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Enjoy a teaser from our first Law & Order: FTG (F*ck That Guy) Unit episode. It’s time to break out your deerskin hats and magnifying glasses and help me decipher a mysterious email I received this week from the son of an ex looking for proof of his father's affair. Who *really* wrote this email? I know it wasn't a 17-year-old. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p...

We discuss our thoughts on having an open phone policy with your partner and why you shouldn’t advertise that policy in a dating profile. Telling a stranger you have an open phone policy is one of the fastest ways to attract someone who is controlling and insecure. Agree or disagree? Here’s what else is in store for today’s episode: Why you should never discuss anything related to money or financi...

Let’s discuss the “Where’d She Go?” approach to dating all women should start implementing ASAP. LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on M...

Let’s talk about setting expectations and how to write messages that won't get you unmatched. SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question BECOME A SUBSCRIBER TO You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast for $4 monthly. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember Book A Dating Profil...

The majority of the episode is based on an article and Tiktok about women’s frustration with situationships and the internal conflict we experience when we want to de-center men but also crave a romantic relationship. LISTEN TO THEFULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-do-you-de-center-men-when-you#details SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-ques...

The advice to choose better men is reductive and insulting. It goes much deeper than that. SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscri...

A woman wants to know if she should give a man who abruptly dumped her a second chance. NOPE! No, she should not. Thank you for coming to our Ted Talk. In The Full Episode: Tik Tok’s Aba n Preach Editor (abanpreacheditor) show women the appropriate response when someone who ghosted them returns from the dead. We discuss one sure-fire way to end up dating a low-effort man. The economics of thinness...

This episode is about ensuring you know having certain expectations does not make you needy or demanding. Because f*ck that guy. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/having-standards-does-not-make-you#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes...

A man cancels a date at the last minute, claiming he’s sick. His date gets understandably upset. Even though he showed poor manners, she’s attacked because OF COURSE. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/fck-that-guy-men-are-trash-edition#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly....

In this episode, we’re critiquing (and praising!) men’s dating profiles and sharing ways men demonstrate their emotional intelligence. GET MORE DATING ADVICE To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and Friday’s full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/curren...

I’ll warn everyone ahead of time that this is not a dating-related episode. Sarah and I will be recording again this weekend and have a Nugget posted on Monday. In this episode, we talk about the fatphobic and misogynistic rant Samantha Aquilina (samanthatherese6), Sydney Alexis Norton (bratnorton), and Alyssa McGrath (LunaNoir) went on about me this week (with clips), how online hate towards wome...

Dear Men: The call is coming from inside the house. Stop telling women they're shallow golddiggers. You wrote the playbook. We're just playing by your rules. SUBSCRIBE FOR WEEKLY FULL-LENGTH EPISODES If you enjoy these weekly podcasts and find them insightful, please consider supporting my work. Become a paid subscriber for $5 monthly. You’ll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesday...

A woman writes in and wants to know how to get her new boyfriend to see his Ex trying to sabotage their relationship. Plus, we review men's Bumble dating profiles and unlock new Icks. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES FOR ONLY $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/what-should-she-do-about-his-co-...

If all your brain knows is toxic behavior, all you'll meet is toxic people. Listen to this episode to hear how to fix that. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-stop-dating-toxic-people#details Become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to the full episode. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND SAVE 20% https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember

Enjoy a teaser of today’s 60-minute interview with The Burned Haystack Method’s Jennie Young. You don’t want to miss it. We discussed coded language in men’s dating profiles, messaging clues to tell if someone will waste your time, subtle signs of deception, and much more! Become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to the full episode. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND SAVE 20% https://dateologycoach.subs...

I’m so excited for this episode I can barely contain myself. Ever heard of The Burned Haystack Dating Method? It's where you try to turn off as many men as possible to "burn the haystack" so you can find your needle. The method was developed by Jennie Young, Ph. D. in rhetoric and Prof. @ UW Green Bay. READ THE ARTICLE: https://jennieyoung.medium.com/frustrated-with-the-apps-try-the-burned-haystac...

As single women, we’re often encouraged to prioritize the time and feelings of women in relationships with men over our own. We don’t discuss the grief involved with the prospect of losing a friend to a relationship. Nor do we acknowledge the very normal jealousy and sense of inadequacy that can crop up when a friend makes their relationship their entire personality. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO F...

We're talking healthy boundaries, stripper dating problems, and the chilling revelation Carrie makes about Big in this week's episode of And Just Like That. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE FOR ONLY $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/setting-boundaries-stripper-dating#details In This Episode: A woman learned...

In This Episode: Let's talk about the idea that being chronically single is bad and results from being “too broken.” Also in this episode: A woman’s crush on her therapist inspires a conversation about the connection between trauma and limerance. Join the fun! Become a paid subscriber for $4 a month and get two weekly Nuggets of Dating Advice podcast episodes and one weekly full-length Dateology C...

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/women-are-freezing-their-eggs-because#details In This Episode: We discuss a listener-submitted letter about a dehumanizing experience with a man on a dating app. How some men disguise their sexual dysfunction by not showing interest in physical intimacy and by “being respectful.” We review an article stating that the lack of quality...

Listen to three examples of men lecturing women about having standards and preferences. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/welcome-to-whiny-men-on-the-internet#details SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20% - PAY ONLY $4 A MONTH Join the fun! Become a paid subscriber at $4 a month and get access to weekly full-length podcast episodes and regular Nuggets of Dating Wisdom mini-podcast...

Enjoy our re-cap of And Just Like That Episode 5. In this week's installment, we learn Carrie is still socially inappropriate and makes us cringe. Also, the writers finally expose Che Diaz. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/men-using-manipulative-therapy-speak#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES & SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember...

He told her he thinks they should be FWB before dating. Bless his heart. He thinks the decision is up to him. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/myth-buster-women-not-men-are-the#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES & SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

Listen to a story about a real-life Carrie, Big, Aidan toxic love triangle LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

Boy are those feminine energy coaches going to be PISSED. We discuss an NPR article that shatters the myth that men are hunters who like the chase. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ In This Episode: A woman fears a man will reject her if her appearance c...