Building Better Marriages Podcast

Feeling behind this year? You're not alone. In this heartfelt mid-year reflection, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to release guilt, receive grace, and reset your heart with God's truth. Discover how to move forward in faith, not frustration, and embrace the rest of this year with peace and purpose.“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” —Isaiah 43:18–19 (...

Have you ever looked back on your life and felt shame, regret, or disappointment? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that God doesn’t waste a single chapter of your story. Whether you're navigating marriage struggles, personal growth, or spiritual renewal, this message will help you see your past through the lens of grace, not guilt. You’ll learn: Why your story matters How God can us...

In this powerful episode, Dr. Deborah dives into Jeremiah 15:19 to explore what it really means to be an influencer for God’s glory in a culture driven by popularity and platform. You’ll learn how godly influence differs from worldly influence and how to stand firm in your faith without being swayed by the noise around you. Whether you’re mentoring others, building a Christ-centered marriage, or s...

Does it feel like the love in your marriage has gone cold? You’re not alone—and there is hope. In this encore presentation of one of our most downloaded episodes, “What Do I Do When the Spark Fades?”, we revisit one of the most common and heartbreaking questions Christian couples ask. If you've ever whispered to yourself, "I still love my spouse, but we feel like strangers", this message is for yo...

Feeling stretched thin and spiritually drained? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah Skomba offers faith-filled encouragement and practical, biblical strategies to help busy Christian women care for themselves without guilt. Learn what true self-care looks like—far beyond bubble baths—and why Jesus modeled the importance of rest and renewal. From spiritual habits to healthy bo...

Are you staying silent in your marriage to avoid conflict? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores three powerful questions couples often avoid to " keep the peace.” Discover how silence can harm your connection and how biblical truth and loving communication can lead to healing, trust, and lasting intimacy. What You’ll Learn: ✅ The difference between false peace and true peace ✅ 3 hard but necess...

Are you feeling stuck in your marriage or unsure how to build a strong one before you say “I do”? In this episode, Dr. Deborah shares 3 biblical keys from Nehemiah to help you overcome obstacles in your relationship through prayer, planning, and protection. Whether preparing for marriage or restoring what feels broken, you’ll walk away with Christ-centered hope and practical steps. Listen now + bo...

Are you feeling distant from your spouse even though you’re doing life together? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, I explore what to do when emotional connection fades and conversations stop. Learn practical ways to reconnect, communicate with grace, and restore intimacy in your marriage using biblical truth. This episode includes: 4 steps to rebuild emotional connection A prayer to in...

In today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage. Ready to go deeper? Book a free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and get personal guidance for your season of prep...

In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares why trust is the foundation of every Christ-centered marriage—and how transparency keeps it strong. Learn biblical strategies to rebuild trust after it's been broken, open the door to honest conversations, and create a safe space for emotional connection. Plus, Dr. Deborah prays 5 daily prayers to help you and your spouse walk in truth and grace. Liste...

Dear One, are you carrying emotional wounds from past relationships, heartbreak, or current struggles in your marriage? In this powerful episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to step into God’s healing presence and discover how lasting love starts with a restored heart. Drawing from Psalm 147:3 (NLT), "He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds," Dr. Deborah shares practical, faith-fil...

Before and After the Ring: What If You’re Stronger Than You Think? In today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage. Ready to go deeper? CLICK HERE to book a free 20-minute Heart...

Everyone talks about red flags—but what if your relationship already holds the key to lasting love? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you recognize the spiritual strengths you already have and how to build from them. Perfect for engaged or seriously dating couples who want to build a Christ-centered marriage with purpose and confidence. 📥 Download here the free guide: 10 Questions Every C...

  Everyone talks about red flags—but what if the greatest insight for your relationship lies in what’s already working? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you shift your focus from fear to faith by identifying the God-given strengths in your relationship and how to build from them. You’ll learn how to: Recognize your spiritual assets as a couple Reinforce healthy patterns before marriage Bu...

Welcome back to episode 57 of the Building Better Marriages podcast. I’m so glad you’re here because today, we’re talking about something that can truly change a couple’s life. We will look at what happens before the ring—before the vows, before the dress, and before the honeymoon. I want to help couples and those who care about them understand the red flags and foundations that really matter when...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, showing how God defines love not as a feeling but as action, sacrifice, and commitment. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this message will help you set biblical expectations that lead to deeper trust, healthier intimacy, and stronger Christ-centered relationships. You’ll learn: How to recognize real,...

Why are so many people afraid of true commitment—especially when it comes to marriage? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the fears that hold us back from diving deep into lasting love and why God’s design for marriage is the only way to truly experience the joy, safety, and purpose of covenant love. If you’re ready to move past the fear and into a Christ-centered relationship that reflects His...

What makes a marriage truly thrive? In this episode, Dr. Deborah dives into the five essential foundations of an unshakeable marriage—faith, love, trust, communication, and commitment. She unpacks how these biblical principles create a strong, lasting relationship and share practical ways to build (or rebuild) them in your marriage. Whether you're newly married, years into your journey, or prepari...

Spring is here—a season of renewal, fresh beginnings, and new growth. Just like we set our clocks ahead to embrace longer days, our marriages also need refreshing and intentional change moments. Are you making the necessary adjustments in your relationship to move forward in faith and love? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares a personal story of how God shifted her path from growing flow...

Life doesn’t always go as planned. Sometimes, we step out in faith, pour our hearts into something, and the response isn’t what we expected. In those moments, doubt creeps in, and we wonder if we misheard God. But what if the testing is part of His plan? What if He’s refining us, redirecting us, and preparing us for something greater? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares her own experienc...

"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Matthew 6:21 (NIV) How often do you think about treating yourself—a massage, a facial, a weekend getaway, or even just dinner with a friend—only to stop yourself with the thought, "That’s a lot of money." You might even search for a payment plan or a discount, but deep down, it was never really about the money. The real issue? Believing...

Have you ever found yourself saying, “I don’t need anyone. I can handle it alone”? Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that asking for help is a sign of weakness or that no one would understand your struggles. But here’s the truth—God never intended for you to walk this journey alone. In this episode, we’ll dive into why so many women feel they must carry everything by themselves, the biblical truth a...

"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." — Romans 12:10 In Episode 049, "The Power of Commitment: When Love Gets Tough," Dr. Deborah explores the real meaning of commitment beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover how to navigate difficult seasons in your relationship, why feelings aren't enough to sustain commitment, and how God's blueprint for love can strengthen your...

Are you feeling stuck, uncertain, or longing for more in your life and marriage? In this powerful episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to discover your heart’s song—that unique, God-given purpose that brings clarity, confidence, and joy. Using Isaiah 43:18-19 as our foundation, we’ll explore how to release the weight of the past, embrace the fullness of who God created you to be, and step...

As we step into the new year, it’s easy to look back on our past—our victories, mistakes, and moments of regret. But what if, instead of holding onto guilt, we embraced God’s grace fully? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah dives into the power of grace and how it frees us from shame, renews our spirit, and allows us to walk confidently...