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We're talking creepy male feminists, woo-woo wellness influencers and problematic women-on-women criticism. We also school Jay on the fact that not all women want to be someone's girlfriend. FIGHTING THE TYRANNY OF NICENESS https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/feb/15/feminism-feminists-tyranny-niceness-complexity WHY DO WOMEN KEEP DUMPING HIM https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-do-women-keep-...

We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past dates; toxic boyfriends who pit women against each other; and the uglier side of being a Sugar Baby. SUGAR COATED PIMPING https://www.truthdig.com/articles/sugaring-is-sugar-coated-pimping/ MY FIANCE'S STALKER DELIVERED MY PIZZA https://psiloveyou.xyz/my-fiances-s...

We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic attacks, why everybody loves Laura Dern and that 3 hr borefest known as The Oscars. We're thirsty bitches, so follow us on Instagram @1sarahg @thechristanm The Alleged Mastermind of the Sarah Lawrence ‘Cult’ Has Been Charged https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2020/02/s...

Think your dates are intimidated by you? THINK AGAIN! We dissect the myth that men are too intimidated by strong successful women to date them, that choosing to be single is awesome and sometimes - just sometimes - it's you, not them. We also side-eye a guy named TJ who desperately wants to date hot young women but is far too virtuous to lie about his age even though EVERYBODY says he should. Fina...

Women get shit done. That's what you'll be saying after hearing the true story of grifter romance scammer Derek Alldred. Learn how he juggled multiple identities and relationships while conning single women out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. And stay the hell away from Our Time! We also parse a letter from DL, a man who hasn't had sex in 10 years and wants to know how to navigate a casual ho...

This episode we have guest co-host and women's empowerment coach Heidi B talking about unhealthy dating patterns, insensitive fuckbuddies, Cool Girl Syndrome and this week's Oscar nominations. Oh, and dogs! READ THIS WEEK'S DATING QUESTION HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/casual-sex-trauma-rude-f-ckbuddies Note: The audio on this one is a little janky, but the stories Heidi and I tell abou...

Guy resents paying for dates, thinks all women are spoiled. Groundbreaking. READ CECELIA'S LETTER & COMMENT HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/is-he-cheap-or-just-bitter

When you have sex does not determine if you'll make a good partner. Fun Fact: The 3 Date Rule is not a thing. Never was! Never forget: Nobody gets to decide if your relationship material but you. READ NICOLE'S LETTER HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/is-he-just-in-it-for-the-sex

Guys! Tinder Tips to beat the algorithm And...Barb's man dirty dances with his unhealthily close female friend and he doesn't get why that's a problem. We also reflect on a lovely article that inspires women to stop fearing they'll die alone and stay hopeful. We also give some real talk to FitGirl, who fears she looks to young and vibrant and men her age won't date her. Because, like, that's a thi...

She thought she met Mr. Right. Girl, you dodged a bullet.

Pilot Girl wonders if she went too far by playing hard to get. READ HER LETTER HERE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/why-playing-hard-to-get-never-works

We get a little true crime-y this episode with talk about Netflix's Don't F*ck With Cats, Jody Arias and Crazy Girl Sex. Then we parse a letter from Rose, who can't find any hot alpha men her age. After that, we cover cohabitation agreements and men too attached to their Mommies. MY BOYFRIEND WANTS ME TO SIGN A PRE-NUP https://www.thecut.com/2019/12/boyfriend-wants-me-to-sign-a-prenup-before-movin...

We talk about my Devil Wears Prada experience and upcoming Tinder dates, annoying celebrity couples, Jlo's weird history of punching down romantically AND...Audrey responds! She filled us in on her awkward break-up date with slut-shamey Conner. Everyone, Let's Circle Around Justin Timberlake Again and Keep Pointing Our Fingers at Him https://jezebel.com/everyone-lets-circle-around-justin-timberlak...

Audrey, this one's for you! We're talking sexual history conversations, slut-shaming by men and women with fragile egos & why nobody cares if your toddler can't fall sleep, lady. SARAH'S KICK-ASS RESPONSE TO AUDREY'S RESPONSE: https://www.womenologypod.com/post/f-ck-that-guy-mansplainy-slut-shamer-edition DEAR PRUDENCE https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/12/neighbors-illegal-rental-building-code...

