Bei’s Coffee Corner

Can't believe I've done 20 episodes!! Big yay to myself!

I'm currently reading Talking to Strangers. Let's share some of your favourite books and what book you're currently reading.

Have you ever hit the plateau and felt trapped there forever?

Have you ever had someone in your life who always tell you that you should not overreact or you're too sensitive about something? But they don't know you. They don't know you're sensitive and you care about some things that other people might not mind at all. But who decides it? It's the listen. The receiver. When we hear it, we decide if it makes us uneasy or not. It's never up to the sender or s...

Why do we always feel offended? Have we ever offended other people without realizing it? How can we not feel offended?

What kind of backhanded compliments have you received? Why do you think these are backhanded compliments? How do you react to those kind of compliments?

Everything was unexpected...

What kind of mistakes have I made while learning English? A lot kinds!

What have I been through as a non-native English speaking teacher in an English speaking country?

People like to judge sometimes. But why? How can we not feel offended and not take it personally?

Kinda feeling a chat today.

Are you doing things that you actually like? Or the opposite. If you're doing something you don't like, how would you deal with it?

Sometime when we say we always overthink, we actually don't think enough. What we need to do is to THINK MORE!!!

We have encounter difficult people very often in our life. But so what?

We all have a moment that we just don't want to do anything, even though we know we have A LOT to do. But sometimes, we need to remind ourselves that being unproductive is totally ok.

Most of our time, we don't have to do a lot of things. We decide to do it because we want to. If we want to do it, then we need to stop feeling sorry for ourselves. We will find our way to it. 

How do I know if I'm pretty or not? Who decides that?

This episode is inspired by Ana Akana on YouTube about self-sabotage. When I saw the video, I finally realized what had been wrong with me when it came to achieving goals. Here is what's wrong.

This episode is inspired by The Life Coach School about Because I Want To. She was talking about why we were constantly explaining ourselves and justifying our decisions, and why all of these actually didn't matter at all. Here it come me talking about my "Because I Want To" moment.

This episode is inspired by Mayuko on YouTube talking about imposter syndrome. When I saw it, right away I felt super related. Here come me talking about my own imposter syndrome.