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I bought into the I Kissed Dating Goodbye stuff when I was younger, now I feel dumb for falling for it. What do I do? (17:24-34:02) How do I stop lying? (34:07-49:24) I started going to counseling and they talk about normalizing emotions like shame and guilt. Is that a good idea? (49:29-1:10:22) Closing Song: Psalm 24:1 (The Poolhouse Guru) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago...

Sometimes I get angry and feel like I can't let it go. What should I do? (13:52-31:23) I feel like everything is trying to take me off track. If God wanted me to live a good life, why did He put me among so much messed up stuff? (31:26-48:05) I feel like I have faith the size of a mustard seed, but I'm still struggling. What does that mean? (48:09-1:05:50) Closing Song: Love Lifted Me (The Bridge...

I listen to people debate things in church, and both sides use the Bible. How do I know what to think? (15:36-31:37) How do I figure out what God thinks about big decisions in my life? (31:41-50:10) I am having a hard time feeling discouraged at work, which in my case is a church. What should I do? (50:15-1:16:42) Closing Song: Reset (The Poolhouse Guru) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com th...

Why do we always put other people before God? (16:56-36:31) I have friends I really want to share in this new life with me. What do I do? (36:34-53:08) Jesus says his burden is light, so why are things so hard sometimes? (53:12-1:12:18) Closing Song: Amazing Grace (Deacons Division ft Ezekiel Walker) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask

Is it ungodly to not want to interact with certain family members? (17:19-37:34) How do I go to God for heal when my trauma was based in religious stuff? (37:39-59:04) What should you do when someone talks saved but doesn't walk that way? (59:03-1:15:45) Closing Song: Jesus Loves Me (The Bridge Loud ft Harley Smalley) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (anonym...

I am horrified by the camps at the border. But what I can do beyond "thoughts and prayers"? (17:15-38:47) Psalm 37:4 says to "Delight yourself in the Lord". How does one do that? (38:52-54:27) I posted something on social media to encourage people having a hard time, and someone responded with a really nasty comment. What should I do? (54:31-1:15:37) Closing Song: Micah 6:8 (The Poolhouse Guru) As...

How do I move past problems and debts from my past? (19:19-31:56) I am beginning my first leadership position but I feel insecure as a leader. What should I do? (32:00-46:31) How does what Romans 14:1-13 says about not judging another's servant fit into discernment and accountability? (46:36-1:05:00) Closing Song: Child Of Wandering Will (Lee Younger) The video we reference in the emergency:  http...

Have you ever had a period where you felt like you weren't making an impact? How did you deal with it? (18:12-34:25) My friend wants my help, but I don't know what to tell them. What do I do? (34:29-51:25) What should a modern Christian make of all the brutal things in the Old Testament? (51:29-1:04:24) Closing Song: The King Who Serves (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebri...

How do I stop feeling like I don't deserve God's love? (16:07-34:17) I feel like everything I do to try to make my life better ends up making it worse. Where's the hope? (34:21-54:48) What should I do when people try to Bible me? (54:52-1:18:21) Closing Song: I Come To You (C3) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I'm afraid another social media app would be a time drain. Should I just destroy my phone? (14:32-34:52) How do I finally move on from things? (34:56-52:38) What are good strategies when you feel stuck and can't see how things will get better? (52:42-1:10:31) Closing Song: When The Saints (The Poolhouse Guru) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I'm stuck in a job I hate. What do I do? (15:25-34:26) How do I help my child who is struggling? (34:31-52:42) Jed and Lee talk about their goals and strategies for leading worship. (52:44-1:07:37) Closing Song: The One (Live at The Bridge) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

This week we bring you an exclusive peek at our new radio project focusing on ministering to people in prison. Songs featured: Love Lifted Me I Don’t Wait For Joy Bubba Accept The One Who Sent Him Made In The Image Of The Lord Fatherless Higher Power Thank Harder I Don’t Wait For Joy Bigger Than My Fears Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do I know who I can trust? (13:13-28:00) I set a boundary with my parents and they reacted very badly. What do I do now? (28:04-50:20) I feel like I need to change so many things. How do I know where to start? (50:24-1:04:20) Closing Song: Well Don (Lee Younger) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

