Brain Based Parenting

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Send us Fan Mail Have you ever had a family vacation that seemed more like an adventure from a survival movie? On this special bonus episode of Brain-Based Parenting, join me,  as I recount an unforgettable camping trip to the Rocky Mountains with my family. From a dramatic dog rescue in a raging river to a runaway tent in hurricane-force winds, our seemingly idyllic camping trip quickly turned in...

Send us Fan Mail Can parenting be fun?!?!?!?  Can having fun with you kids actually help their brain development? Find out all about this in today's episode of Brain Based Parenting. Contact: podcasts@calfarley.org  To Donate:  https://secure.calfarley.org/site/Donation2?3358.donation=form1&df_id=3358&mfc_pref=T To Apply: https://apply.workable.com/cal-farleys-boys-ranch/j/25E1226091/...

Send us Fan Mail How can you truly connect with youth and build relationships that last?  Through personal anecdotes and professional wisdom, we explore the tangible impact of time, presence, and emotional availability. Whether you're engaging in everyday activities like sports and chores or simply showing up consistently, our guests share practical tips that underscore the importance of genu...

Send us Fan Mail One of the most important but seemingly difficult responsibilities our parents have is to share our faith with our kids.  In todays episode we talk about strategies and what to talk about to help empower families to have those important conversations Contact: podcasts@calfarley.org  To Donate:  https://secure.calfarley.org/site/Donation2?3358.donation=form1&df_id=3358&mfc_...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to today's episode, where we're tackling a tough but essential topic: how to talk to your kids when they're feeling sad. It's not always easy to know what to say or how to support them, especially when their sadness seems pervasive and isn't linked to a specific event. Our discussion will explore the importance of sitting with them in their discomf...

Send us Fan Mail We continue our discussion on strengthening  communication between parents and children. In today's episode, we're exploring the complexities of conversing with kids, decoding their emotions, and navigating through challenging moments with grace and understanding. From tantrums to heart-to-heart talks, we've gathered insights from experts and parents alike to help y...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode  we explore effective communication strategies for parents aimed at fostering strong connections with their children.  we explore the importance of maintaining a positive relationship with your child during discussions. Our experienced caregivers will share practical tips on building trust, offering support, and guiding children through different developmental stag...

Send us Fan Mail In today's episode, we're discussing teaching social skills to younger children. We'll explore hands-on approaches to fostering healthy relationships, modeling positive behaviors, and guiding children through the nuances of social interactions. Join us as we share valuable strategies to empower your children with the social tools they need to navigate the world arou...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we start a new serries on life skills: From the basics of personal hygiene to the intricacies of financial planning and digital citizenship.  We also discuss the art of communication to fostering critical thinking and problem-solving abilities  we aim to equip you with the tools needed to thrive in today's complex world. Tune in as we unlock the secrets to living a...

Send us Fan Mail Shifting from parental guidance to a friendship dynamic with our over-25s. It's a candid look at the evolution of these relationships, where advice becomes less about directives and more about consultation, and where financial independence isn't just a milestone but a gradual, carefully negotiated handover. We examine the delicate art of standing back yet remaining an un...

Send us Fan Mail Navigating the wilds of young adulthood can be just as treacherous for parents as it is for their fledgling adults. That's why we're bringing you an episode brimming with insights from the front lines of parenting 18 to 25-year-olds.  We're not just talking about surviving this phase; we're talking about thriving in it, as we guide our young adults toward indep...

Send us Fan Mail In today's episode, we're wrapping up our discussion on discipline, focusing on aspects we didn't get to cover earlier. We start by exploring the connection between supervision and discipline, highlighting how supervision remains crucial even as children grow older. We emphasize the importance of modeling behavior and catching challenges early, underscoring the role...

Send us Fan Mail Today we dive into the crucial concept of individualized care  when it comes to more serious incidents with discipline. Our discussion highlights the importance of treating each person as a unique individual, tailoring responses to their specific needs rather than applying one-size-fits-all approaches. We explore how fairness isn't about treating everyone the same but about a...

Send us Fan Mail Often times we focus on the BIG SCARY issues but those hopefully are rare.  What we do deal with on a daily basis are the less significant behavior issues, that when handled well we can prevent many larger issues down the road.   Join us as we talk about meeting needs, practicing re-dos, the difference between time outs and time-ins, and how grounding works with less significant b...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is an introduction into the heart of discipline, revealing its true purpose as a guiding light for our children's growth. We untangle the common misconceptions that paint discipline as punishment and instead, showcase its incredible ability to foster wise decision-making and self-growth in our young ones.  As we navigate the often murky waters of parenting and ed...

Send us Fan Mail Join us today as we talk about  Relationships and Disorganized Attachment.  We delve into the disorganized attachment style, where predictability is a luxury unknown to the child. Day by day, their caregivers' responses fluctuate from warm and loving to absent or even violent. Imagine the turmoil of never knowing what mood your caregiver will be in, and how that uncertainty s...

Send us Fan Mail Join us on a journey through the effects of parenting styles on the lifelong path of attachment, as we contrast the experiences of children with avoidant and ambivalent attachments. With our expert panel, we dissect how an overcontrolling approach can stifle a child's ability to make decisions and cultivate confidence. We examine the psychological threads that connect childho...

Send us Fan Mail  Join us as we navigate the complexities of avoidant attachment, forged in early childhood by caregivers who were consistently unavailable or unresponsive. Through insightful discussions and personal anecdotes, we explore how this attachment style shapes individuals' perceptions of themselves and the world around them. From the origins of avoidant attachment to its profound i...

Send us Fan Mail Parenting in the age of screens and distractions presents unique challenges, but this episode invites you to rediscover the power of Attachment. We share stories and insights on how truly being present and engaging with your child can preempt potential missteps and deepen your understanding of their unique personality. Plus, we explore how play isn't just fun—it's a fund...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever pondered the invisible threads that connect us to our loved ones? Today's episode peels back the layers on the profound concept of attachment in parenting, revealing the ways in which our first bonds with caregivers fundamentally shape our future relationships. We're joined by Sam, Katherine, and Mike, who generously share their personal journeys, shedding...

Send us Fan Mail Today we have some very special guests!!! Larry, Lisa, and Dennis join us to talk about SAMA and its 5 principles.  We dive into how utilizing the SAMA assisting process and the 5 principles can help deal with anger and aggression. For more information please go to: https://satorilearning.com/ Contact: podcasts@calfarley.org  To Donate:  https://secure.calfarley.org/site/Donation2...

Send us Fan Mail Discover the power of "lending" your developed frontal lobe to your teen in need, setting the stage for better choices without extinguishing their fiery independence. Stories from the trenches of adolescence remind us that we're not alone when words sting, and we explore strategies that help keep the family ship afloat. Finally, ready your sails for the journey towa...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt at a loss when your child's emotions run high, wondering how to soothe their turmoil? Join us  as we unravel the mysteries of the limbic system's role in brain development. Our conversation ventures into the heart of emotional regulation, emphasizing why it's essential to connect with our children on a deeper level before jumping to logic and reas...

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secrets of your child's developing mind as we navigate the complexities of the Diencephalon, the brain region instrumental from birth to age three.  We share insights into how this area governs critical functions like sleep and appetite, while also laying the groundwork for emotional regulation and social interactions. Discover why a caregiver's attentive resp...