Creating Her Best Life

Ever feel like you're living by an invisible rulebook? The one that says be nice, don't rock the boat, say yes even when you're screaming no inside ? That's the "Good Girl" trap—and it comes at a cost. In this episode, we're breaking down what it really means to abandon yourself in the name of people-pleasing and perfectionism. From hiding your needs to shaping your choices around how others see y...

In this episode of Creating Her Best Life , we're tackling a big myth: the idea that you need more motivation to get things done. Here's the hard truth—waiting around for motivation to hit might actually be the thing that's keeping you stuck. We all know how it feels to wait for that burst of energy to get started, but here's the catch—motivation is super unreliable. It comes and goes, and if you'...

I keep meeting incredible women who look at themselves like they're broken puzzles missing pieces. Like they're somehow behind in this imaginary race we're all supposedly running. And honestly? It breaks my heart because I see you – and you are NOT a problem that needs solving. In today's episode, we're diving deep into that question that might just change everything: "Who am I when I stop trying...

In this episode, we tackle the tricky topic of expectations. Ever catch yourself expecting someone to just know what you want, only to be disappointed when they don't? I dive into how holding onto these unspoken scripts can not only set others up to fail, but it also blinds us to the real beauty of who they truly are. The key? Sharing our expectations, so we can stop hoping they'll just guess. Tun...

If you've ever felt like you're falling behind in life, this episode is your reminder: you're not behind— you're in the process. I'm breaking down the lies that come up when you start comparing your timeline to someone else's highlight reel or some imaginary version of where you "should" be. That mindset only robs you of joy and either pushes you into burnout or holds you in place. You'll hear why...

In this episode, I'm diving into the subtle, silent habits that quietly sabotage your progress—the ones that don't always look like self-sabotage on the surface. From overcommitting and procrastinating to doubting your own voice, these patterns keep you stuck in cycles that feel productive but lead nowhere. You'll learn how to recognize the hidden ways you block your own breakthroughs, and what it...

I used to think my relationship would get better if only my partner would change, be more present, more affectionate, more anything. But what I've learned is that real change started when I stopped focusing on what he wasn't doing and started looking at how I was showing up. In this episode, I'm sharing what it means to shift a relationship by shifting yourself. Not by shrinking or people-pleasing...

Today's episode is a little something special as we approach our 300th episode! The producers of Creating Her Best Life podcast have taken over the podcast this week and have handpicked a few of the most powerful, eye-opening moments from our last 100 episodes to share with you—moments that we know will give you the encouragement you need to keep moving forward, no matter where you're at in your j...

Ever feel like you're stuck in a rut, like no matter what you do, the next step just feels impossible? I think we've all been there. But here's the thing: there's this quiet force called hope that has a way of sneaking in when we need it most. It's not loud or in-your-face, but it's powerful enough to keep us moving forward, even when we're ready to throw in the towel. In this episode, I'm diving...

Sometimes life feels slow, like you're stuck or falling behind. But this episode is a reminder: good things take time. The growth you can't see—the deep, unseen work—is often the most important part. You're not behind; you're growing roots. And roots matter. Flowers don't last without them. It's easy to get caught up waiting for the visible bloom, but real strength and lasting change are built und...

Ever wake up one day and wonder, "Where did I go?" You're checking boxes, showing up for everyone, juggling roles like mom, wife, boss, caregiver, friend… and somewhere in the shuffle, you got lost. This episode is a heart-to-heart for every woman who's ever felt like she disappeared behind the roles she plays. In this episode of "Creating Her Best Life Now," Coach Jenn and I dive deep into the po...

Ever wake up and think, "Okay… what can I do today to just feel better ?" In this episode, we're getting real about those blah days—the ones where you're running on fumes, your to-do list is giving you side-eye, and you're just trying to make it to bedtime without losing it. We're unpacking simple, doable ways to lift your mood, protect your peace, and maybe even make yourself smile a little. This...

Welcome to a special episode of Creating Your Best Life , where I'm giving you an exclusive sneak peek into my Year of You program when I taught the power of Delaying Your Gratification from my March Workshop. Join me as I share how delaying instant rewards can lead to greater long-term success and fulfillment in life. This isn't just about saying "no" to now; it's about saying "yes" to a future y...

