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A man goes on a rant about women not being grateful for his attention and gets run off the internet. LISTEN TO THE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/single-parent-dating-tips-and-why#details In This Episode: We talk about how much it sucks to realize people you thought were your friends aren’t. I discuss my avoidant attachment and how it was triggered to the point I w...

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast! Sarah and I discuss the merits of a Dating Pre-Nup, whether or not broke people should be dating, and how to cope when your situationship commits to the person they date after you. LISTEN TO THE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-cope-when-your-situationship#details In This Episode: The podcast Sweet Bobby and the dangers o...

Enjoy a teaser of this week’s podcast! With season 2 of And Just Like That around the corner, we talk about the decision to bring Aidan back and again plead to Bring Berger Back. Also included: A woman wants advice about why the guy she’s dating isn’t showing interest in sex, a man gets offended because women call him an incel & profile tips to make more intellectual matches. LISTEN TO THE FULL-LE...

On November 13th, four Idaho University students were brutally murdered after a night out partying. In the following weeks, the internet exploded with theories until a suspect was arrested on December 30th. In this free episode, we talk about internet sleuthing gone wrong, unsettling social media admissions by the alleged killer, his rage toward women, and the misogyny that fueled much of the spec...

Enjoy a teaser to this week’s podcast! We’ve got another mega-episode for our paid subscribers. We talk about pick-up artistry creepiness, men who lose respect for women after sex, and cover the internalized misogyny and incel culture involved with the Idaho 4 case. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/dad-bods-murder-and-pick-up-artists#details In This Episode: T...

It’s New Year’s Eve Eve and the last episode of 2022! We revisit Edward Norton’s scathing letter to New York magazine defending Courtney Love - and women like her - who are complex, messy, and ever-evolving. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/what-i-want-a-man-that-can-handle#details We also discuss why we justify situationships, how to tell if men are threatene...

Merry Crisis! We’ve got an extra-long episode for you guys this week. In the first 30 minutes or so, we get a little person regarding the difficulties around the holidays when you’re single or not close to your family. Then we get into the Coco Briscoe drama and the news we’ve been DYING to share. To skip that part of the show, fast forward to about minute 35:00. There’s an additional 50-60 minute...

One the first day of Christmas, Tik Tok gave to me: …One man a weeping, two Pick Mes picking, three tips for dating app success, and one pretentiously long Medium dating essay about ghosting that Sarah savagely shreds. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/is-what-youre-wearing-keeping-you#details Did she really dump him because of his dog? The problem with first date o...

We have a theory as to why dating apps aren’t working for you and you keep matching with the same types of people over and over. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-stop-matching-with-creeps#details In this episode: Why are men in the year of our lord 2022 refusing to wear condoms? Should a woman tell her friend that her Ex is using her? How men make women...

A man creates The Female Delusion Calculator, and women everywhere laugh. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/why-men-like-to-make-women-the-bad#details In this episode: Why are men in the year of our lord 2022 refusing to wear condoms? Should a woman tell her friend that her Ex is using her? How men make women the bad guy and why they do it Why dating apps are d...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-lose-interest-if-a-woman-pays#details Are women more discerning than men when just looking for sex? How can plus-sized women avoid being accused of catfishing? Do men lose interest if a woman pays? How often should you try to date out of your league? Signs they have no intention of committing. The importance of setting expect...

Ever heard of a buffer date? We have, and we think they’re bullshit. Listen as we explain - AGAIN - why women are demanding more effort from men. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/do-men-lose-interest-if-a-woman-pays#details Are women more discerning than men when just looking for sex? How can plus-sized women avoid being accused of catfishing? Do men lose interest...

In this episode, we discuss why so many men on dating apps are miserable, how guys try to coerce women into sex with faulty logic, and the drama involved with dating multiple men. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/coffee-dates-are-for-cheap-lazy-men#details In This Episode: In This Episode: Why dating apps don’t work for so many people How to handle age-related...

Listen as we blow holes through one mansplainer’s theory about why men refuse to date women their age. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/why-this-is-the-best-time-of-year#details In This Episode: What would happen if women made less effort for first dates Ways we put our safety at risk when dating online that we never even considered How to keep your identity s...

In this episode, we get into why coffee dates are bullshit. It’s great that you prefer coffee dates. That’s not the issue. What’s being pointed out is why men suggest coffee dates in the first place. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/coffee-dates-are-for-cheap-lazy-men#details In This Episode: What would happen if women made less effort for first dates Ways we...

Welcome to a teaser to this week's new podcast episode. A frustrated woman writes a letter about not being able to find a long-term partner and asks for encouragement. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/a-story-about-stalking-and-social#details In This Episode: Are we done sending men noodes yet? Men on Tiktok claiming they’re being sexually harassed How do you...

Boo, you whores. We kick things off with a terrifying story about revenge-porn, stalking, and social media you won’t soon forget. Become a subscriber to listen to the full episode. You’ll receive weekly podcast episodes, exclusive dating advice posts & free admission to our monthly Zoom Dating Advice Session. (Next one is Nov 8.) Listen To The Full Episode Here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-dating-a-fixer-upper#details In The Full Episode: Why are so many Moms threatened by trans women? The problem with dating a “fixer upper” “Nice gestures” from men that are actually insults Ways men try to coerce women into sleeping with them Why do women get played by “medium ugly men?” Men’s fear of rejection...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-dating-a-fixer-upper#details In The Full Episode: Why are so many Moms threatened by trans women? The problem with dating a “fixer upper” “Nice gestures” from men that are actually insults Ways men try to coerce women into sleeping with them Why do women get played by “medium ugly men?” Men’s fear of rejection...

In The Full Episode: How people weaponize silence to get what they want and avoid conversations The difference between scaring someone off and turning them off Can you talk someone out of liking you? Why do people ghost when we start matching their energy? Do you tell your date they smell? Is cheating more painful for men than women?

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/dating-and-dieting-going-dutch-and#details In This Episode: Women who make being married their entire personality 🙄 Do men really know if they want to commit to someone after two dates? A woman wants feedback on dieting in order to get more dates Men’s feedback on women’s dating profile pics and why what they think doesn’t matter W...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/can-women-be-too-independent In The Full Episode: Can women be too independent? Why does so much advice encourage women to downplay their success? Should you follow up with a match that doesn’t respond to your first message? Is it possible someone who isn’t ready for a relationship might change their mind? What made her online...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/smug-love-profile-lies-and-ending#details IN THE FULL EPISODE: We talk about Netflix’s upcoming series The Watcher about a family being terrorized by an anonymous voyeur watching their every move. We offer some solutions to a woman afraid she might end up alone. A woman wants to know if she should lie about her age on her datin...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/is-there-a-shortage-of-single-men#details In This Episode: Are Facebook groups like “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” empowering or toxic? Why other women’s trauma is so compelling Creative ways to meet men over 50 Is there a shortage of single men over 40? Why we often ignore red flags in the beginning of a relationship How long do you...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/is-there-a-shortage-of-single-men#details In This Episode: Are Facebook groups like “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” empowering or toxic? Why other women’s trauma is so compelling Creative ways to meet men over 50 Is there a shortage of single men over 40? Why we often ignore red flags in the beginning of a relationship How long do you...