Yuel (Chevalier) as we discuss the dynamics of dating single fathers. In this episode, we explore:   - The willingness to date a single dad.   - Insights on dating a single father with primary custody.   - Perspectives from both men and women on the unique challenges and joys of these relationshi...

Welcome to "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast!" In this episode, hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) explore the complexities of modern marriage. Should you be married or not? We'll take a positive look at both choices, delving into the history and cultural significance of marriage. Join us as we discuss the evolving landscape of relationships, the pressures of societal norms, and t...

High Tolerance of Pain! In this episode, Shimeka, the DAR Therapist, and Keya McClain the Poet, explore the burdens of carrying emotional pain and its impact on relationships. Learn how enduring hidden hurts can affect your connections and discover ways to heal and strengthen your emotional well-being. Join us for an insightful discussion on the path to healthier relationships.

Discover the hidden truths behind "Mind Manipulation for the Sake of Control." 🧠💔 In this eye-opening episode, we explore how mind manipulation impacts love and relationships, delving into the ethical implications of controlling behavior. Join the DAR hosts, as they shed light on this complex issue and offer insights into recognizing and overcoming manipulation. Don't miss this cru...

Join Shimeka, the DAR Therapist, and Keya McClain, the Poet, as they dive deep into the emotions stemming from past relationships and how they can impact your future love life. Discover healing strategies, heartfelt advice, and poetic insights to help you move forward and open your heart to new possibilities. Tune in for an honest and transformative conversation!

In this episode of "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast," we dive deep into the unique dynamics of being in a relationship with an entrepreneur. Marcus and Don are joined by special guests: the CEO of She Smokes LLC Danielle Benjamin and Felicia Neal, the successful wife of a fellow entrepreneur. Together, they explore both perspectives on maintaining a healthy and supportive relationship whi...