Tired of waiting to "feel" confident before you finally go for it? Yeah… that's not how it works. Confidence doesn't come first—it's the result of taking action, messing up, learning, and doing it anyway. This episode is your reminder to stop letting self-doubt drive the bus. You'll learn how to turn down the volume on that inner critic and grow real, earned confidence—one brave step at a time. No...

We all have dreams—those big, exciting, deep-in-your-soul desires. But if that's true, why do so many of us stay stuck, watching from the sidelines instead of going after what we really want? In this episode, we're getting real about what's actually holding you back (hint: it's probably not what you think). Joining us this episode is BFLY Coach Kelly, who's here to help you uncover the fears, doub...

Ever feel like you're living on autopilot, checking all the right boxes, keeping everyone else happy—but somehow, you're the one running on empty? You're not alone. So many of us get stuck in the cycle of people-pleasing, saying yes when we mean no, and shaping our lives around what others expect instead of what actually makes us happy. But here's the truth: you can't pour from an empty cup. In th...

Ever felt like you're doing something wrong because you're not happy all the time? But what if feeling  all the emotions—good, bad, and everything in between—is actually the whole point? In this episode, I'm unpacking why negative emotions aren't problems to fix but part of the deal. Life is a mix, not a constant high, and that's okay . Let's talk about it. Feeling stuck? Overwhelmed? Ready for mo...

Ever feel like you're just going through the motions—wake up, get things done, repeat—without really feeling present in your own life? That's what I call Robot Mode , and trust me, you're not alone. In this episode, we're talking about why we slip into auto-pilot (spoiler: your nervous system is doing its job, but maybe a little too well). We'll break down the fight, flight, or freeze response and...

Emotions aren't just random waves of chaos trying to ruin your day—they're messengers, trying to tell you something important. But are you actually listening? In this episode, we're diving into the truth about emotions, why we feel them so intensely, and how to stop drowning in what I call "puddle emotions." These are the feelings that keep us stuck, spiraling, or overwhelmed—like guilt, fear, or...

Growth isn't just a trendy concept—it's a fundamental part of becoming who we're meant to be. In this episode of the Creating Your Best Life podcast, I dive into what growth really means, why it matters, and how it shapes the way we navigate life. From the challenges that push us forward to the mindset shifts that make all the difference, I break down the power of growth in a way that's real, rela...

Ever feel like you're running on empty, but life keeps demanding more? Burnout is real, and it doesn't just happen from overworking—it sneaks in when we ignore our own needs, push past our limits, and forget to refill our own cup. I'm breaking down the signs of burnout, why it happens, and the best ways to prevent it before you hit a wall. From setting boundaries to prioritizing rest without guilt...

Life coaching isn't about someone telling you what to do—it's about having a trusted guide who helps you uncover your own answers, break through mental roadblocks, and step into the life you truly want. Think of it like having a personal strategist for your growth, someone who sees your potential even when you don't, and gives you the tools to tap into your own power. Whether you're feeling stuck,...

Your brain is wired to seek out evidence that confirms what you already believe, whether it's "I'm not good enough," "Success isn't for me," or "Mondays are the worst." And guess what? It'll find proof everywhere. But here's the kicker—just because you believe it doesn't mean it's true. This week on Creating Her Best Life Now , we're diving deep into how this sneaky mental habit could be holding y...

Ever feel like you're living the same day over and over again? Like you're stuck in some weird, soul-sucking loop of "meh" and "whatever"? Yeah, we've all been there. Indifference and complacency sneak in like uninvited houseguests, making themselves comfortable while you're too exhausted to kick them out. In this episode, we're getting real about that numbing autopilot mode—why we fall into it, h...

You know those sneaky little thoughts that tell you, "You're not good enough," "You'll never figure it out," or "Who do you think you are?" Yeah, we're calling those out today. In this episode, we're breaking down how to stop letting those limiting beliefs run the show. It's not about magically thinking positive—it's about proving to yourself that those thoughts are flat-out wrong. We'll talk abou...