Can you guys expand on the idea of finding a throughline in someone's problems? (16:18-32:32) What do you do when everyone is yelling about politics and you feel like a mouse between the lions? (32:37-49:35) How do I keep my promises to God this time? (49:39-1:06:09) Closing Song: Self Control (Lawson) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do you deal with going to church making you feel bad about yourself? (16:15-33:07) What should Christians think and do when it comes to politically loaded symbols? (33:11-56:24) How can I stay on track when I am surrounded by negative people? (56:28-1:12:38) Closing Song: There Is A Fountain (The Bridge Loud ft Thomas Cox) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/as...

How can I help and encourage someone who is struggling with depression? (16:16-32:10) (For more about depression, check out The Bridge Loud 231 where Jed interviews Psychologist Dr. Sunitha Chandy.) My wife is in a deep funk. Should I give her space, or try to get her to take action? (32:15-51:22) When enforcing boundaries with someone, how important is it they understand why you are doing it? (51...

How do I build healthier relationships? (18:39-35:48) Why did Jesus say "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."? (36:00-53:06) Have there been any funny/interesting updates from The Bridge recently? (53:21-1:06:34) Closing Song: Power In The Blood (Ashen Sandaru) Ask A Question saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do you guys approach ministering to people of different cultural and ethnic backgrounds? (15:17-38:37) I'm pretty sure my friend is caught up in a pyramid scheme. What should I do? (38:41-56:44) How can I deal with my emotions in a healthy way? (56:47-1:12:06) Closing Song: The Next Foot (Lee Younger) Ask A Question saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I recently graduated from college, I have no idea what path I want to take. What do I do? (16:55-32:53) How can I learn to be more patient? (32:56-48:34) I know God forgives me, but how do I forgive myself? (48:38-1:04:44) Closing Song: Change That Life (Lawson) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

What are some basics I can stick to when I get theology fatigue? (16:19-38:04) I'm trying to live God's way, but it seems like there are always people and things I have to obey. Am I alone in being frustrated by that? (38:08-59:25) How do I stop beating myself up for being imperfect? (59:29-1:15:16) Closing Song: So Here I Am (Jed Brewer) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.t...

What do I do when I feel like I'm doing fine one minute, then struggling the next? (17:52-33:38) How do I deal with indecisiveness? (33:43-52:42) I try to help people, but how do I know if I am really making a difference? (52:52-1:13:12) Closing Song: Child of God (The Poolhouse Guru) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I feel bad about not reading my Bible or praying regularly. What do I do? (14:52-31:32) Is there a difference between the Biblical commands to love your spouse and love your neighbor? (31:35-52:07) So many popular Christian leaders have turned out to be messed up, am I supposed to have Christian heroes? (52:10-1:17:48) Closing Song: No He Wasn't (The Bridge Loud ft Lins Honeyman) Ask A Question: s...

What are godly virtues? (18:17-31:05) What effect do virtues have on your walk and life? (31:07-42:57) How do you grow in virtues? (43:01-58:45) Closing Song: Be Thou My Vision (Zach Hughes) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

How do you take up your cross? (14:18-30:47) During arguments, I say the kind of hurtful things my parents said to each other. How do I stop it? (30:54-51:05) What does it mean for God to use someone? (51:09-1:10:25) Closing Song: A Mighty Fortress (Pete Lawson) Ask A Question: saythatpodcast@gmail.com thebridgechicago.tumblr.com/ask (Anonymous)

I'm a youth leader. How do I know when confronting a young person is necessary versus when it might make them feel judged and ashamed? (14:19-40:08) People have betrayed my trust in the past, and now I feel like I always have my guard up. What do I do? (40:11-57:37) With all the political and church scandals in the news, how do I let people know that those christians don't speak for me? (57:41-1:1...