Happy Thanksgiving! We're talking Turkey Day Family Drama, Tinder fails, Hallmark movies and why women shouldn't ask men out. We also cover signs a guy is just looking to get laid, why testing our dates is a bad move and the best way to make online dating as awful as possible. DO I HAVE TO REIMBURSE MY SISTER FOR HOSTING THANKS GIVING? https://www.thecut.com/2019/11/reimburse-my-sister-for-hosting...

TRIGGER WARNING: Discussions and sound clips of verbal abuse. This episode covers abusive boyfriends, how every superwoman needs a nemesis, co-worker crushes that backfire and bad online dating etiquette. Am I Too Obsessed With My Nemesis? https://www.thecut.com/2019/11/ask-polly-am-i-too-obsessed-with-my-nemesis.html

Did you know Vagina Panic was a thing? It sure is! We're talking about spoiled cheating sisters, Dads obsessed with daughter's virginity and dating when you need more me-time than your partner can handle. My Sister Called Off Her Wedding and Is Furious I’m Going on Her Honeymoon https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/10/dear-prudence-sister-called-off-wedding-who-takes-honeymoon.html Why do so many...

Ugh. This episode covers why most men should never be trusted ever. Among other things, we talk about men who cheat and and guys who gets off stringing women along. NOTE: We discuss an article posted on The Daily Mail, but because that site is a dumpster fire that posted nude photos of a woman without her consent, we won't be linking to it.

Today we're talking about SoIntoHim and her, uh, *interest* in a trainer at her gym. Is he afraid to get hurt? Just really busy? Or does he worry he's going to find a bunny boiling on his stove? Tune in to find out. Plus we talk about Dennis Quaid's 65 yr. old penis, Amazon's mediocre Modern Love and review the insanely sexist do's and dont's discussed at a women's leadership seminar. Women At Ern...

We're talking bridal and wedding shower scams, office politics and whether or not how much your date spends on you really matters. Also check out the new Matreon - where women are paid for the emotional labor involved with listening to stupid whiny men. 4 Bridesmaid Duties You Should Absolutely Say No To https://betches.com/4-bridesmaid-duties-you-should-absolutely-say-no-to/ Does How Much He Spen...

TW: ASSAULT We discuss a groom-to-be that assaulted a bridesmaid; alimony for men & which dating apps work best and why. We also read a dating advice letter from a listener and rant about bad tippers. What Is “Manimony” and How Does It Affect Women? https://www.brides.com/story/what-is-manimony-and-how-does-it-affect-women Groom sexually assaulted bridesmaid days before his wedding https://www.nbc...

We're talking ageism when job hunting, creepy serial killers, sex with younger men and why social media cray cray will keep you single. Man wins $750,000 lawsuit against his ex-wife's lover https://www.cnn.com/videos/us/2019/10/03/north-carolina-divorce-alienation-affection-law-vpx.witn Darkness on the Edge of Cougartown https://www.thecut.com/2019/10/what-no-one-tells-you-about-dating-a-younger-m...

A man wants his fiancee to help pay his student loans; a woman can't stop being a black hole of need and a boyfriend in love with his best friend. Plus, a listener writes in wondering if her new guy is relationship material or just wasting her time. Help! Shouldn’t My Fiancée Help Me Pay Off My $230,000 of Student Debt? https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/09/student-loans-marriage-advice.html ‘I...

Brace yourself, because this one gets a little filthy. We talk being secretly slutty, women's sexual desire, screwing a co-worker and - of course - that article from The Cut. I WAS CAROLINE CALLOWAY https://www.thecut.com/2019/09/the-story-of-caroline-calloway-and-her-ghostwriter-natalie.html ARE STRAIGHT WOMEN OK? https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/shannonkeating/lisa-taddeo-three-women-are-str...

In this bonus episode: How narcissists keep tabs on their supply long after the relationship is over and a a self-absorbed Mom who's afraid her non-binary daughter won't give her anything to brag about on Facebook. My Kid Is Non-Binary And I Can't Get Over It https://www.thecut.com/2019/09/ask-polly-my-kid-is-nonbinary-and-i-cant-get-over-it.html Why do survivors of narcissistic abuse feel so comp...